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By *lda OP Couple
over a year ago
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Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy? |
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One our couples profile, we shook both, but the vast majority are of the female half. Why? Simple. Nobody cares about me. People never fab my pics, ask to see me or even care I’m there. They are more interested in the female half, even when we are meeting as a couple.
So yeah we do have pics of myself there, but she takes priority lol. G |
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over a year ago
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"One our couples profile, we shook both, but the vast majority are of the female half. Why? Simple. Nobody cares about me. People never fab my pics, ask to see me or even care I’m there. They are more interested in the female half, even when we are meeting as a couple.
So yeah we do have pics of myself there, but she takes priority lol. G"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just me on ours, because I thought as my man isn't physically involved it seemed a bit pointless putting his pic on too. "
But he's still involved ... even a clothed pic ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?"
It’s because we can’t live up to how amazing you ladies look! Your profile picture is stunning! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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This is a perennial question and the simple answer is that people post what works best for them, not for you. If it doesn't work for you just move on to the next profile - there a plenty to choose from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One our couples profile, we shook both, but the vast majority are of the female half. Why? Simple. Nobody cares about me. People never fab my pics, ask to see me or even care I’m there. They are more interested in the female half, even when we are meeting as a couple.
So yeah we do have pics of myself there, but she takes priority lol. G"
+1 for my couples profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?"
Argh! This annoys me, I'm bi and meet couples to enjoy the best of both so I've often asked this question and most of the replies I've had point to the fact people on here think it's all about the women ...... it's not and I like to see pics of both x |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?"
We have a mixture of me, Mrs2 and of both of us together in our profile photos.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a perennial question and the simple answer is that people post what works best for them, not for you. If it doesn't work for you just move on to the next profile - there a plenty to choose from."
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We've only recently started considering meeti_g couples. We've historically been looking for men to double her pleasure.
We have plenty of pics of the both of us in our private gallery and will share with any couple's who take our fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have pics of my man's cock in our profile but we want a woman who wants to let me eat her pussy and her to eat mine while my husband joins in and fucks us both "
So you're looking for a woman who doesn't need to feel any attraction to the men she has sex with?
Is that how you operate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?"
Agreed!!
If we get a wink from a couple and there's no pics of the male,
No matter how attractive the female is.. I'll just delete the wink.
Adam  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One our couples profile, we shook both, but the vast majority are of the female half. Why? Simple. Nobody cares about me. People never fab my pics, ask to see me or even care I’m there. They are more interested in the female half, even when we are meeting as a couple.
So yeah we do have pics of myself there, but she takes priority lol. G"
we feel like this too  |
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?
Agreed!!
If we get a wink from a couple and there's no pics of the male,
No matter how attractive the female is.. I'll just delete the wink.
Adam "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only the female half plays so no need for male pics. "
Then why not a single female profile? Or will the male be there watching? If so, his pic is still needed. |
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When in a couple and organising a meet, pix only of fem., no pix of the guy - wanting overall view and cock pic(s) - was more trouble than it was worth to deal with. Eg. is omitting the guy deliberate because he hasn't been looking after himself. Eg. what if he was unsuitable by having a penis two small or too large for fem. of couple?
So we tended to pass on by couple profiles with only pic of fem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only the female half plays so no need for male pics.
Then why not a single female profile? Or will the male be there watching? If so, his pic is still needed. "
Why..as a couple we have changed the way we meet ..we still have a couples account because, I Mr, like to see and watch other men have sex with my Mrs, they are not interested in what I look Like..if we do place an advert to meet a couple, we always say pics of Mr can be provided ..problem solved ..now if a couple asked to see pics of the male in a couple and they refuse, then yes pass them by |
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"One our couples profile, we shook both, but the vast majority are of the female half. Why? Simple. Nobody cares about me. People never fab my pics, ask to see me or even care I’m there. They are more interested in the female half, even when we are meeting as a couple.
So yeah we do have pics of myself there, but she takes priority lol. G"
Surely quality playmates are worth more than the picture to fab ratio?
Well I'm sure this is no doubt the case (my girl gets no doubt 100s more fabs than me) I'm sure most people are on here are on for more than just fabs. I definitely don't understand couples who show pictures and expect to play together but don't have pictures of the male at all? I assume all this does is put off potential play mates?
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"Only the female half plays so no need for male pics.
Then why not a single female profile? Or will the male be there watching? If so, his pic is still needed. "
We don’t really use fab to meet people. It’s a good networking tool for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always think no one wants to see me (Mr). The men are in the women. Even the women are interested in the women, i very rarely get asked for a face photo. |
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"One our couples profile, we shook both, but the vast majority are of the female half. Why? Simple. Nobody cares about me. People never fab my pics, ask to see me or even care I’m there. They are more interested in the female half, even when we are meeting as a couple.
So yeah we do have pics of myself there, but she takes priority lol. G"
Haha, this is so true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As we rarely meet off Fab don't see the need for pics of me plus we tend to go to the club's for our fun so anyone who is there can see me then."
Why have any pictures at all then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?"
Many of those profiles are fake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?"
in some cases possibly because the guy might not be attractive to some people and they wish to show off the female part to get chatting? But of course before meeting most people want a face pic.
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"As we rarely meet off Fab don't see the need for pics of me plus we tend to go to the club's for our fun so anyone who is there can see me then.
Why have any pictures at all then?"
Because we choose too...simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with you OP. Since I'm going to be fucking both of them if I met a couple, then I would like to see a good selection of both the man and the woman. I don't see any reason why they wouldn't show the man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women don't matter in swingi_g couples. They're purely used as bait so the husband can fuck around. The woman should fuck the other husband and know her place. Her opinion is irrelevant. Men want to see pics of women and fuck women. No such thing as equality in swinging. |
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"Women don't matter in swingi_g couples. They're purely used as bait so the husband can fuck around. The woman should fuck the other husband and know her place. Her opinion is irrelevant. Men want to see pics of women and fuck women. No such thing as equality in swinging. "
This one doesn't, I have zero interest in fucking around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women don't matter in swingi_g couples. They're purely used as bait so the husband can fuck around. The woman should fuck the other husband and know her place. Her opinion is irrelevant. Men want to see pics of women and fuck women. No such thing as equality in swinging. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*Women don't matter in **swingi_g couples. They're purely used as bait so the husband can fuck around. The woman should fuck the other husband and know her place. Her opinion is irrelevant. ***Men want to see pics of women and fuck women. No such thing as equality in swinging ****. "
*Some
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****Where some couples are concerned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?"
us men are butters
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"Have both, but pics of Sam get way more fabs than pics of Ellis. This is probably true for almost every couple?"
Yes we find that, guess most couples accounts ran by males plus lots of single males on here that fab away hoping for a response as we have them blocked |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?
Argh! This annoys me, I'm bi and meet couples to enjoy the best of both so I've often asked this question and most of the replies I've had point to the fact people on here think it's all about the women ...... it's not and I like to see pics of both x "
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"Women don't matter in swingi_g couples. They're purely used as bait so the husband can fuck around. The woman should fuck the other husband and know her place. Her opinion is irrelevant. Men want to see pics of women and fuck women. No such thing as equality in swinging. "
I run our couples profile, I do the messages, we both discuss who we want to meet and if we both don’t feel good about it there’s no point to us. We both have pictures on the couples profile but have vastly more of myself as that’s the draw for couples and women, but both have singles profiles with our own pics on anyway.
So no, I’m not forced into tucking anybody. And any couple that is in that sort of relationship we would know about instantly and tell them no.
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"I agree with you OP. Since I'm going to be fucking both of them if I met a couple, then I would like to see a good selection of both the man and the woman. I don't see any reason why they wouldn't show the man."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy? in some cases possibly because the guy might not be attractive to some people and they wish to show off the female part to get chatting? But of course before meeting most people want a face pic."
Very true
When trying to sell something... you don’t put the bruised fruit at the top...
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?"
Pics of us both on our profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't understand why all the pics of couples are all of the fem half. We want to play with both. Not expecting face pics on a profile, but normally there are lots of the fem looking sexy, but that's it. Guys, are you shy?"
Shy? If you have a look at our profile, we'll let you come to your own conclusions... 
There's plenty of pics of both of us separately and wonderfully together on ours as everything must be seen for an informed judgement to be made... That's our belief anyway!
True there's a few more pics of Succubus than Incubus, but that's because Incubus loves taking piccies of his Devil Princess so much...! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I think we’re both covered from many angles including part face shots. It saves time I think. If people don’t like what they see, they won’t bother contacting us. "
And conversely if they do.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women don't matter in swingi_g couples. They're purely used as bait so the husband can fuck around. The woman should fuck the other husband and know her place. Her opinion is irrelevant. Men want to see pics of women and fuck women. No such thing as equality in swinging. "
It's difficult to argue against this perception of some couples. It definitely is not all couples though.
Lots of couples prefer to try and attract and interact with other couples who have a much more balanced and 'equal' view. Genuine four way attraction is a prerequisite for many.
We think it's a minority who will consider or are sadly put into positions where they'll 'take one for the team'. |
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"Women don't matter in swingi_g couples. They're purely used as bait so the husband can fuck around. The woman should fuck the other husband and know her place. Her opinion is irrelevant. Men want to see pics of women and fuck women. No such thing as equality in swinging.
It's difficult to argue against this perception of some couples. It definitely is not all couples though.
Lots of couples prefer to try and attract and interact with other couples who have a much more balanced and 'equal' view. Genuine four way attraction is a prerequisite for many.
We think it's a minority who will consider or are sadly put into positions where they'll 'take one for the team'."
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There are pics of us both, both separately and together, though probably slightly more of Her than me. We think it helps others decide whether they want to meet us or not (it would seem mainly not!  ) and we can't really think about others if we don't do it ourselves.
Never sat down and thought about what the optimum number and split is - my inner geek now wants to do an excel formula to work it out  |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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We have a selection of photos of us together and individually.
Hopefully we give enough away to show potential playmates our face (discreetly) and body type and allow them to make an informed decision about whether they would like to play with us.
Since both of us play, we think it's only fair for people to see both of us.
Referring to earlier posts, we do not agree that a woman in a couple is only there as bait. And are quite honestly offended by that assumption.
We are in this together, as a couple, and only do what both of us are comfortable with. If one says no to something/one, then no questions asked - it doesn't happen.
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"There are pics of us both, both separately and together, though probably slightly more of Her than me. We think it helps others decide whether they want to meet us or not (it would seem mainly not! ) and we can't really think about others if we don't do it ourselves.
Never sat down and thought about what the optimum number and split is - my inner geek now wants to do an excel formula to work it out "
Yay for the inner geek! We have gone for 75% Beth, 25% Melv, although some are both of us! In terms of fabs, it seems to be 95%/5%...  |
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"Women don't matter in swingi_g couples. They're purely used as bait so the husband can fuck around. The woman should fuck the other husband and know her place. Her opinion is irrelevant. Men want to see pics of women and fuck women. No such thing as equality in swinging.
It's difficult to argue against this perception of some couples. It definitely is not all couples though.
Lots of couples prefer to try and attract and interact with other couples who have a much more balanced and 'equal' view. Genuine four way attraction is a prerequisite for many.
We think it's a minority who will consider or are sadly put into positions where they'll 'take one for the team'."
Agree- I wasn't being entirely serious. Partly though.
It works well as a filter as I don't want to meet those types. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if we have the split right but it seems to work I guess.
Let us know if you think not ??"
96% the woman, 3% random people and 1% the man. Interesting. |
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"There are pics of us both, both separately and together, though probably slightly more of Her than me. We think it helps others decide whether they want to meet us or not (it would seem mainly not! ) and we can't really think about others if we don't do it ourselves.
Never sat down and thought about what the optimum number and split is - my inner geek now wants to do an excel formula to work it out
Yay for the inner geek! We have gone for 75% Beth, 25% Melv, although some are both of us! In terms of fabs, it seems to be 95%/5%... "
Ahhh, I spot a mathematical error. You haven't assigned the dragons a % |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have a few of Mr. But didn’t really think people particularly wanted to see pictures of a middle aged man posing in various stages of undress, so we have more pictures of me.
Mrs |
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"There are pics of us both, both separately and together, though probably slightly more of Her than me. We think it helps others decide whether they want to meet us or not (it would seem mainly not! ) and we can't really think about others if we don't do it ourselves.
Never sat down and thought about what the optimum number and split is - my inner geek now wants to do an excel formula to work it out
Yay for the inner geek! We have gone for 75% Beth, 25% Melv, although some are both of us! In terms of fabs, it seems to be 95%/5%...
Ahhh, I spot a mathematical error. You haven't assigned the dragons a % "
Good spot, they have quite a few fabs of their own! |
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