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"Seen this a few times where the wives in couples have a bf/lover as well but how many husbands have a gf."
Not this husband, its how we choose it to be, she has a couple of BF's and its all good with me.
I have no interest in other women and definitely not into guys either. |
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"Seen this a few times where the wives in couples have a bf/lover as well but how many husbands have a gf."
we are poly so don’t mind either. Hubby has a regular he’s been seeing for months. I’m still looking. So guess in the case hubby does Mrs doesn’t lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband has someone whom he sees about 3 times a year. I don’t get the involved. I’ve had a few lovers, but when I am seeing someone he’s involved.
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But then ask yourself a question did you think before you met your partner you'd find your other half who also enjoyed swinging with you. The possibilities to most things are always there if you ooen your mind and let them |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
"Would love to do this but scared that emotions would end up appearing.xx"
I dated a married woman for about six months, yes we did have feelings for each other and had a very strong bond between (we're still very close friends). We went into it with eyes wide open knowing she had a husband she loved and I have a job that consumes my life. It's down to being honest with yourself as well as each other
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I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .
We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .
I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful . |
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"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .
We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .
I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful ."
It's not a need it's how she prefers it.
Knowing the guy rather just a random, we can get that at a club anytime.
As you said it's why we are all different. |
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"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .
We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .
I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful ."
I think for me, I get kicks out of NRE (new relationship energy) - google it. It’s totally intoxicating for me, but by definition, not possible in an established relationship. So that’s why I pursue these casual affairs. I have the ability to compartmentalise my feelings, so any relationship I have has has no bearing on how I feel for my husband.
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"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .
We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .
I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful .
I think for me, I get kicks out of NRE (new relationship energy) - google it. It’s totally intoxicating for me, but by definition, not possible in an established relationship. So that’s why I pursue these casual affairs. I have the ability to compartmentalise my feelings, so any relationship I have has has no bearing on how I feel for my husband.
Mrs"
You’ve just summed it up perfectly for us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .
We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .
I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful .
I think for me, I get kicks out of NRE (new relationship energy) - google it. It’s totally intoxicating for me, but by definition, not possible in an established relationship. So that’s why I pursue these casual affairs. I have the ability to compartmentalise my feelings, so any relationship I have has has no bearing on how I feel for my husband.
Mrs
You’ve just summed it up perfectly for us "
I dont get it either .. i know so many cpl who have bf/gf on fab who are now seperated due to feelings being developed ... |
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"I truly don’t get the whole boyfriend / girlfriend thing for married couples .
We swing and it’s always been 100% nsa , and that works for us . I would be devastated if my wife wanted a boyfriend for more than nsa , just as she would if I sought a girlfriend .
I know the old cliche will no doubt rear it’s head here , each to their own etc.... but if couples who have extra partners for more than nsa could explain why they need this , and what it adds to their relationship I would be most grateful .
I think for me, I get kicks out of NRE (new relationship energy) - google it. It’s totally intoxicating for me, but by definition, not possible in an established relationship. So that’s why I pursue these casual affairs. I have the ability to compartmentalise my feelings, so any relationship I have has has no bearing on how I feel for my husband.
Mrs
You’ve just summed it up perfectly for us
I dont get it either .. i know so many cpl who have bf/gf on fab who are now seperated due to feelings being developed ... "
Its all about knowing where the lines are that you dont cross.
Its called self control, get that it can be difficult but the grass just isnt greener on the other side. |
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