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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
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Hi all,
It’s Mrs Rich here. One half of a bi couple and struggling to get any further than winks and a couple of messages. (In fairness most of the time it’s messages from male halves of a couple who are usually not as bi as their profile would allure too!)
But if any experienced fabbers fancies checking out our profile and giving any tips on where we might be putting people off? I’d be v grateful.
If all is good there I may have to accept it’s my dodgy personality.........
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All your pictures are really nice.
Think you’d have more chance with other couples if you state what the Male half likes.
At the moment it’s very much about yourself , which would put a couple like ourselves off.
Purely due to the fact that I as a female half also like to play with the the Male half as well as the female.
However if your man isn’t really bothered and you just want mff then that’s fine
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over a year ago
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"Hi all,
It’s Mrs Rich here. One half of a bi couple and struggling to get any further than winks and a couple of messages. (In fairness most of the time it’s messages from male halves of a couple who are usually not as bi as their profile would allure too!)
But if any experienced fabbers fancies checking out our profile and giving any tips on where we might be putting people off? I’d be v grateful.
If all is good there I may have to accept it’s my dodgy personality.........
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'My needs come first' Doesn't read very well. In fact in makes you sound spoilt and princessy and would put us off even messaging let alone meeting.
As others have said, get the male half more involved on the profile, it comes across as though hes not interested and only doing it because you want too.
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
It’s Mrs Rich here. One half of a bi couple and struggling to get any further than winks and a couple of messages. (In fairness most of the time it’s messages from male halves of a couple who are usually not as bi as their profile would allure too!)
But if any experienced fabbers fancies checking out our profile and giving any tips on where we might be putting people off? I’d be v grateful.
If all is good there I may have to accept it’s my dodgy personality.........
'My needs come first' Doesn't read very well. In fact in makes you sound spoilt and princessy and would put us off even messaging let alone meeting.
As others have said, get the male half more involved on the profile, it comes across as though hes not interested and only doing it because you want too.
Poppy"
Yes I didn’t think of it like that I guess. That’s the second attempt of writing the profile. First attempt was a bit friendlier and got us nowhere so I decided to cut to the chase.
Does make me sounds a bit of a bitch though  |
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouh |
"All your pictures are really nice.
Think you’d have more chance with other couples if you state what the Male half likes.
At the moment it’s very much about yourself , which would put a couple like ourselves off.
Purely due to the fact that I as a female half also like to play with the the Male half as well as the female.
However if your man isn’t really bothered and you just want mff then that’s fine
Miss P "
Yep totally get that. He is definitely bothered so I better demonstrate that.
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Didn’t read it before..
But you’re looking for a single girl who doesn’t mind that your partner likes guys and couples where both parties are ‘bisexual’, seeing to imply that you’d play with her whilst the guys fucked each other. I can see why it’s a tough ask. |
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Didn’t read it before..
But you’re looking for a single girl who doesn’t mind that your partner likes guys and couples where both parties are ‘bisexual’, seeing to imply that you’d play with her whilst the guys fucked each other. I can see why it’s a tough ask. "
No that’s not it at all. Dammit I’ve already changed it once.
The bisexual focus is more of a “we’re not into couples where the guy says they’re bi but aren’t really so much”
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By *rMrsRich OP Couple
over a year ago
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Dammit I might give up. Either way perception and interpretation will always play a factor I guess.
I wouldn’t mind but in both versions I seem to come across as it’s all about me when in all honesty I’d happily sit back and only watch if that was the preference. That’s be enough for me.
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