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Couples could you go a club alone?
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We have only ever been to clubs together and both have said if we were single we couldn't do it alone. Mr because of the way men get charged and treated like cattle and Nikki because she wouldn't like to be pestered all night
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over a year ago
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I’ve done it ! And when I do it I just rely on the fact that I’ll know someone that I’ll go chat too and at least that gets me way from the single male group stood on there own nervously haha |
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"I’ve done it ! And when I do it I just rely on the fact that I’ll know someone that I’ll go chat too and at least that gets me way from the single male group stood on there own nervously haha "
That's the best way . The way we see to work best is say hello to a couple you like The look of and carry on. If she is keen they will find you. Nikki always points out the guys she likes and she will approach them or I will. |
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I would go alone not sure on wife.probably if she planned meet with a previous playmate. Not had any problems with people bothering us at club we use and not rip off admission prices either single male members charged same as couples |
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"I’ve done it ! And when I do it I just rely on the fact that I’ll know someone that I’ll go chat too and at least that gets me way from the single male group stood on there own nervously haha
That's the best way . The way we see to work best is say hello to a couple you like The look of and carry on. If she is keen they will find you. Nikki always points out the guys she likes and she will approach them or I will."
Exactly mate ! I’m a confident lad so I’ll talk to anyone lol just to break the ice and get the night going
P.s I would defo approach u two |
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Quite a few ladies attend AtlantisEVOLUTION without their partner sometimes.
They say they feel more comfortable there than even the local pub, they know people look out for each other.
The men also sometimes attend on their own too, can't see a problem as long as you are comfortable with it. |
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"We have only ever been to clubs together and both have said if we were single we couldn't do it alone. Mr because of the way men get charged and treated like cattle and Nikki because she wouldn't like to be pestered all night
Couples would do it as a single?"
Having previously gone together to check it out, we've agreed we would feel comfortable if the occasion arose to each go alone to the Vanilla Alternative MILF club, but that's about it |
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"We have only ever been to clubs together and both have said if we were single we couldn't do it alone. Mr because of the way men get charged and treated like cattle and Nikki because she wouldn't like to be pestered all night
Couples would do it as a single?"
We wouldn’t even swing as singles , never mind go to a club as a single .
With so many dating apps we wouldn’t even dream of coming onto a swinging site as singles . |
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over a year ago
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I used to go regular as a single to mingles club in Colchester.. started out by myself, then the wife wanted to come along too... but sometimes she let's me go by myself still |
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I George would go to a club alone just to enjoy the atmosphere if I got lucky would just be a bonus
mildred would never go alone she would be scared of all the guys pestering her |
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Having done so as a couple, we both could go as singles, but won't.
We both are confident enough to metaphorically hold our own in a social context and are comfortable in making decisions that we can live with.
She's played alone in clubs with me talking with other women, whilst we weren't going to get it on at the time, it was good fun chatting with them and don't feel that it wasn't time well spent. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Such a shame to see all the females saying they wouldn't go to a club, for fear of being pestered.
Some club's are like that, but other clubs are really fun and sociable. I never get pestered, because I happily chat to people and make it clear whether or not I am likely to play that night.
Men usually are respectful and understand the word no, without problems. |
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I (female) have been to Chameleons on my own and had a great chilled social evening. Whether I would do it again and if I would ever play alone is another matter. Certainly an option if I was single but I'm not.
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
I've done it as a single and now as a couple. I don't think I would go as a single again, I didn't really enjoy going alone and the experience has been infinitely better as a couple so I would just look back and compare. Maybe the only way I would go alone is if I had arranged to meet someone there in advance. |
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By *omeFreeMan
over a year ago
Twickenham |
I've been alone once and with the Mrs a few times. Very different experiences. As a single guy I couldn't help feeling a bit self conscious with all the other single guys and yet as a couple, if we'd gone and there were no single guys, we would have been just as well shagging at home! |
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