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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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throwing it out there seems a lot of people have preconception of how a certain age should look and act like, and as such limit their age range.I am in my 50's and look and act nothing like the age..what are your thoughts people ? |
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I can’t lie about this, we both don’t see this any other way, and every single time we come on this site and view the pics we think the exact same thing but......
I’m sorry, but the older women, let’s say 40+? They are usually (9 times out of 10) far hotter, sexier, dirtier and more appealing to us.
I don’t know why... but most (not all!) girls our age don’t seen to be as interesting. And younger? They seem to either be chavtastic with painted on eyebrows and fakeness, or stuck with muscle bound gym boys who control them (again not all).
So the older people here appeal to us a lot more? C xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not ageism. This isn’t an equal opportunities site, it’s a site where people know what they like and have the right to pick and choose as they please. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"I can’t lie about this, we both don’t see this any other way, and every single time we come on this site and view the pics we think the exact same thing but......
I’m sorry, but the older women, let’s say 40+? They are usually (9 times out of 10) far hotter, sexier, dirtier and more appealing to us.
I don’t know why... but most (not all!) girls our age don’t seen to be as interesting. And younger? They seem to either be chavtastic with painted on eyebrows and fakeness, or stuck with muscle bound gym boys who control them (again not all).
So the older people here appeal to us a lot more? C xxx"
I'd say 30+ for men and women and I think it's a lot to do with confidence, experience and understanding.
My upper age range is because exactly as mentioned, I don't want to knowingly fuck someone the same age as my parents.
I have no doubt in clubs I've interacted with people who look and act younger and so may well be the same age as my parents. I just didn't know it and that is the key factor for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they don't wanna fuck someone old enough to be their parent?
Ism this, ism that.
Just accept you ain't for everyone."
this sounds like ism-ism to me |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"throwing it out there seems a lot of people have preconception of how a certain age should look and act like, and as such limit their age range.I am in my 50's and look and act nothing like the age..what are your thoughts people ?"
Don't think it's ageism at all OP - any more than you having 35 as the lower age limit that you're looking for. It's preference plain and simple based on any number of things - there must be a reason you chose 35 as your lower age limit on your profile? No different from anyone else that sets an age limit, either lower or upper  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are ageist but many aren’t.
It’s a personal thing. It hasn’t affected me, I get many offers.
For me I probably have a preference for older females and couples but I do like much younger playmates too |
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I 100% concur with this
"I can’t lie about this, we both don’t see this any other way, and every single time we come on this site and view the pics we think the exact same thing but......
I’m sorry, but the older women, let’s say 40+? They are usually (9 times out of 10) far hotter, sexier, dirtier and more appealing to us.
I don’t know why... but most (not all!) girls our age don’t seen to be as interesting. And younger? They seem to either be chavtastic with painted on eyebrows and fakeness, or stuck with muscle bound gym boys who control them (again not all).
So the older people here appeal to us a lot more? C xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No problem when its a preference, when age becomes part of an assumption it is irritating and when it becomes an 'ist or ism' - annoying!
Plus we get it from both ends lol |
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"I can’t lie about this, we both don’t see this any other way, and every single time we come on this site and view the pics we think the exact same thing but......
I’m sorry, but the older women, let’s say 40+? They are usually (9 times out of 10) far hotter, sexier, dirtier and more appealing to us.
I don’t know why... but most (not all!) girls our age don’t seen to be as interesting. And younger? They seem to either be chavtastic with painted on eyebrows and fakeness, or stuck with muscle bound gym boys who control them (again not all).
So the older people here appeal to us a lot more? C xxx"
Your comments echo the reason we created our event profile, we have been regulars at clubs for the past 12 years and as we are getting older and the other guests seem to be getting younger it creates a bit of a divide, the more mature club goers were telling us they were starting to feel out of place and uncomfortable hence the reason we host events for the over 40s only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can’t lie about this, we both don’t see this any other way, and every single time we come on this site and view the pics we think the exact same thing but......
I’m sorry, but the older women, let’s say 40+? They are usually (9 times out of 10) far hotter, sexier, dirtier and more appealing to us.
I don’t know why... but most (not all!) girls our age don’t seen to be as interesting. And younger? They seem to either be chavtastic with painted on eyebrows and fakeness, or stuck with muscle bound gym boys who control them (again not all).
So the older people here appeal to us a lot more? C xxx
Your comments echo the reason we created our event profile, we have been regulars at clubs for the past 12 years and as we are getting older and the other guests seem to be getting younger it creates a bit of a divide, the more mature club goers were telling us they were starting to feel out of place and uncomfortable hence the reason we host events for the over 40s only."
In the same tone can’t people 40 and under call you ageist for excluding them from your party’s.....
It is a two way street.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not ageism, it;s a preference. I don't look my age, nowhere near it and in clubs I guess that potentially works to my advantage. But on here, it's obvious why people draw a line based on averages. If someone doesn't want shag people over 40, I wouldn't expect them to consider shagging me just because I don't look it |
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I'm with the preference posse.
We don't want anyone under 35. No ism about it. We just think the cultural gulf would be too wide and the missus says she'd feel wierd about it.
Yet when we are out on a Saturday dressed up and looking/feeling good you'd be surprised how many men and women below that age try to crack on. And yes, it's flattering.
The same goes for body shape. She wants fit dudes, but that's not body shaming non-fit dudes. We also only consider straight dudes, but that's not homophobic because we don't have a phobia about gay guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm prejudiced against people who don't seem to know how old they actually are...  "
indeed! its an instant turn off when someone seems to be trying lie, very badly, about it as well, ridiculous....and no, its not 'ageism'. |
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"throwing it out there seems a lot of people have preconception of how a certain age should look and act like, and as such limit their age range.I am in my 50's and look and act nothing like the age..what are your thoughts people ?"
You're straight, is that sexist? |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
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I tell people I'm older than I actually am so they compliment me on how young I look. Not ageism I know just vanity
Nothing wrong with that
I also insist on showing ID when I buy booze |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By the time people are 40+ they generally have their lives sorted so will usually be more self assured and a better option. Unfortunately as you continue to age you become subject to age stereotyping so you may find yourself more excluded on sites like this. It's a fair assumption, just a bit of a pisser. That's why it's easier for us oldies to meet people in person. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a 61 year old man (though was told recently that I looked 45! )I certaintly wouldn't be looking to play with a woman young enough to be my daughter,much prefer women over 50.
It does annoy me when people put say 50 or 55 only as an upper age limit,but its a free country & thats their choice. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Speaking as a 61 year old man (though was told recently that I looked 45! )I certaintly wouldn't be looking to play with a woman young enough to be my daughter,much prefer women over 50.
It does annoy me when people put say 50 or 55 only as an upper age limit,but its a free country & thats their choice. "
Why would it annoy you? As you say It's their choice just as yours is not to look for people under 40 - not worth getting annoyed about |
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