I have notice, over a party were we recently attended, that no one there change his condom when he swapped from a woman to another one. I don't say nothing about the situation when somebody play with only one partner from the start up to the end, i mean those situation when you start playing with someone, and, at some point, you change your playmate. In those cases a condom it's good only to prevent a unexpected pregnancy or I am wrong?! I notice also the situation when women play together and share their play toys or touching their genitals...what I did and I loved, I admit that. But I start thinking and I am a little bit puzzled. Most people do safe sex because they want stay safe from diseases, but where is the difference here between bareback and safe sex. If somebody have bad luck and catch something, I really don't think it's maters how or where the germs come from, a plastic toy, hand/fingers, a contaminated condom or because he had unsafe sex.
I have to say that I am totally for safe sex and well aware about the risk involved when you do bareback. But what's the point if a guy swap from one woman to another using same condom. What do you think about it? |
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wow not good! many people play unsafe in the swing scene and i always wonder why!
Safe all the way and change comdoms for anal and every time we go for another session..its clean and better i think. |
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This is a topic that has been talked about in here before and no doubt will be discussed again.
We debated for a long time if we should have a section in our swinging guide book on safe sex and sexual health or not, in the end we decided to include and even augmented it with an actual interview with a doctor from an NHS STD Clinic, so we could have someone actually speak with some authority on the subject on it, rather than express any forceful opinions ourselves.
We asked the Doc about every sexual practise going and also to sort out some of the latest info on HIV and other STDs which always scare people half to death in the forums.
We still always encourage people to have safe sex, use differnet condoms for different partners, washing fingers is probably a bit extreme, (Yes its possibly for STD's to travel this way but highly unlikely and you certainly won't catch Aids or Hep C)
Some people have BB with a certain select group or special fuck buddies, thats up to them and we are sure they know them better than we do.
Personally we would never do BB outside of our relationship.
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------We asked the Doc about every sexual practise going and also to sort out some of the latest info on HIV and other STDs which always scare people half to death in the forums------
What was his conclusion? |
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Agree with the above, but people who are in rel/ships do cheat and do BB and then continue to do BB with their LTR....... point i am making is just because you’re in a LTR does not mean you are safe, been there done that and got the t-shirt when in a LTR and found he cheated and to add to insult did BB with her, not only did i have to do the GUM clinic to get tested then another test 3 months after that for the second check up lucky for me all clear but not good and safe all the way from then onwards! The whole experience was degrading and not good but had to be done for peace of mind and would not put my health in others hands. |
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