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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
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Is their many? I know it is not for everyone and I completely respect those who say it's not or not bothered. I am now an ss bbw, I have been big all my life and fluctuated a lot over the years.
Now I don't what this to be a bad point but in my life I have slept with many many people but out of them all I have only ever felt like I was perfect for the man once.
I do get the feeling sometimes on hear that many many do not really care what people looked like as long as they get a shag, I would love thought to know there is some really lovers out there?
hope your all ok, I didn't mean to offend any individual person on hear I am just
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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theres are lots of guys who are true BBW lovers
thought your right a lot of guys dont care what size you are so long as they get a shag
But i know a few men who have a real passion of bigger ladies |
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"sorry whats SS?
it means super size BBW, like the bigger end of big
saying that having looked at the OPs pics i wouldnt say she was SSBBW"
Ahhh ty.
OP, confidence is the sexiest thing going,i think labels dont help,if you feel sexy men will find you sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"he he no it would never do. I am been looking on sites and the comments under some of their pictures made me wish I could maybe meet men as part of a couple who loved big ladies."
theres lots out there x |
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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago
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im a bbw and i think some guys are shallow, but there are lots out there, if you persevere and sort them from the idiots, who do like the bigger ladies and not the thinner ones.but after all, we are all different and have different opinions, but beauty is only in the eye of the person looking.  i dont have much trouble with guys, and they can see my pics so they know what they getting into lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im a bbw and i think some guys are shallow, but there are lots out there, if you persevere and sort them from the idiots, who do like the bigger ladies and not the thinner ones.but after all, we are all different and have different opinions, but beauty is only in the eye of the person looking. i dont have much trouble with guys, and they can see my pics so they know what they getting into lol."
Why is someone shallow or an idiot if they don't like larger ladies? If you expect others to respect you, you also have to respect the preferences of others.
I'm confident in myself and don't need others to validate me. My profile is specific in what I'm looking for, and my filters are brutal. I'm not going to be everybody's cup of tea, I still wouldn't be if I looked like Halle Berry!
I put my size on my profile to help people decide if I'm for them or not. I don't need to add "if you don't like big girls, jog on" that some favour, why have it? Sounds rude and defensive...but that's me. |
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There are lots of guys that genuine love all sized bbws. Some guys just love women full stop.
Ive always had my dress size on my profile and uptodate photos. Never gone on about my size. They can see what i look like and judge for themselves whether they like me or not. |
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over a year ago
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I'm an ssbbw (size 30) and I get awful messages from people on here.. Why do it? We all have different preferences and likes- but why abuse those that don't float your boat.
I've had men cancel meets cos they've met someone skinnier- and it does knock your confidence- enough that I don't have sex anymore- because of my bad experiences. People need to think before they insult!!
Keep you chin up darling- your braver than me- wouldn't dare post pics of my body on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm an ssbbw (size 30) and I get awful messages from people on here.. Why do it? We all have different preferences and likes- but why abuse those that don't float your boat.
I've had men cancel meets cos they've met someone skinnier- and it does knock your confidence- enough that I don't have sex anymore- because of my bad experiences. People need to think before they insult!!
Keep you chin up darling- your braver than me- wouldn't dare post pics of my body on here! "
Ahhhh god bless you,and if people are that shallow minded they are not worth bothering about...just look the other way and have confidence in yrself,...confidence is sexiness xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i adore ss bbw women i dont start looking at women under size i8 unless they have large breasts and having tried both sizes large and small women i find the bigger girls definatley have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas i do think alot of men are sexist to larger girls but i would say dont knock what you haven't tried you just may enjoy it and want more like me |
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"i adore ss bbw women i dont start looking at women under size i8 unless they have large breasts and having tried both sizes large and small women i find the bigger girls definatley have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas i do think alot of men are sexist to larger girls but i would say dont knock what you haven't tried you just may enjoy it and want more like me "
and your not sexist to smaller women then ?? |
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"i adore ss bbw women i dont start looking at women under size i8 unless they have large breasts and having tried both sizes large and small women i find the bigger girls definatley have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas i do think alot of men are sexist to larger girls but i would say dont knock what you haven't tried you just may enjoy it and want more like me "
I disagree with "have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas " with that comment. Ive gone from size 26 to a size 18 and plan on loosing more, so does that mean im no longer going to be fun, be more uptight and not open to new ideas anymore. Ive been a big girl all my life and yes guys are attracted to big women but i dont think body size makes the personality its the individual that makes the personality |
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i dream of the day when everyone just accepts others preferences
just because a guy doesn like a bbw or a ssbbw doesnt mean they are shallow, it just means they are not turned on by someone that is overweight
there are genuine bbw lovers out there, the same as there are gus who just want a shag, but at the end of the day, if you want a shag to where is the problem??
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"i adore ss bbw women i dont start looking at women under size i8 unless they have large breasts and having tried both sizes large and small women i find the bigger girls definatley have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas i do think alot of men are sexist to larger girls but i would say dont knock what you haven't tried you just may enjoy it and want more like me
I disagree with "have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas " with that comment. Ive gone from size 26 to a size 18 and plan on loosing more, so does that mean im no longer going to be fun, be more uptight and not open to new ideas anymore. Ive been a big girl all my life and yes guys are attracted to big women but i dont think body size makes the personality its the individual that makes the personality"
Yes!
i had to read what he said twice there...i have gone down 3 dress sizes...i liked the way i looked then,i like the way i look now,i lost the weight for health reasons.One thing that certainly has not changed is my ability in bed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm an ssbbw (size 30) and I get awful messages from people on here.. Why do it? We all have different preferences and likes- but why abuse those that don't float your boat.
I've had men cancel meets cos they've met someone skinnier- and it does knock your confidence- enough that I don't have sex anymore- because of my bad experiences. People need to think before they insult!!
Keep you chin up darling- your braver than me- wouldn't dare post pics of my body on here! "
I'm now a size 22. I was a size 32 at my heaviest and never had someone insult me for my size!
Did the men that cancel say it's because they'd met someone slimmer or did your insecurities assume that? Read the forums, men cancel for every reason imaginable. Some people can't accept rejection and look for easy options to place at the door of others...their size/colour/sexual orientation etc.
There is someone for everyone here, none of us will appeal to all, but in a play situation confidence is a turn on...self loathing isn't.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i adore ss bbw women i dont start looking at women under size i8 unless they have large breasts and having tried both sizes large and small women i find the bigger girls definatley have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas i do think alot of men are sexist to larger girls but i would say dont knock what you haven't tried you just may enjoy it and want more like me
I disagree with "have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas " with that comment. Ive gone from size 26 to a size 18 and plan on loosing more, so does that mean im no longer going to be fun, be more uptight and not open to new ideas anymore. Ive been a big girl all my life and yes guys are attracted to big women but i dont think body size makes the personality its the individual that makes the personality"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dream of the day when everyone just accepts others preferences
just because a guy doesn like a bbw or a ssbbw doesnt mean they are shallow, it just means they are not turned on by someone that is overweight
there are genuine bbw lovers out there, the same as there are gus who just want a shag, but at the end of the day, if you want a shag to where is the problem??
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Surely a preferance for bigger ladies is as narrow minded as a preferance for smaller ladies, or older or younger ladies.
So people get slated for being narrow minded.
But then the people who are out there who will shag anything (men and women) are slated for being easy and just out to fuck whoever.
Surely in the end its just fun we are after and what ever parameters we have or don't have is no bodies elses business.
For example I may have arranged a meet with a perfectly lovely lady on here, but then last minute angelina Jolie asked for a meet, well I may just cancel, but then as I get into my car, my wife calls saying she wants to fuck to, when my plans would change again and I'd pick her up on the way.
People's decisions change as their options change, loyalty to strangers is hard to come by.
Of course the Ideal outcome would be me my wife angelina jolie and the nice lady frome here, but hey thats just fantasy land.  |
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This whole subject is beginning to grate on me. I just don't understand any of it. If you are overweight, not bothered about the extra health risks and happy with yourself...who gives a flying f..k what anyone thinks anyway? People are all shallow...we are led by what we find attractive and what we find is attainable to us. Some are inverted shallows by refusing to play with much more attractive/younger as they would feel bad in camparison...lack of confidence, chip on shoulder...whatever. some overweights mail those more in shape and then complain they have said no because they are being shallow...yet they wanted to meet beecause they are in shape! This is not about shape, size or looks its about choice. Some will shag anything. Some like large, some small. All these preferences are critised largely by those who are excluded by said choices! This is it now people...listen closely.... it doesn't matter what you are like if it works for you, if it doesn't change it!!!! To sit winging that people like you for the wrong reasons or don't like you for the same ones is just insecure and not what I expect from a mature person. Its about choice...........thank god!
Ps...people happy in their own skins are usually the best lovers full stop! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This whole subject is beginning to grate on me. I just don't understand any of it. If you are overweight, not bothered about the extra health risks and happy with yourself...who gives a flying f..k what anyone thinks anyway? People are all shallow...we are led by what we find attractive and what we find is attainable to us. Some are inverted shallows by refusing to play with much more attractive/younger as they would feel bad in camparison...lack of confidence, chip on shoulder...whatever. some overweights mail those more in shape and then complain they have said no because they are being shallow...yet they wanted to meet beecause they are in shape! This is not about shape, size or looks its about choice. Some will shag anything. Some like large, some small. All these preferences are critised largely by those who are excluded by said choices! This is it now people...listen closely.... it doesn't matter what you are like if it works for you, if it doesn't change it!!!! To sit winging that people like you for the wrong reasons or don't like you for the same ones is just insecure and not what I expect from a mature person. Its about choice...........thank god!
Ps...people happy in their own skins are usually the best lovers full stop!"
Very well said, great post. |
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"Is their many? I know it is not for everyone and I completely respect those who say it's not or not bothered. I am now an ss bbw, I have been big all my life and fluctuated a lot over the years.
Now I don't what this to be a bad point but in my life I have slept with many many people but out of them all I have only ever felt like I was perfect for the man once.
I do get the feeling sometimes on hear that many many do not really care what people looked like as long as they get a shag, I would love thought to know there is some really lovers out there?
hope your all ok, I didn't mean to offend any individual person on hear I am just
michelle (and martyn)"
wouldnt call you ss bbw by a long way, you should see the size of some girls in america, now they are sssss sized.. think you look great myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i have always loved the larger lady i have been with ss woman as well we are all differant thank god really cant wait to see new pics off you un xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This whole subject is beginning to grate on me. I just don't understand any of it. If you are overweight, not bothered about the extra health risks and happy with yourself...who gives a flying f..k what anyone thinks anyway? People are all shallow...we are led by what we find attractive and what we find is attainable to us. Some are inverted shallows by refusing to play with much more attractive/younger as they would feel bad in camparison...lack of confidence, chip on shoulder...whatever. some overweights mail those more in shape and then complain they have said no because they are being shallow...yet they wanted to meet beecause they are in shape! This is not about shape, size or looks its about choice. Some will shag anything. Some like large, some small. All these preferences are critised largely by those who are excluded by said choices! This is it now people...listen closely.... it doesn't matter what you are like if it works for you, if it doesn't change it!!!! To sit winging that people like you for the wrong reasons or don't like you for the same ones is just insecure and not what I expect from a mature person. Its about choice...........thank god!
Ps...people happy in their own skins are usually the best lovers full stop!
Very well said, great post. "
Yep...couldn't agree more! |
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"This whole subject is beginning to grate on me. I just don't understand any of it. If you are overweight, not bothered about the extra health risks and happy with yourself...who gives a flying f..k what anyone thinks anyway? People are all shallow...we are led by what we find attractive and what we find is attainable to us. Some are inverted shallows by refusing to play with much more attractive/younger as they would feel bad in camparison...lack of confidence, chip on shoulder...whatever. some overweights mail those more in shape and then complain they have said no because they are being shallow...yet they wanted to meet beecause they are in shape! This is not about shape, size or looks its about choice. Some will shag anything. Some like large, some small. All these preferences are critised largely by those who are excluded by said choices! This is it now people...listen closely.... it doesn't matter what you are like if it works for you, if it doesn't change it!!!! To sit winging that people like you for the wrong reasons or don't like you for the same ones is just insecure and not what I expect from a mature person. Its about choice...........thank god!
Ps...people happy in their own skins are usually the best lovers full stop!"
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I've known kinky, sexy slim women and kinky, sexy larger women. Not much point making generalisations about sex and size when personality is such a huge part of what makes a person appealing or not. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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" i find the bigger girls definatley have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas
Hmmm I think my meets would disagree with that statement!! "
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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
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ok I am still groggy from an anesthetic but I think some have got me wrong it is all about choice we all have our opinions on who/what we like.
so my post was about going with a couple or whoever that really really like big women. I/we have no problem getting meets and really enjoy them, with any couple who we like and they like us.
I have been having a look around ssbbw sites and also feeder sites and it is exciting to think there are so many who go wild for the bigger girl. this is what I was getting at not getting cranky becuase no one wants to get with a big girl..
oh and once I have recovered from my op I am buying some sexy stuff on line and we will be updating all our pictures.
and thank you so much for all the lovely mesg
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" i find the bigger girls definatley have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas
this is just my personal opinion i also like small people being short myself so tall thin doesnt do it for me i dont like short hair big feet small breasts and athletic build types but they are just my preferances which are my own i am sure that everyone has a good time when having sex and sex with thin girls for me is sometimes like gay sex but with one diffrence but can still be enjoyable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm shallow on here, what's wrong with that?"
define shallow tho
by being shallow do you mean you go for people your attracted to only?
if so them im shallow to and more than bloody happy to be so, because im not shagging anyone i dont fancy just because 'they're a nice person' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i adore ss bbw women i dont start looking at women under size i8 unless they have large breasts and having tried both sizes large and small women i find the bigger girls definatley have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas i do think alot of men are sexist to larger girls but i would say dont knock what you haven't tried you just may enjoy it and want more like me
and your not sexist to smaller women then ??"
but your allowed to be rude to slim women because thats just ok
the amount of BBW threads i have read where people are calling slim ladies stick insects and bags of bones is unreal but for some reason thats perfectly ok
but if a slim lady/lover came on and called a BBW a beached whale all hell would break loose  |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm shallow on here, what's wrong with that?
define shallow tho
by being shallow do you mean you go for people your attracted to only?
if so them im shallow to and more than bloody happy to be so, because im not shagging anyone i dont fancy just because 'they're a nice person' "
Well said, pisses me off when ppl think we should meet them, me and my O/H have eachother, so why should we change our preferences, when swinging is a second addition to our sex life and not a first. Sorry we dont meet BBW not our thing and nor should we be persuaded to change our preferences. This also apply's to people we just have no attraction to for other reasons. But some do try and change our opinions makes us giggle x |
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By *obblybits OP Couple
over a year ago
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right done I have put some new photos up. for the second time I do not what so ever think people should meet me or anyone ells they were not attracted to sexually I do not know were you have read that in any of my posts.
there is a number of people we have not wanted to meet for one thing or another. everyone knows what/ who they want to meet and should not be guilted in to sleep with someone who they are not sexually attracted to or for whatever reason.
please again do not think I am saying that. |
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By *XXJAYMan
over a year ago
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"i adore ss bbw women i dont start looking at women under size i8 unless they have large breasts and having tried both sizes large and small women i find the bigger girls definatley have more fun are more relaxed and are better lovers and far more open to ideas i do think alot of men are sexist to larger girls but i would say dont knock what you haven't tried you just may enjoy it and want more like me
and your not sexist to smaller women then ??
but your allowed to be rude to slim women because thats just ok
the amount of BBW threads i have read where people are calling slim ladies stick insects and bags of bones is unreal but for some reason thats perfectly ok
but if a slim lady/lover came on and called a BBW a beached whale all hell would break loose "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm shallow on here, what's wrong with that?
define shallow tho
by being shallow do you mean you go for people your attracted to only?
if so them im shallow to and more than bloody happy to be so, because im not shagging anyone i dont fancy just because 'they're a nice person' "
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