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 I was going to ask a guy to accompany me to a social I'm attending on Friday but thought better of it and I'm taking a girly pal instead ...... bound to be a great laugh. | |||
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"gangbang/bukkake party organised. 23 guys messaged to say they were coming. 4 messaged to bottle out or say couldn't make it(fair play) 19 DIDN'T show. Not 1!!! Like you say, stop whining guys. " Hahahaha! Point proven, all mouth no trousers and just love attention seeking and having their egos massaged | |||
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"REVERSAL: couples single girls whinging about time wasters n no shows...then think..."oh im /we are leaving the site" selection process as i state well enough, ur selection process is shit. on the other hand i get a mail a wee while ago saying I play too much but would have met me otherwise...... or I get shite saying,they never know if im free.. Make the fucking date/time dont start WHINGING that I try my best to plan ahead.More ofetn than not I take an offer as its give to me. " ignore my fucking keyboard, its doing my head in for spelling!!!!! | |||
"Ok so how many times have we heard single guys whingeing about how they can't get women to meet them? I've asked several single guys to come to a club with me tomorrow night and no takers and yet I get pestered to death most of the time!
Don't anyone dare whinge to me ever again "I don't go to clubs. Not my thing! Have fun! | |||
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"Ok so how many times have we heard single guys whingeing about how they can't get women to meet them? I've asked several single guys to come to a club with me tomorrow night and no takers and yet I get pestered to death most of the time!
Don't anyone dare whinge to me ever again "LOL is it that common? i've actually just started to do that - is it a phase we all go through? like a right of passage? I guess i always knew it to be a bad idea! yet i did it anyway!!! Might need to get back my mojo and shake it all about :D x | |||
"Ok so how many times have we heard single guys whingeing about how they can't get women to meet them? I've asked several single guys to come to a club with me tomorrow night and no takers and yet I get pestered to death most of the time!
Don't anyone dare whinge to me ever again "LOL is it that common? i've actually just started to do that - is it a phase we all go through? like a right of passage? I guess i always knew it to be a bad idea! yet i did it anyway!!! Might need to get back my mojo and shake it all about :D x | |||
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"I was even told rather sniffily by one guy who had been pestering to meet me that there was no way he'd have sex in front of other people or want to watch.others having sex! ms" Live action porn is so enjoyable too. | |||
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"gangbang/bukkake party organised. 23 guys messaged to say they were coming. 4 messaged to bottle out or say couldn't make it(fair play) 19 DIDN'T show. Not 1!!! Like you say, stop whining guys. " OMG can't believe NO ONE showed! sits open mouthed | |||
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"gangbang/bukkake party organised. 23 guys messaged to say they were coming. 4 messaged to bottle out or say couldn't make it(fair play) 19 DIDN'T show. Not 1!!! Like you say, stop whining guys. OMG can't believe NO ONE showed! sits open mouthed" It's not unusual. I've heard similar things from friends on here who have tried to organise gang bangs. Fair enough if it's not your cup of tea and say so upfront but it's annoying when people say they'll definitely be there then don't show. | |||
"I was even told rather sniffily by one guy who had been pestering to meet me that there was no way he'd have sex in front of other people or want to watch.others having sex! ms Live action porn is so enjoyable too. "Couldn't agree more!! the thing that made me smile was that this guy had "I'm up for anything" on his profile!!! | |||
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" Couldn't agree more!! the thing that made me smile was that this guy had "I'm up for anything" on his profile!!!"As long as it is in the dark, and a with a safe "no other person" radius of 30 mile. lol. | |||
"Ok so how many times have we heard single guys whingeing about how they can't get women to meet them? I've asked several single guys to come to a club with me tomorrow night and no takers and yet I get pestered to death most of the time!
Don't anyone dare whinge to me ever again "This is a surprise another whinging thread! Hmmmm profile clearly states you've blocked single guys and you'll decide when you want one! So how exactly do you get bombarded? We can't contact you so sounds like you're miffed at being rejected when they havent jumped at your command.Welcome to the real world! Perhaps your method of selection needs a little work.... Timewasters aren't confined to just men but perhaps to you it feels that way as there's a very good chance they out number couples and single fems so they will be turned down more and complain more and of course a lot of guys perhaps don't understand how swinging works and not to expect that every one will want them. So you've been rejected chalk it up and move on. Also don't forget it costs guys on average £30 entrance fee after £50-£60 or more for membership and as we know you can no longer differentiate cost between the sexes. same fees for all for the same service. So if they are already a member perhaps they don't think you're worth the entrance fee or perhaps that as they know you're a member they're hoping you won't mind going in as a couple and splitting the cost....but as we know that may well be an additional expense for you as you may get in for a fiver or even free. | |||
"gangbang/bukkake party organised. 23 guys messaged to say they were coming. 4 messaged to bottle out or say couldn't make it(fair play) 19 DIDN'T show. Not 1!!! Like you say, stop whining guys. Hahahaha! Point proven, all mouth no trousers and just love attention seeking and having their egos massaged "Must admit most guys are great talkers but there are so great groups about that deliver the goods | |||
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"gangbang/bukkake party organised. 23 guys messaged to say they were coming. 4 messaged to bottle out or say couldn't make it(fair play) 19 DIDN'T show. Not 1!!! Like you say, stop whining guys. Hahahaha! Point proven, all mouth no trousers and just love attention seeking and having their egos massaged "totaly agree most guys like the though but when along cums a woman that knows what she wants, bottle goes, happened to use several times truin to arrang a gangbang, now when i get guys sayin how they would love to join i just reply arrange it and i'll join, lol not 1 so far  | |||
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"Ok so how many times have we heard single guys whingeing about how they can't get women to meet them? I've asked several single guys to come to a club with me tomorrow night and no takers and yet I get pestered to death most of the time!
Don't anyone dare whinge to me ever again
This is a surprise another whinging thread!
Hmmmm profile clearly states you've blocked single guys and you'll decide when you want one!
So how exactly do you get bombarded?
We can't contact you so sounds like you're miffed at being rejected when they havent jumped at your command.Welcome to the real world!
Perhaps your method of selection needs a little work....
Timewasters aren't confined to just men but perhaps to you it feels that way as there's a very good chance they out number couples and single fems so they will be turned down more and complain more and of course a lot of guys perhaps don't understand how swinging works and not to expect that every one will want them.
So you've been rejected chalk it up and move on.
Also don't forget it costs guys on average £30 entrance fee after £50-£60 or more for membership and as we know you can no longer differentiate cost between the sexes. same fees for all for the same service.
So if they are already a member perhaps they don't think you're worth the entrance fee or perhaps that as they know you're a member they're hoping you won't mind going in as a couple and splitting the cost....but as we know that may well be an additional expense for you as you may get in for a fiver or even free.
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"gangbang/bukkake party organised. 23 guys messaged to say they were coming. 4 messaged to bottle out or say couldn't make it(fair play) 19 DIDN'T show. Not 1!!! Like you say, stop whining guys. " some girls are the same ... friend of ours advertised in meets for a girl only night .... none turned up to that either | |||
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"We have the same thing, loads of single guys wanting to meet, tell them to come to our local swingers club ( as we dont want to waste a night on no shows ), they say deffinatly be there, go on and on about how they cant wait to shag me, and guess what ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, yehhh thats right, most dont show. try arrange a fantasy of mine, fare few messages, pic some guys out, to meet at a secluded spot, details all on forum, and guess what.................... Loads of last min excuses etc etc. I agree Stop bloody whining, and put your words into action. Now only do a first meet with a single guy at our local Club, this way we dont waste our night, as always a good night there, xxx" They dont want to pay club fees thats why. they want sex but not have it cost them anything | |||
"They dont want to pay club fees thats why. they want sex but not have it cost them anything "No, it's not only sex that we (When did I become the voice of the single men??) are looking for but also some good times with people... And, yeah, spending £90 for a night in club that can be boring is a risk that not many men would take. (rant is over) Actually, i consider a first meet in a bar as the best meet possible : it's more exciting to tease someone in a place normally not done for that...  | |||
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"They dont want to pay club fees thats why. they want sex but not have it cost them anything
No, it's not only sex that we (When did I become the voice of the single men??) are looking for but also some good times with people...
And, yeah, spending £90 for a night in club that can be boring is a risk that not many men would take.
(rant is over)
Actually, i consider a first meet in a bar as the best meet possible : it's more exciting to tease someone in a place normally not done for that...
"Where do you get £90 from, Our local swingers club is £35.oo for single guys, and you wont get rejected at the door, as you have to call before hand to book in. What you spend on drinks after is upto you, but that would only be what a night out anywhere would cost. So wish you would all stop ranting on about the cost to single guys NOT all the Clubs are expensive for Single guys, sheeshhh | |||
"They dont want to pay club fees thats why. they want sex but not have it cost them anything
No, it's not only sex that we (When did I become the voice of the single men??) are looking for but also some good times with people...
And, yeah, spending £90 for a night in club that can be boring is a risk that not many men would take.
(rant is over)
Actually, i consider a first meet in a bar as the best meet possible : it's more exciting to tease someone in a place normally not done for that... "Opss forgot to say about the boaring bit, its as boaring as you make it, and as for playing, that is also upto how much effort you put in to chat to ppl. So single guys please stop useing the SAme OLD EXCUSES lol | |||
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so now if i go i go alone or with my bint xxxx | |||
"£35 plus the membership plus the travel there... I was saying 90 to make a big impact, but I'm not so far from the truth! And what I meant by boring is that, sometimes, you don't find the right people get along with (just like anywhere really). You may have the night of your life or stay alone in the bar no matter how much effort you make. You might think I'm a hippie or somewhat but sex and good times shouldn't be that expensive.... And I'm not using the "same old excuse" : I always meet someone if I say so..." The membership is a fiver for a year, and as for the petrol, would you not spend petrol money to get to a meet anyhow. Im just trying to point out, that it REALLY is not that much more expensive than a meet in a Bar, say half way between yourself and whoever you are meeting. Never Boaring at a club if your outgoing and put effort in. Im not trying to say your one who wont show up, but personally our time is valuble as we only play say one weekend a month, and rather not leave it to chance, that whoever we meet be it a couple or a single, dont show. | |||
"The membership is a fiver for a year, and as for the petrol, would you not spend petrol money to get to a meet anyhow. Im just trying to point out, that it REALLY is not that much more expensive than a meet in a Bar, say half way between yourself and whoever you are meeting. Never Boaring at a club if your outgoing and put effort in. Im not trying to say your one who wont show up, but personally our time is valuble as we only play say one weekend a month, and rather not leave it to chance, that whoever we meet be it a couple or a single, dont show. " Depends on the club really : I had a look at the prices in the clubs around manchester and it seemed a bit more expensive than that. And very far from mine.... But I completely understand your time is precious : I was trying to defend my point of _iew, but like everyone here, I hate these timewasters! I mean, if everybody was respecting the rules, it would be easier for genuine single men in here | |||
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Now hows that for the guys being all mouth and no trousers!! | |||
