"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?
You been dogged out?"
Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages. |
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"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?
You been dogged out?
Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages. "
Oh. That’s different then. Anyone would be pissed off after that. |
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"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?
You been dogged out?
Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages. "
I had that once, we had met twice for coffee and chatted for a couple of months, on the morning of the sex meet he wasn't replying to my texts, so I set off textured said I was on way. He ended up chucking me out coz he had been drinking and smoking all night and couldn't get it up. He wasn't from this site. Although it wasn't a stand up, looking back he clearly had cold feet. It was only my second sexual meet. I know better know. XXX |
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"Unfortunately it happens...people get cold feet.
It would be so much better if they actually messaged saying that they'd changed their minds rather than the standard no reply."
This is called ghosting |
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"Whoever it was, wasn't who you thought they were.... e.g. male rather than female, ugly rather than attractive, unavailable rather than available
This could be the answer "
Or her husband/boyfriend found her phone.... |
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"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?
You been dogged out?
Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages. "
Ghosting! Terribly rude a simple changed my mind text would have been better! Onwards and upwards buttercup! |
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It's cruel. But it says more about them than you.
Everyone has a right to change their mind but it's good manners to say so and give you some notice of their intention.
I wouldn't be suprised if you're blocked now? |
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"Whoever it was, wasn't who you thought they were.... e.g. male rather than female, ugly rather than attractive, unavailable rather than available
This could be the answer "
Sorry I've just re-read your original post and seen that you have already met once. In that case, couldn't get away because attached, or had a better offer. Either way not someone to take up a moment longer of your time. |
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"It's cruel. But it says more about them than you.
Everyone has a right to change their mind but it's good manners to say so and give you some notice of their intention.
I wouldn't be suprised if you're blocked now? "
Nope not blocked, still blue ticked on WhatsApp |
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"To be interested if you have zero intention to meet?
You been dogged out?
Well actually met Monday, spoken all week over text, said she was on the way then never replied back despite reading my messages. "
Probably married and got cold feet, it's not only guys who do it. |
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Happened to me on POF. I got talking to a lass from Barnsley in December and we got on really well. Organised a date in February, three days before the date she blocked me on POF and Facebook.
I can't stand it when people string you along like that, nothing pisses me off more. I don't think they get cold feet per se, I think they do it because they get a kick out of it. |
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