"Advice please when i mass delete people get up set but i dont reply to any messages as it would take forever any advice pretty please  "
OP use your message filters to cut down on the amount of messages you receive so it makes your inbox more manageable.
You currently have your age range at 18-99 years old. Set it to reflect the ages you actually want to meet and block people who are outside this from messaging you.
You can block non site supporters, people without public photos, newbies, any gender you don't want to get messages from etc.
If it is still too much you can block everyone from sending the first message and then search for those you are interested in and make first contact.
Any filters you set do not apply to anyone you have sent a message to yourself so you can still keep chatting to them.
The site does give us the tools to make it easier to manage things, play around with it until you are happy.
Don't worry too much about replying to everyone, it's difficult to find time to do that. The site FAQ's covers this and says it is not to be considered rude. |
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"Advice please when i mass delete people get up set but i dont reply to any messages as it would take forever any advice pretty please "
Just do whatever you want, it's your profile!
I mass delete |
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I'm assuming that these are people you have never messaged before, or met, or intend to meet, so I would say the folllwjng to you...
1) If people get upset because you delete their message then that's their problem, not yours. 2) It's your profile to run as you wish,
3) You shouldn't have to consider a whole load of strangers feelings on an internet site, only concern yourself with those people who you're interested in.
I know that May sounds harsh but its reality. |
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"I'm assuming that these are people you have never messaged before, or met, or intend to meet, so I would say the folllwjng to you...
1) If people get upset because you delete their message then that's their problem, not yours. 2) It's your profile to run as you wish,
3) You shouldn't have to consider a whole load of strangers feelings on an internet site, only concern yourself with those people who you're interested in.
I know that May sounds harsh but its reality."
(Jeez....please excuse all the typos and bad grammar...it's been a busy day) |
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"I just feel bad when i start getting called rude etc thank you for all your advice lovely people xx"
The messagers choose to send a message, the receivers choose whether to read a message. It's our own choice, don't let it bother you |
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Your profile just says drop me a message. You’re going to get inundated. As previously said, set up your message filters and fill in some detail in your profile about what you are and are not looking for. |
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