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“We don’t send pictures”
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do other couples on here deal with this?
Understandably some people are quite shy, or just nervous of being ‘outed’ due to jobs or family.
However we just look at it as common sense to know the face of who you’re going to be meeting first? Surely it’s not just us thinking this right? |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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Everyone is free to run their profile any way they choose but I wouldn’t really talk to someone if I didn’t know what they looked like and I definitely wouldn’t meet them  |
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By *eahorsesCouple
over a year ago
North DeVon |
We don't have photo's on here due to th work we do and also this site is not secure, how often do you see that others have had there photos taken by others.
Happy to send by other means but then only clothed one's.
Yes it means some people pass us by but that's there loss  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We don't have photo's on here due to th work we do and also this site is not secure, how often do you see that others have had there photos taken by others.
Happy to send by other means but then only clothed one's.
Yes it means some people pass us by but that's there loss "
Yeah that’s understandable, we even offered and said snapchat or something similar if you’re that concerned of privacy. No response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn’t want our work to find were here, but we find being open on the swing scene generates loyalty - we certainly don’t seem to get messed about they way some do on Fab. So sharing face pics is a calculated risk. But we also like to fish in a big fish pond. After all we’re here to have a good time, so don’t see the value in reducing our options.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't have photo's on here due to th work we do and also this site is not secure, how often do you see that others have had there photos taken by others.
Happy to send by other means but then only clothed one's.
Yes it means some people pass us by but that's there loss
Yeah that’s understandable, we even offered and said snapchat or something similar if you’re that concerned of privacy. No response "
sounds a bit suspect, i'd move on . |
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I won’t send a face pic on here as you have no idea who you’re talking to.
There are plenty of other platforms to share photos on.
If they don’t want to do that either, then chances are they aren’t who they say they are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont send face pics out ..it's never held us back in the twenty odd years of swinging..yes there as to be an attraction,as long as nobody looks like Quasimodo we are fine. we are not ugly or super good looking too.. but now it's mostly her that's having the fun we never really get asked for them anyway .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a site supporter you can send face pic and the auto delete it if shyness or privacy is the issue . Would anyone meet without seeing a face pic ?
Doesn’t stop anyone screenshotting it!"
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No pic no meet. Simple enough for us. We both have jobs that are with the general public but we aren't ashamed of what we do. Personally speaking all this nonsense about being discreet because of jobs so can't have any pics anywhere is a load of bollocks. If you send a pic by any other means it can be screenshot so what's the difference to sending them on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only send my face photo to people I have been chatting for a little bit on here and get on well with, when we're looking to set up a meet. Yes, I do take into account that they may not like what they see, but that is a risk I am prepared to take. I would not risk my face being plastered all over the internet and everyone knowing how I look like. That's also the reason I keep my face off my naughty pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to see a face picture now before meeting, I have met without one but don't anymore. I prefer to send my own face pic before a meet too.
I would not meet without seeing a face pic first but am happy to meet without seeing cock picture xxx |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
I skip by people who won't send a face pic . I had a mm couple message me Friday and when I requested fave pics they sent action pics of them getting sucked 
If they're hiding their face I assume there's a reason - fugly |
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We wouldn’t meet anybody that wasn’t willing to share pics.
We’re careful because we know some guys that work for us are on here, but if you’re talking to somebody and all seems genuine feel it would be strange not to exchange pictures. You’re going to see us soon enough anyway!
So in principle agree with a lack of public pictures, but if you are potentially looking at letting somebody share your bed, seems only natural that they know what you look like first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont send face pics. We rarely send body pics. Only had one guy not want to messege after we explained that. We meet socially to see if we all like each other and have never had anyone not want to meet to play after seeing us. Some guys we have play meets with are guys we have met while at a club so obviously they already know what we look like.
It works well for us |
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