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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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Fabsters
I got my inspiration for this from a comment left on another thread.
So I’ve been musing about it whilst driving to the hair salon.
My question is this:-
Do you prefer making love with a fellow Fabster or just having sex with them and for either option why? What, in your opinion, is the difference?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As above, making love involves emotion and deep feelings although I don't call it that as it sounds awful and a bit cliché.
Fab sex is fucking, albeit very very good fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having sex, or fucking, is for me when I'm horny, making love is a different level completely where you have deep feelings for the lady, I don't think you could make love in a 3some, that for me is pure fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex with emotion. I wouldn't consider meeting for sex unless there were a connection first. Meaningless sex would leave me cold now. It was more fun 5 years ago. Now my feelings have changed. I don't like making love per say, but there needs to be a core emotional connection or it won't happen. I've chosen well with those I've played with. I know I'm no longer the swinger I once was, but I'm comfortable with that  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sex with emotion. I wouldn't consider meeting for sex unless there were a connection first. Meaningless sex would leave me cold now. It was more fun 5 years ago. Now my feelings have changed. I don't like making love per say, but there needs to be a core emotional connection or it won't happen. I've chosen well with those I've played with. I know I'm no longer the swinger I once was, but I'm comfortable with that . "
 . It makes the sex better too ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its all the same to me only difference is the conection with the other person if about lust its just fuckin
If u genuinly care for the person its love making wether rough or gentle but in the end its all just sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just sex.
I get my love making from the man I love.
Sex with others should just be hot, sweaty and animalistic as far as our needs go.
Then we go home and fuck, usually blending into love making.
Eve. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me making love is when you do have a deep emotional connection with the other person and even with my ex (together 20+ years) we never made love or what I have experienced only once that I would class as making love.
But I think you can still have slow sensual sex which can be very intimate and passionate.
To not have sex without feelings is a strange theory.. is it not the feelings of being turned on... feeling horny or being aroused by the other person that leads to amazing sex!!?
I think people are too afraid of feelings sometimes!!? |
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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago
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When i met my man on a vanilla website we wanted to be fuck buddys and fucked a lot then feelings crept in and we went from fucking to making love but we still sometimes fuck hehehe and always fuck with others, love making is something special between just the 2 of us xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me making love is when you do have a deep emotional connection with the other person and even with my ex (together 20+ years) we never made love or what I have experienced only once that I would class as making love.
But I think you can still have slow sensual sex which can be very intimate and passionate.
To not have sex without feelings is a strange theory.. is it not the feelings of being turned on... feeling horny or being aroused by the other person that leads to amazing sex!!?
I think people are too afraid of feelings sometimes!!? "
Feelings are the best bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As most our meets are just to fuck and go its just sex 99% of them don't even see my face which i find a turn on as i could be standing next to a guy who has fucked me and neither of us know it.
Making love is for someone you love and care for clue is in the name  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love is an emotion I feel and doesnt change the way that I fuck, there is no difference for me between making love and fucking as its all just fucking, if I fuck someone I love they get fucked in the same way as I fuck a fuck buddy or a random fuck, sometimes its fast and hard or sometimes its slow and gentle but they are all just fucking, love doesnt change the way that I fuck someone but if I love you then afterwards instead of a high five id instead slap your ass and tell you I love you and have ourselves a little snuggle in the wet patch. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"As most our meets are just to fuck and go its just sex 99% of them don't even see my face which i find a turn on as i could be standing next to a guy who has fucked me and neither of us know it.
Making love is for someone you love and care for clue is in the name "
Do you wear a mask? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some women I'd fuck and some others I'd make love to
So could you make love to someone without being in love?  "
I'd be in love with her body for the night and maybe the following day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are some women I'd fuck and some others I'd make love to
So could you make love to someone without being in love?
I'd be in love with her body for the night and maybe the following day "
Good answer!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are some women I'd fuck and some others I'd make love to
So could you make love to someone without being in love?
I'd be in love with her body for the night and maybe the following day
Good answer!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's just a physical release. I'm not looking for an emotional connection, it doesn't mean that it can't be intense or erotic, just when it's over, there is no lasting attachment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a mix between the two for me.
I’m a sensual person, so eye contact, kisses, touches, body contact is important to me. I love being deep inside someone, feeling every movement, so slow works but when the intensity increases I love fucking that orgasm out, so both would be perfect for me... |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Make love with eachother..sex on meets "
Same here - we make love as a couple (but sometimes just enjoy a good fuck), but when we swing I have pure sex with other other guys (and girls if I'm lucky, though that does tend to be more tender) |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Ok Fabsters thanks for all your honesty. Most say it’s ‘just sex’ but do you need to have a certain feeling for the partner you are having sex with, even if it’s just down to liking them? Would it bother you if they told you later they felt they were just being used by you?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok Fabsters thanks for all your honesty. Most say it’s ‘just sex’ but do you need to have a certain feeling for the partner you are having sex with, even if it’s just down to liking them? Would it bother you if they told you later they felt they were just being used by you?
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Even though I said it's just fucking there still has to be a connection. Can't do it for the sake of it, doesn't do anything for me.
If they told me they felt like I had used them then I'd be a little disappointed as that's not me. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Ok Fabsters thanks for all your honesty. Most say it’s ‘just sex’ but do you need to have a certain feeling for the partner you are having sex with, even if it’s just down to liking them? Would it bother you if they told you later they felt they were just being used by you?
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We play almost entirely in clubs, and no, I don't have to have any feelings for the people I fuck there, it's just fantasy fulfilling sex. In fact once when I was giving my partner a blow job a guy took me from behind. I never even saw his face but I had a fantastic orgasm. On the other hand there are one or two guys and couples we meet occasionally in the clubs because we do like each other, but it is still pure unadulterated sex. No one has ever said they have felt used. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok Fabsters thanks for all your honesty. Most say it’s ‘just sex’ but do you need to have a certain feeling for the partner you are having sex with, even if it’s just down to liking them? Would it bother you if they told you later they felt they were just being used by you?
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Have had meets where it’s literally just been sex, and that’s fine, but for me it’s liking someone as a person that makes me want to go back! Those kind of repeat meets are my favourite, as I trust the person without any more complicated feelings involved. Would definitely then bother me if they didn’t feel the same!
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"Fabsters
I got my inspiration for this from a comment left on another thread.
So I’ve been musing about it whilst driving to the hair salon.
My question is this:-
Do you prefer making love with a fellow Fabster or just having sex with them and for either option why? What, in your opinion, is the difference?
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Making love is between us two as a couple, as it's an emotional thing.
Swinging is sex as a hobby with people we like.
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"Ok Fabsters thanks for all your honesty. Most say it’s ‘just sex’ but do you need to have a certain feeling for the partner you are having sex with, even if it’s just down to liking them? Would it bother you if they told you later they felt they were just being used by you?
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In all honesty if people we met felt they had been used , we could just as easily say the same back to them . No one is more up front than us , and if anyone meeting us expects more than nsa sex they clearly haven’t thought it through . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the difference between making love and sex there only words surely the action is the same?
There is a difference regardless of actions "
But what's the difference? |
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