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Etiquette for a meet
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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago
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"Like a game of scrabble to break the ice, look at childhood photos and make sure i know their birthday and cats names before we progress to anything sexual. "
WTF you don’t like dogs?? What about the dogs name- some people just don’t care  |
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"Like a game of scrabble to break the ice, look at childhood photos and make sure i know their birthday and cats names before we progress to anything sexual.
You forgot star signs and NI number."
I think we confuse other couples because I'm like raj from the big bang theory and my wife is like leslie winkle |
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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago
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"Depends ~ everyone is different. With 5 veris you must realise that by now? "
I do I’m just curious as to other people’s thoughts. I like B, but have been involved with A a few times on first time meets. Knock on hotel room door, come in & told to strip. (I was expecting that BTW) |
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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago
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"Depends ~ everyone is different. With 5 veris you must realise that by now?
I think he's asking for our view on things. "
Indeed I am. Just curious. I’ve been away from scene a while & there seams to be more socials happening. Just wondered if that was becoming the more preferable option. Think it’s always good to understand what makes someone tick.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like a game of scrabble to break the ice, look at childhood photos and make sure i know their birthday and cats names before we progress to anything sexual. "
I play scrabble on my tablet and have a few childhod photos to share. No cats im afraid.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer etiquette to be thrown out the window when I meet. It's whatever the mood dictates... normally meet, rip each other's clothes off, fuck, eat/ drink repeat numerous times in whatever order till it's time to go home!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s the preferred etiquette for a meet.
A) Meet/greet & play straight away
B) Social/drinks/food then play"
c) read the profile - all the clues are there. if they mention a social - go for a social. if not select A) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of the few things I dislike about the swing scene, is that option B seems to be only available for the first meet. Why not every time?
Mrs"
Because once people know you’re not a serial killer they tend to meet you in their homes...
It’s much cheaper than going out all the time.
I usually bring a bottle of wine or liquor , and the couples provide the food when I’m invited to someone’s home.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of the few things I dislike about the swing scene, is that option B seems to be only available for the first meet. Why not every time?
Mrs
Because once people know you’re not a serial killer they tend to meet you in their homes...
It’s much cheaper than going out all the time.
I usually bring a bottle of wine or liquor , and the couples provide the food when I’m invited to someone’s home...."
I wasn’t suggesting going out all the time. Drink and food in the home is equally as acceptable and something we usually do with our guests. It was option A being ‘meet, great and play straight away’ for a second meet that jars with me a bit.
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