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I was having a conversation with a fab friend earlier and they said that someone they'd met a while back had another meet planned for later that day aswell. ...we were wondering if multiple meets were common. ..has anybody here had 2 (or more?!) meets in a day? |
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"Yes but both social only get one day a week to play "
Theres never enough hours in the day is there? I've got so much to do this weekend and have still managed to squeeze a social in but it would've been nice to have longer with them at least. ..but a coffee is a good start  |
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over a year ago
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"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either 
Knocking shop rings a bell "
Or they just enjoy sex and have free time? |
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About 10 years ago I used to see my FB regularly at lunch times (we worked together) and then an additional meet with maybe a couple of single girl later that day. Sometimes she’d join me for the meet in the afternoon. God I miss that girl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either."
I give each of my meets 100% of my focus and would, quite frankly, prefer to go deep with one sexy friend than mess around lightly with many. So. No. I couldn't bring myself to do it either.
Would I mind it being done to me? Probably not. That's their business, not mine. |
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Tbh fab has to fit around work, kids, friends and a sick mum!
I remember the ‘shiny new fuck’ stage when I first joined fab - imo most people meet a lot at first when they’re given the choice/opportunity! I didn’t meet several times a day by any means - but I met a lot more often than I do now!
These days I’ll only meet if I really fancy them, like their personality and think we’ll be sexually compatible!
Hence I have far fewer meets - but bloody good ones!
And If a guy had a meet with me he’d be in no condition to have another meet that day anyway! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am pretty sure I have been on the receiving end of being someone's multiple fucks per day and when I found out I felt (probably a bit unreasonably) really shit. So no I wouldn't do that. I like to give all my attention to one and if it has gone to plan I wouldn't be able to walk properly the rest of the day anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either
Knocking shop rings a bell
No judgement there then  "
HOW DARE A WOMAN ENJOY SEX! SOMEONE ALERT THE ELDERS! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either
Knocking shop rings a bell
No judgement there then
HOW DARE A WOMAN ENJOY SEX! SOMEONE ALERT THE ELDERS!"
You made me snort my tea out my nose.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't recall that I have, but I wouldn't necessarily say no. I just haven't had the need or inclination at the moment. Have had three different meets on three consecutive days though... |
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"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either
Knocking shop rings a bell
No judgement there then
HOW DARE A WOMAN ENJOY SEX! SOMEONE ALERT THE ELDERS!"
Agree with you - but as you said above - if a meet had gone well you’d be in no condition to have five meets in a day - and certainly neither would I!
I wouldn’t condemn her morals - but I’d be tempted to give her advice on ‘quality control’!   |
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"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either
Knocking shop rings a bell
No judgement there then "
Thats what I thought. A gangbang is multi meets at one time. Whats the differance with gaps in? |
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"I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either.
I agree ,,, slabs of meat springs to mind. "
Judgmental and double standards springs to mind.
People will do what they will do. If they choose to tell you and you talk about them in this manner, maybe their trust was misplaced. |
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"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either
Knocking shop rings a bell
No judgement there then
Thats what I thought. A gangbang is multi meets at one time. Whats the differance with gaps in? "
Or playing with several people during an evening at a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" ...we were wondering if multiple meets were common. ..has anybody here had 2 (or more?!) meets in a day? "
We have,yes,lucky these days to get one meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do multiple socials but not my play meets.
I don't get as many spare days as I would like so prefer to have a couple of socials a day.
On Tuesday I originally had 3 planned  . Ended up being 2 but worked well.
On meets I'm not into quick fuck and goes so would never fit more than one in  |
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I've been on the recieving end of meeting someone after they dropped someone off and met me. I was initially uneasy about it, but I wouldn't judge her for it.
We all have needs after all.
This was before I came back to Fab. But I wouldn't meet two in one day, unless it was a group activity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m not that organised!!
And i’d rather meet a fella who was gagging for it and raring to go (and maybe go again) as opposed to a bloke who’d probably worn himself out shagging earlier in the day and was half hearted about the effort he put in.
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"Me and the hubby new 1 lass on here had 5 in 1 day and they weren't socials either
Knocking shop rings a bell "
Bit of an odd comment to put on a swinging site where people are looking for NSA sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, something I have done and actually regret. Two mfms. Met the first couple and played, left, had a shower and then within an hour of leaving the first couple, was playing with the second.
In my defence the second couple had pretty much been begging me, (as strange as that seems!) to meet for a while and it was the only opportunity I had.
As others have pointed out, my performance wasn't anything to write home about, as when I was with the first couple I was thinking about the second and with the second I was pretty knackered after spending a few hours with the first.
Not something I would do again. In the same day. |
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The quandary is, if I arrange a meet and the bastard doesn't show.....i've spent time getting ready, traveling, hotel room possibly, and I'm god damn HORNY!!! What then?!?
So it may just be wise to think ahead and have maybe 2 or 3 on standby |
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"I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either.
I agree ,,, slabs of meat springs to mind.
Judgmental and double standards springs to mind.
People will do what they will do. If they choose to tell you and you talk about them in this manner, maybe their trust was misplaced."
How is it double standards? |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've had multiple meets in one day. Enjoyed and had plenty of energy for all. It's basically just a gang bang but spread out over the day and each guy gets more attention than if they were all together.
So, if I can, I'll keep having multiple meets in a day, and if people have a problem with that then I don't care. I won't hold back my enjoyment because some strangers will think less of me for enjoying myself with multiple people in a day. |
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"I wouldn't do it and wouldn't want to be on someone's fuck conveyor belt either.
I agree ,,, slabs of meat springs to mind.
Judgmental and double standards springs to mind.
People will do what they will do. If they choose to tell you and you talk about them in this manner, maybe their trust was misplaced.
How is it double standards?"
It is usually aimed at women somehow |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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Having 2 play meets in a day is normal for me when I have a day off work.
I do that every 2-3 weeks in fact.
One time I had up to 3 in one day, but felt so tired after the 3rd meet, so I won't attempt 3 in one day anymore. |
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Absolutely have. Had a visit from Princess early morning, another of my partners came over on his lunch break and I then spent the evening in my local club becoming closely acquainted with several people there too :D I have not arranged several meets in one day from here though, is usually club sessions where my regulars turn up or one of my partners visits me at home before i go out. |
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I have had 4 play meets in one 24hrs. Woke up with one...met one late morning, met one early evening and then when I was in bed I got a call from an old friend.
Wouldn't do it again...... far too hard on my hips and knees |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have. It was a long time ago now and can't remember who, but one of them was someone I had either met before, or was a regular partner. I showered in between. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I did it it was during a very busy week for me. If I recall correctly I think I had sex with 7 men in 9 days. Could have been less men in less days though. 2 of them were a mfm and two were regular partners I think. |
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It’s very rare that we only have one meet when we go out for fun .
The usual would be three , but will often be up to five or six depending on how busy the spots are we are frequenting .
Anyone judging us for this can do one because we do this for our pleasure and certainly not for the judgemental people who think their way is better .
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"Why do people get so upset about total strangers judging them? Unless deep down they feel guilty. 
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I don’t think it’s because we feel guilty , we are so way past that ! Maybe in the first six months we may have , but not now seven years down the line . I think it’s more than we get upset because total strangers don’t know us , yet feel they can pass judgement on the way we do things .  |
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I can usually get more than one meet either Saturday or Sunday. And no, they are not on my 'conveyor belt'. I give plenty (maybe not 100% but close) of attention to every single one of my meets, and they are varied meets, not just pure fuck.
I don't care if anyone judges me on how many people in a day I meet, or what I do with them. Yes, I am a woman, and yes, I enjoy sex, having sexual attention, being spoiled, and teasing and spoiling my meets. If some sex police on here doesn't like that, that's their problem. |
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Yes it is possible, I had one recently.. Two planned but the third unplanned and couldn't avoid because it was the first person, she missed me a lot overnight so she came to meet again, that was possible because we were staying on same hotel... |
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"Why do people get so upset about total strangers judging them? Unless deep down they feel guilty.
I don’t think it’s because we feel guilty , we are so way past that ! Maybe in the first six months we may have , but not now seven years down the line . I think it’s more than we get upset because total strangers don’t know us , yet feel they can pass judgement on the way we do things . "
But they are total strangers. You both know the truth, the strangers don't. So why let it hurt you? You love what you do. Even if someone judges you in a negative way, so what? Life's too short to be sad.
I'll use my earlier comment as an example as I'm a 'stranger'. I couldn't do multiple meets because it would feel like a fuck conveyor belt. That's not my thing. But you- and the people you meet- love meeting multiple people in one session. It turns you and them on. You've found people you're compatible with and you're sharing a horny moment in time with them. I think that's cool as fuck. It really doesn't matter what I - or any other stranger thinks. You're having a fucking brilliant time so why let a stranger tarnish that brilliant feeling?
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"Why do people get so upset about total strangers judging them? Unless deep down they feel guilty.
I don’t think it’s because we feel guilty , we are so way past that ! Maybe in the first six months we may have , but not now seven years down the line . I think it’s more than we get upset because total strangers don’t know us , yet feel they can pass judgement on the way we do things .
But they are total strangers. You both know the truth, the strangers don't. So why let it hurt you? You love what you do. Even if someone judges you in a negative way, so what? Life's too short to be sad.
I'll use my earlier comment as an example as I'm a 'stranger'. I couldn't do multiple meets because it would feel like a fuck conveyor belt. That's not my thing. But you- and the people you meet- love meeting multiple people in one session. It turns you and them on. You've found people you're compatible with and you're sharing a horny moment in time with them. I think that's cool as fuck. It really doesn't matter what I - or any other stranger thinks. You're having a fucking brilliant time so why let a stranger tarnish that brilliant feeling?
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This is a very good way of looking at this subject . |
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We’ve done it a couple of times
The first was on MrHs Birthday, he likes to watch me with other guys, the first meet ended up as a bi threesome (the guy said he was straight) but then wanted to suck MrHs cock while fucking me, MrH will never say no to a BJ, the second meet later than day was just me and the guy and MrH day in the corner enjoying himself watching
The other time we had multiple meets was when we had a gloryhole at our house, I often blew 2 or 3 guys a night there
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