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over a year ago
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Do ang of you guys make love when swinging? I know couples will with each other but I'm talkinga out make love with people you meet purely to swing with. |
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"Do ang of you guys make love when swinging? I know couples will with each other but I'm talkinga out make love with people you meet purely to swing with."
Probably helps if you define making love. For those of us in BDSM relationships a large amount of what we do involves a loving approach to our partners, even if we don't love them in the slightly sickly Clinton Cards version of romantic love that leaves a nasty taste at the back of the mouth.
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"Yup, don't care if it's strange you surly mean with people u know? X
Nah, just really comfortable being intimate with strangers.intimacy isn't making love. ...x"
What is making love then? |
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"Yup, don't care if it's strange you surly mean with people u know? X
Nah, just really comfortable being intimate with strangers.intimacy isn't making love. ...x
What is making love then?"
when I make love to my man I listen to his breathing. Tingle when I feel his weight on me when he's on top of me. Being secure in my man's arms... maybe ppl can experience that with total strangers.... |
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"Yup, don't care if it's strange you surly mean with people u know? X
Nah, just really comfortable being intimate with strangers.intimacy isn't making love. ...x
What is making love then?when I make love to my man I listen to his breathing. Tingle when I feel his weight on me when he's on top of me. Being secure in my man's arms... maybe ppl can experience that with total strangers.... "
Yeah I'd just call that intimacy personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yup, don't care if it's strange you surly mean with people u know? X
Nah, just really comfortable being intimate with strangers.intimacy isn't making love. ...x
What is making love then?when I make love to my man I listen to his breathing. Tingle when I feel his weight on me when he's on top of me. Being secure in my man's arms... maybe ppl can experience that with total strangers....
Yeah I'd just call that intimacy personally "
Me too. I'm like that with a lot of men I have sex with. My long term partner is very tactile and sensual; my husband wasn't. |
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If you're asking if I fuck affectionately and intimately... absolutely. I also vary it up with harder more frenzied lustful fucking. But I don't fuck a meet any differently than I would a woman I loved. But if you're asking me if I love my meets. No. And I'm now very careful about not using such words in case it confuses them |
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I much prefer to see my wife being intimate with a guy when we meet . Lots of kissing , stroking , whispering etc.... but however erotic and intimate the meet is , it certainly isn’t making love .
Making love is only possible with someone you’re in love with surely ? And if anyone who meets people for casual sex is falling in love with meets in order to make love to them , then even though we all love to say each to their own , that’s a step to far in my eyes .
But just to be pc I’ll say it anyway , each to their own  |
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"I much prefer to see my wife being intimate with a guy when we meet . Lots of kissing , stroking , whispering etc.... but however erotic and intimate the meet is , it certainly isn’t making love .
Making love is only possible with someone you’re in love with surely ? And if anyone who meets people for casual sex is falling in love with meets in order to make love to them , then even though we all love to say each to their own , that’s a step to far in my eyes .
But just to be pc I’ll say it anyway , each to their own "
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I have a long term F/B it wasnt ment to be anything other than sex, but after a while it became more and we actually love each other, its only because of the distance between us that we are still just FWB and not exclusive to each other, the sex is amazing and we do make love, as well as just fuck the hell out of each other when we meet other  |
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