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DO WOMEN ON HERE LOVE THE ATTENTION THEY GET....?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some are definitely, but not the majority, there are some seriously focused ladies on here who know exactly what they want. OP you have been here 3 months and you live in a very rural area, you are going to have difficulty hooking up, don't be despondent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i can't imagine anyone not liking attention at all. if I feel like wanting to be invisable I go and hide my profile.
but I am definitely here for more hands on attention then online one  "
you got my attention with those amazing photos  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i can't imagine anyone not liking attention at all. if I feel like wanting to be invisable I go and hide my profile.
but I am definitely here for more hands on attention then online one "
I learn that You also like anal  |
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There's more than a few attention seeking women that look like Robbie Fowler in a sumo suit and think they're a goddess to men once they put on a £10 corset....
Like any aspect of life, some women on here are incredibly insecure and like the ego boost of being wanted! There are also some women on here with personalities and confidence that I admire greatly and I have made some good female friends from here!
id say the ratio of genuine people to idiots looking to boost their ego is about the same in any gender on fab!
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"There's more than a few attention seeking women that look like Robbie Fowler in a sumo suit and think they're a goddess to men once they put on a £10 corset....
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That's pretty close to what I look like, barring the fact my boobs are too big for corsets. Luckily I also fuck like a demon, so that helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, I'm here for the sex.  "
And I’d imagine you get all you need with a figure like that. If however, this assumption is incorrect, I would gladly throw my “hat” into the “arena” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll find alot of the female side of couples was introduced by their partners, and are not in it for the attention, have noticed however that more and more people are using it like a Facebook to get likes (fab'd photos).
There are some decent people on here, it's the same as women/couples saying are all men on here illiterate children that couldn't carry a conversation or think an appropriate introduction is 'ill come round, I'll bring sniff n beers?'.
Each to their own but tar everyone with the same brush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think men are on here for attention as much as woman differance is some get a little frustrated when the don’t get any hence what I suspect this thread is all about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think men are on here for attention as much as woman differance is some get a little frustrated when the don’t get any hence what I suspect this thread is all about "
I suspect you might be correct
The majority of blokes on here are attention starved :D including me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think men are on here for attention as much as woman differance is some get a little frustrated when the don’t get any hence what I suspect this thread is all about
I suspect you might be correct
The majority of blokes on here are attention starved :D including me! "
Attention starved and sex starved lol. sadly fab will always be a woman’s world as is swinging on the whole . To be fair though it’s easy to spot the ( if you like my pics fab them and il show you more ) attention seekers but then again it’s you guys that fall for it every time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'll find alot of the female side of couples was introduced by their partners, and are not in it for the attention, have noticed however that more and more people are using it like a Facebook to get likes (fab'd photos).
There are some decent people on here, it's the same as women/couples saying are all men on here illiterate children that couldn't carry a conversation or think an appropriate introduction is 'ill come round, I'll bring sniff n beers?'.
Each to their own but tar everyone with the same brush "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I not going to bullshit and say of course not I'm only here to meet.
I share photos, those photos get attention. If I didn't want attention I wouldn't share photos. That doesn't mean I'm not confident, I get attention away from fab too and I also meet occasionally (shock horror! ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attention don't mean shit unless you get it from the one you want.
I often get 100's of messages a day but if I could trade the 100's of guys on here that want to fuck me for just one guy who isn't even on here anymore but I absolutely adore him, I would.
So no, the attention on here does nothing for me as I get just as many admiring glances when I'm cutting about in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t get shedloads of mail daily but i get a bit, but i’m happiest when i get a message or text from the man i meet. It’s his attention i like to bask in.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do, some don't, most often a mixture of the two.
Some ladies actually hate the situation of having to wade through hundreds of crap, poorly written, no pics included mails on a daily basis and would much rather be in the shoes of a single guy in here, rather like a "reverse fab"? To these ladies, being a single woman is the worst possible demograph to be in on this site.
Some though love the attention and endless possibilities of high quality sex and look upon the above as just an unfortunate side effect of enjoying that?
There is no definite answer overall really, as it varies from one lady to the next. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In fact to gauge the amount of answers properly as everyone likes at least some kind of attention, you'd have to ask ladies on here the question "Would you be happier being part of a 'reverse fab' where women outnumber men 10 to 1 and trading the problems the average lady gets on here for the average single guy's?" |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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When I first came on fab I loved the attention and it really boosted my ego.
But i soon realised that the guys that flattered and complimented ladies were just saying lovely comments were just after a fuck. It's all bullshit and can make ladies feel like a dirty whore if they have lots of sex and you get abuse if they turn people down.
It's strange how men have the image that ladies have an easy time on fab. Yet the reality is trying to sort through the messages and trying to find pleasant guys with some personality and genuine attraction.
You need a tough skin to be a woman on here sometimes.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I first came on fab I loved the attention and it really boosted my ego.
But i soon realised that the guys that flattered and complimented ladies were just saying lovely comments were just after a fuck. It's all bullshit and can make ladies feel like a dirty whore if they have lots of sex and you get abuse if they turn people down.
It's strange how men have the image that ladies have an easy time on fab. Yet the reality is trying to sort through the messages and trying to find pleasant guys with some personality and genuine attraction.
You need a tough skin to be a woman on here sometimes.
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This is so true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I first came on fab I loved the attention and it really boosted my ego.
But i soon realised that the guys that flattered and complimented ladies were just saying lovely comments were just after a fuck. It's all bullshit and can make ladies feel like a dirty whore if they have lots of sex and you get abuse if they turn people down.
It's strange how men have the image that ladies have an easy time on fab. Yet the reality is trying to sort through the messages and trying to find pleasant guys with some personality and genuine attraction.
You need a tough skin to be a woman on here sometimes.
This is so true "
This is why the answers would vary as always. Being the average woman on here is a different kind of tough to being the average single guy?
On the face of it it sounds like both of you would be happy to be a single woman on a site where women outnumber guys so massively instead, whereas Bluebell wouldn't. |
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"When I first came on fab I loved the attention and it really boosted my ego.
But i soon realised that the guys that flattered and complimented ladies were just saying lovely comments were just after a fuck. It's all bullshit and can make ladies feel like a dirty whore if they have lots of sex and you get abuse if they turn people down.
It's strange how men have the image that ladies have an easy time on fab. Yet the reality is trying to sort through the messages and trying to find pleasant guys with some personality and genuine attraction.
You need a tough skin to be a woman on here sometimes.
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Well said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate all the attention I get.
The thousands of winks, the constantly Fabbed pics, the barrage of "Fancy a fuck?" message requests.
God damn it ladies I'm a human being with feelings!!
And my eyes are up here!!  |
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Oh dear a few disgruntled males here! Of course there are people on here attention seeking, but that goes for both sexes, I think it is quite obvious from their profile, maybe take time to read a profile and try to get the measure of someone, there are many profiles on here that clearly state what people are looking for I would say just contact these people instead of mass messaging based on looking at pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I first came on fab I loved the attention and it really boosted my ego.
But i soon realised that the guys that flattered and complimented ladies were just saying lovely comments were just after a fuck. It's all bullshit and can make ladies feel like a dirty whore if they have lots of sex and you get abuse if they turn people down.
It's strange how men have the image that ladies have an easy time on fab. Yet the reality is trying to sort through the messages and trying to find pleasant guys with some personality and genuine attraction.
You need a tough skin to be a woman on here sometimes.
Well said. "
ABSOFUCKINLUTLEY!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's more than a few attention seeking women that look like Robbie Fowler in a sumo suit and think they're a goddess to men once they put on a £10 corset....
That's pretty close to what I look like, barring the fact my boobs are too big for corsets. Luckily I also fuck like a demon, so that helps"
I think I'd pass for this too.
Meh. I'm here for the sex. Attention is nice and all but I prefer to suck it and see in real life rather than looking at pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate all the attention I get.
The thousands of winks, the constantly Fabbed pics, the barrage of "Fancy a fuck?" message requests.
God damn it ladies I'm a human being with feelings!!
And my eyes are up here!! "
Lol you sound like I feel. Hard to find those special experiences in the mailstrom x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate all the attention I get.
The thousands of winks, the constantly Fabbed pics, the barrage of "Fancy a fuck?" message requests.
God damn it ladies I'm a human being with feelings!!
And my eyes are up here!!
Lol you sound like I feel. Hard to find those special experiences in the mailstrom x"
The struggle is real  |
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"Nah, I'm here for the sex.
And I’d imagine you get all you need with a figure like that. If however, this assumption is incorrect, I would gladly throw my “hat” into the “arena”"
Haha, well I am currently holding interviews for a vacancy at the 'local desk'... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i only like the real life attention most of the attention on here from guys is like pre pubic teens lust =childish and unwanted or completely creepy and pukey.
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"Attention don't mean shit unless you get it from the one you want.
I often get 100's of messages a day but if I could trade the 100's of guys on here that want to fuck me for just one guy who isn't even on here anymore but I absolutely adore him, I would.
So no, the attention on here does nothing for me as I get just as many admiring glances when I'm cutting about in the real world. "
You hit the nail in the head ! I think goes like that !! Absolutely right !
Also sometimes is the wrong kind of attention , a ladie is seeking !!!!! |
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