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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having just recieved a message from a couple who have contacted me as they had spoken to someone in the chat rooms who recommended me!
Felt a bit cheap....as I am a person not an item that you would purchase and recommend like a household appliance!
Does this happen to other people?
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I have had this happen too, I think you should take it as it is meant, i.e. that someone liked you enough to think of you when someone else asked them if they knew someone they might get on with..
In fact I find it quite flattering that a lady or couple would name me when asked 'do you happen to know of any half-decent single blokes who can be relied upon?' or whatever the original question might have been.. Depends how you look at it, I suppose, and I'm generally fairly laid-back  |
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If it hadnt been for a cpl I chatted to in chat rooms I wouldnt have met Jet. He came in room didnt stay and then the cpl who had already met him messaged me and said I should meet him . Week later we met and that was over a year ago now .Have also met the cpl with him a cpl of times and said thank you in the very best way |
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"Having just recieved a message from a couple who have contacted me as they had spoken to someone in the chat rooms who recommended me!
Felt a bit cheap....as I am a person not an item that you would purchase and recommend like a household appliance!
Does this happen to other people?
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i think it depends how its worded.i recently got a lovely email from a couple saying they had heard nice things about me and after seeing my profile they could see why
However if they had written "x says you are a great fuck wanna meet" i would have been annoyed with the other persons indiscretion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the comments....guess you are right it is a compliment, just my initial feelings did not take it the way it was probably meant
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My initial reaction was the same as yours on reading your post. However reading the rest of the thread just changed my opinion on that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always taken it as a compliment but I do know what you mean. I've recommended a few single guys I know but I've checked with them first that they are ok with that. We used to meet a lot via recommendation and it worked well for us as it saves a lot of sorting the wheat from the chaff. Ms |
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"I've always taken it as a compliment but I do know what you mean. I've recommended a few single guys I know but I've checked with them first that they are ok with that. We used to meet a lot via recommendation and it worked well for us as it saves a lot of sorting the wheat from the chaff. Ms"
+1 a friend and i had similar taste in guys and we where not dissimiliar in looks and we used to end up sharing quite a few guys through recommendating |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i think it depends how its worded.i recently got a lovely email from a couple saying they had heard nice things about me and after seeing my profile they could see why
However if they had written "x says you are a great fuck wanna meet" i would have been annoyed with the other persons indiscretion. "
This.
It's all down to context and although I think my initial reaction wold have been the same as the op's, I ghuess if the approach was respectful it should be taken in the way others on the thread are viewing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having just recieved a message from a couple who have contacted me as they had spoken to someone in the chat rooms who recommended me!
Felt a bit cheap....as I am a person not an item that you would purchase and recommend like a household appliance!
Does this happen to other people?
i think it depends how its worded.i recently got a lovely email from a couple saying they had heard nice things about me and after seeing my profile they could see why
However if they had written "x says you are a great fuck wanna meet" i would have been annoyed with the other persons indiscretion. "
I agree jemima, was chatting to the OH about this. I wondered if there is a difference in the sexes as to how you would take being recommended?
ie, I would feel the same as the op and be a bit put out that my name was being 'banded around'.
The OH on the other hand said he would be really happy that he was getting his name around as a 'good fuck'!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People talk amongst themselves when they meet/get together/etc., so IMHO, it is perfectly normal for one to be mentioned in a conversation and then for the other to act on the information.
I too would take it as a compliment.  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I deffinately see it as a compliment. I will often reccomend a man or couple to a single lady friend if I have had such a good time with them. Nothing to say they will like them but it does go to show if you get a name for yourself by being a nice person people will want to meet you |
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"Having just recieved a message from a couple who have contacted me as they had spoken to someone in the chat rooms who recommended me!
Felt a bit cheap....as I am a person not an item that you would purchase and recommend like a household appliance!
Does this happen to other people?
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Do you give Nectar Points? You would take it as a complement, we have met a few single fems and would not recommend all of them, and not because of Nectar Points lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the comments....guess you are right it is a compliment, just my initial feelings did not take it the way it was probably meant
My initial reaction was the same as yours on reading your post. However reading the rest of the thread just changed my opinion on that."
I prefer discreet playmates that's why my verifications are hidden. I've not played with people I've met socially who've tried to regale me with tales of past meets.
I'm more than capable of finding my own playmates and would not be amused if a playmate "recommended" me. |
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