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Would you ever have a relationship with someone you met on fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely. If it felt right then ofcourse I would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would consider a relationship with anyone I met anywhere, if I wanted a relationship.

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By *elnkazCouple over a year ago

cheshire

I did.... I married him last year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. I caught the feels with someone I met on here and I'm very happy with what we have

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

If I was single I wouldn't see any reason why not

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Yes I would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah why not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I most definitely would, I want to meet someone on the same sexual wavelength as me.

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By *traightguy101Man over a year ago

Darlington

Would never say never. Anything can happen!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me that would be ideal as we’d have similar sexual interests and that a big part of a relationship for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I most definitely would, I want to meet someone on the same sexual wavelength as me. "

That

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Yep. Those that say "I'd never get into a relationship with someone from a site like this" make me

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By *traightguy101Man over a year ago

Darlington

Chemistry is a massive part of a relationship and if there is enough of that to start with, sometimes it's a no brainer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would..

In fact i have, twice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to make you peachy your amazing x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I definitely wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell yeah... if you’ve got the chemistry... it’s when people aren’t looking that they find the best things in life!

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By *lick9Man over a year ago

Stockport

I am right now and it was supposed to be only a meet for a fuck which then turned out we clicked so we met again and again. It was supposed to be NSA fun but feelings developed between us both . Its awesome as we are both on the same wavelength with vanilla stuff but also sexually . This is hard to find so I am chuffed to bits

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I would xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have and would again, if the connection were there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sure you was more wanting answers from singles but Shaz has had relationships twice from here, once with a female for about a year and also with a guy for over 3 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would be hypocritical to look for people here to play with and not have a relationship if you really connected...or would you go vanilla if met someone from outside the scene..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was fortunate enough to meet the right lady on here I don’t see why not.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Under the right circumstances yes! But it would have to be something special and with trust (if we’ve met here!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about you OP? Or do you think taking a swinger home to meet your Ma is not right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't care where I met someone so long as I met them. If I met them on here though they'd have to leave or give me their login details cos I wouldn't want them to be meeting other people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yup. I would.

Yup. I did.

Yup. It’s still bloody amazing.

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

Yes I would.. if its what we both wanted.. fab is just another social site to meet people.. for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes definitely

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Yes. We have been together nearly two years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely if they match what I desire and I match theirs. It’s about connection. If you have it you have it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

Why not?

Put it this way many have hooked up with someone from a club pub or party and ended up in a long term relationship or even marrying them. Why is this place any different?

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

I wouldn't rule it out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, that is exactly why I am here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have done.

It was a mistake. He couldn't curb his jealousy. He wanted his cake and to eat it. I.e. We could only meet females, I agreed to it as I like meeting fems. But it still didn't work because he would block any guys that looked at our couples profile, he was always accusing me of being in contact with people from fab. He would look in my phone and demand my pass codes but never gave his up. And the worse event that springs to mind was when a male friend came to talk to me at chams beach party and he had a major strop and stormed out.

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By *kyblue1878Couple over a year ago

Southport

Isn't swinging primarily a couples/group lifestyle? That's why couples join join swinging sites believe it or not. To meet other couples and the odd single. Why on earth wouldn't a single male or female enter into a relationship on here. Best of both worlds isn't it? And if you'd rather not share your partner with other's then don't be don't be so hypocritical and expect to meet other couples on here.

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

I would love to grow old disgracefully with a fellow swinger from here.

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By *ovingittwoCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

I’m in a relationship with my husband lol

Question to the floor haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Congrats guys!!!!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man over a year ago

Bristol

It would seem really closed minded to say no..and tho I am not specifically looking for an emotional relationship(guess that's what you mean OP?)I have never really felt in control over who I have a more serious relationship with,so it happens sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sure, why not? No different to meeting anywhere else if it's what you both want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely. I'm not here looking for a relationship but if it happened, I wouldn't turn it down. It would be ideal really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This site is supposed to be all about being open minded to new things ... so to find someone on the same page as you sexually and that to lead to something more ... I say embrace it

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

There has been a few relationships that have started on fab, then subsequently moved off fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely. I wouldn't say no to a fellow swinger as a partner. One things for sure you both know your dirty kinky fuckers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have in the past. Would I do it again ? Not sure. Depends on the elbows of that person.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Already and and have been for about 5mobths now after knowing him through here for about 5 years

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I have and would if it felt right

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

Yes I'd be in one and have been. If you're both on here then why not make it official.

Everything starts off as just sex but then you connect with said person and feelings etc come into play

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'd consider it if it happended but that's not really why I'm here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would never say never and if I met a person Who I connected with on all levels then why not? I couldn’t imagine saying no just because they were off fab!!! It’s dependant on a lot of things and sometimes I don’t think you can plan anything!!! It just happens or it doesn’t!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like monogamy in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have in the past. Would I do it again ? Not sure. Depends on the elbows of that person. "

Or fringe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would never get into a relationship with any swingers ... they are nasty people riddle with Sti/std’s...

Sometimes when I read forum topics... I say Wtf are they asking...

Carry on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and 9 years later we are still together

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By *khot1Couple over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

Depends whether u expect them to come off fab etc. U cant meet someone off a swingers site then expect them to stop swinging! Seems a few people expect this and it only spells disaster from day 1 x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely....one of the biggest aspects of a relationship is sex and the connection so to be on the same wavelength on that side of things would be a good start.

I’ve got into relationships only to find them not compatible sexually, so it’s kinda like doing it the other way round on here.

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple over a year ago

East Mids

Yea I married her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn't swinging primarily a couples/group lifestyle? That's why couples join join swinging sites believe it or not. To meet other couples and the odd single. Why on earth wouldn't a single male or female enter into a relationship on here. Best of both worlds isn't it? And if you'd rather not share your partner with other's then don't be don't be so hypocritical and expect to meet other couples on here."

I'm very happy being hypocritical. No way I'd have a relationship with anyone off here.

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By *otBunsHunWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yes ...if we liked the same things and the lifestyle the what's not to like?

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

I would for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By *cunnylassCouple over a year ago

Exeter

We met on Fab and we've been in a relationship for over 2 years now.

Mike and Mandy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just go with the flow and don't expect anything and you might be nicely suprised

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just go with the flow and don't expect anything and you might be nicely suprised

I agree... sometimes I think there are too many expectations these days... people would like this or not that...yes some people might not want a relationship for whatever reason which is fine... but if two people meet and the fireworks go off then I think it would be sad not to explore and just see what happens whether it’s fab or anywhere!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did! The sex was amazing. I loved everything about her.

It was always awkward,when we were asked how we met.

Trouble is,I always felt that she thought I only wanted her for sex.

She still had connections with guys that she had met from Fab(prior to meeting me). I always worried that the lure of Fab was too strong for her,so I decided to call it a day.

We were both happy that we shared the time that we had.

We had a great time whilst it lasted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I would.. if its what we both wanted.. fab is just another social site to meet people.. for me anyway

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"I would never get into a relationship with any swingers ... they are nasty people riddle with Sti/std’s...

Sometimes when I read forum topics... I say Wtf are they asking...

Carry on"

If you truely believe that it’s does beg the question why you’re actually on here trying to shag them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I would

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

100%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

I actively want this having been a married swinging couple previously.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’ve got into relationships only to find them not compatible sexually, so it’s kinda like doing it the other way round on here. "

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By *htcMan over a year ago

yes perfect match, no secrets about this then

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By *llysonMacWoman over a year ago

Hanley

While I have not been in a swinging relationship before, as long as the connection, communication and trust is there I would be more than up for a relationship with someone from here. Now just to find the (not so) lucky fella!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, I have done.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

Why wouldn’t you?

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By *orticiaWoman over a year ago

Wirral

I know quite a few people who met their partner through swinging - clubs rather than fab, but there are definitely a few of the regular forumites who have met through here!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely definitely 100%. In fact I have stumbled across someone, unfortunately we are on a different page but I definitely would!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We met on here

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely chuffing not!

Most of the men here are less than average IMO....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As in the "real" world, it would depend on the man x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would never get into a relationship with any swingers ... they are nasty people riddle with Sti/std’s...

Sometimes when I read forum topics... I say Wtf are they asking...

Carry on

If you truely believe that it’s does beg the question why you’re actually on here trying to shag them "

Sarcasm is a lost art...... my point was some topics on this forum just blow my mind.... I just posted that comment because I knew 99.9 percent of people would say yes they are open to a relationship off a swinging site. I just wanted to be that .1 percent...

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By *attoo manMan over a year ago

Rhyl

Yep with the right person.

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By *orny and Sexy 2Couple over a year ago

Blackwood

Yes we have

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By *sRedbbwWoman over a year ago

Amwythig

Before I met my chap, I wouldn't have ruled it out but I've had hook-ups from dating sites in the past but I as I get older, if I was single and wanted a relationship I'd probably look for similar on here, at least you generally know what others are looking for

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man over a year ago

Brandon

I definately would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes with the right person.

Kinda hard to find poly, swingers who are also into BDSM though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course, now if I could just get the lady to acquiesce!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes but he would have to give up fab cos in a relationship I don't share

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By *inful xWoman over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

No I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have done in the past, would do again. But like everything else it's down to compatibility on all levels. If I did I'd like to continue swinging but together, so that adds an extra layer to make sure you're on the same page about

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I didnt meet my partner on fab but i did meet him through swinging. That was 12 years ago

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By *urious786Couple over a year ago

Liverpool

Married with two kids

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have in the past. Would I do it again ? Not sure. Depends on the elbows of that person.

Or fringe?

Well you knowI can't refuse anything to you or your fringe !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have in the past. Would I do it again ? Not sure. Depends on the elbows of that person.

Or fringe?

Well you knowI can't refuse anything to you or your fringe ! "

Best I not grow it out then, I’ve found your weakness

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I did! The sex was amazing. I loved everything about her.

It was always awkward,when we were asked how we met.

Trouble is,I always felt that she thought I only wanted her for sex.

She still had connections with guys that she had met from Fab(prior to meeting me). I always worried that the lure of Fab was too strong for her,so I decided to call it a day.

We were both happy that we shared the time that we had.

We had a great time whilst it lasted."

Aww that's actually sweet. Do you think it was more down to you feeling that way that was the overriding factor as to why you ended it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have in the past. Would I do it again ? Not sure. Depends on the elbows of that person.

Or fringe?

Well you knowI can't refuse anything to you or your fringe !

Best I not grow it out then, I’ve found your weakness

YOU are my weakness!!

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Yep. More likely to have better communication as the sex stuffs already out in the open.

One would hope so anyway

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By *rief EncountersCouple over a year ago

on the Oxfordshire Borders

Meet on Fab; together nearly 6 years married nearly 4 years. No surprises and no secrets. Works well for us!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes with the right person.

Kinda hard to find poly, swingers who are also into BDSM though.

I'm a poly swinger. Not into BDSM though.

2 out of 3...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course. Y would you not ? If that person click's with you

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By *weet nothingWoman over a year ago

carlisle

Would love to meet a guy and have a relationship then carry on together clubs and meets

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By *uckoldDesiresMan over a year ago

Dublin

Absolutely given its so damn hard to find a cuckoldress in the "real" world

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

People are people, where you cross paths doesn't seem too relevant to me.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS over a year ago

Bolton

Yes! Would love to find a Daddy or Dom who would want me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely. At least you know you're on the same wave length in the bedroom dept.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No I definitely wouldn't. "

And a big NO from me.

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By *nk_and_starrCouple over a year ago

cheltenham

I did... together 5 years, had a baby, ended badly. Yet some how 4 years on I find myself back here (with someone I didn’t meet here)

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By *ribsaMan over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I would give it a go as someone else said at least you know what each other want out of sex. As long as that's not all you have in common

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's never about where you meet that decides what if anything develops...

It's about who....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I definately would"

Some of us meet a decent guy on tinder who is a swinger, so I figured better join to work out if it’s potentially for me or not. They turned out to be a mate rather than a playmate but I’m still here.

I’m intrigued why some people say no, is that because you aren’t open to a relationship or you just don’t want a relationship with someone off fab? And if the second what your reasons are?

Personally if I connect with someone I don’t care whether I meet them here or on a dating site or somewhere else. It’s just being open and honest with each other and working out the boundaries and what works for you as a couple. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

I have just been there and probably wouldn't go there again.

As most Fab users are looking for different people regularly monogamous relationships don't tend to work well here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes with the right person.

Kinda hard to find poly, swingers who are also into BDSM though.

I'm a poly swinger. Not into BDSM though.

2 out of 3..."

Also miles away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

I have just been there and probably wouldn't go there again.

As most Fab users are looking for different people regularly monogamous relationships don't tend to work well here."

Who says a relationship has to be monogamous?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

I have just been there and probably wouldn't go there again.

As most Fab users are looking for different people regularly monogamous relationships don't tend to work well here.

Who says a relationship has to be monogamous? "

Would love to meet someone for a non-monogamous relationship, I figure there's more chance of that happening with someone from fab than real life...

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By *he fab twoCouple over a year ago

brentwood

Surely this is a site to find like minded people, what better basis for a relationship than that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would consider a relationship with anyone I met anywhere, if I wanted a relationship. "

bang on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I definately would

I’m intrigued why some people say no, is that because you aren’t open to a relationship or you just don’t want a relationship with someone off fab? And if the second what your reasons are?

I wouldn't have a relationship with a swinger type because I wouldn't trust them. I'm not the type they're looking for so it would never work. x

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By *OMBSTACKCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

We met on another site been together 7 years. Married just two and half years and have a 6yo Son together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely. If it felt right then ofcourse I would "

I agree

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep I have done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No way in hell.

I'd never trust them.

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

No, but only because I'm not getting into another relationship.

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By *londieddWoman over a year ago

fife

I'm on my third I'm not here for one offs!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My problem is the last two women I dated from swinging sites turned into monogamous relationships.....

I thought it would be swinging as a couple and meeting couples that never meet single guys...

Nope it turned into marriage talk and buying a dog

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Yep,met jack here 2 and a half years ago and live together.

We weren't looking for more ,but sometimes you just click.

Meeting here at least means you have similar outlook/interests.

Miss

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"My problem is the last two women I dated from swinging sites turned into monogamous relationships.....

I thought it would be swinging as a couple and meeting couples that never meet single guys...

Nope it turned into marriage talk and buying a dog "

Because some people just use this as a stop gap for getting their gun between relationships a non monogamous lifestyle isn’t for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't seek out a relationship on here but if I were single and I met someone on here and the attraction was more than sexual I wouldn't rule it out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Met on the chat page of another site. We knew straight away what we had.

Met 11 years ago, moved in together 7 years ago and now 3 years married.

I honestly can't imagine meeting someone as perfect as she is for me.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

Yep...going on five years.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I'd consider it if it happended but that's not really why I'm here."

Never crossed my mind or Ben's. Neither was what the other was looking for and I prefer sexually submissive men...Ben can't even say the word.

He just made a funny comment about my profile I replied in kind and five years down the line we're still together.

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By *hocko87Man over a year ago

dublin

Well at least you could find a good sexual partner and I would have no problem having or starting a relationship on here . Luv to find a Domme lady but giving up I think .

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

Yes

Sometimes you find it where you domt expect to and that is glorious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes!! I’m in one and it’s been 3 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I did.... I married him last year "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

Question is would you? And would you marry her and have kids with her and tell your grandkids that you were a swinger once tail

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did.

It didn't work out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

Absolutely! A couple of months ago I changed my profile to indicate what I’m ideally looking for! Eventually id love to have an amazing, non-exclusive relationship with someone on here - loving our time both in the real world and the swinging world! Weather it’ll happen or not remains to be seen - but in the meantime I’m having a marvellous time with some very sexy people!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope ..did have a fb once on here ..only play with others if we are together was the deal ..lol he had me hook line and sinker should've known the word genuine is a bit dubious at times..so now choose to swing single much more fun no false loyalties ..if I get into a relationship again off fab I might suggest it if we are both happy with it..need a lot of trust

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had no plans to.. but got hooked as he turned out to be a sociopath! Never falling for that again

Court trial starts in july

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are. Met on here and have been together ever since x

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

Yep and have done. It's irrelevant where or how you meet . What's important is how you get on and if you can forge a future together

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

Question is would you? And would you marry her and have kids with her and tell your grandkids that you were a swinger once tail

Yeah I would

.... my eldest knows I'm a swinger. If you're ashamed of it why do it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

Yes i definitely would.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah. Could happen. But, since a prerequisite would probably be that we meet first, I can't see it happening

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By *elbyfuntimesMan over a year ago

Selby

Yes I would and I have in the past but she ended up cheating on me pmsfl. She wanted everything her way so she could have fun with who she wanted and not actually interested in a swinging style relationship unless it suited her.

But I still would if it happened as not everyone is like her thankfully lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd be open to it.

One of my best fab chums met his better half via a group social, they've been married almost ten months now. Gives me faith.

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By *il.redCouple over a year ago

ashford

I met a guy on a dating site and now we fab together, well atleast try to lol

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I dont like so

but never say never

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would if it was the right person.

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By *ilks xXxWoman over a year ago

East Mids

Yep .... this

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By *asonnosaMMan over a year ago

Grantham

I did it was great I joined here was on for a week when I met her and I left within that week and we was together 2 years and split last month so I came back hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For sure.

I think the honesty on here is something that you don’t actually find on dating sites as such. When people meet, there is no reason for hidden intentions. Men are honest, and women don’t feel the need to be something they’re not!

And I’ve met more ‘decent’ men on here than I have on well known dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep

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By *asonnosaMMan over a year ago

Grantham

"For sure.

And I’ve met more ‘decent’ men on here than I have on well known dating sites. "
perfectly executed 10

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I was single, if I had known about fab I am sure I would have. It would have been a lot of fun to be here as a single I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For sure.

And I’ve met more ‘decent’ men on here than I have on well known dating sites. "

I haven't felt the need to be anything I'm not anywhere.

When I posted once about only finding one decent shag from fab, I was told the problem was with me. Which is bullshit. But what you say about finding more suitable men for you here makes me think maybe it's not my picker that was broken, maybe i was just looking in the wrong place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I was single, if I had known about fab I am sure I would have. It would have been a lot of fun to be here as a single I think."

If this is Mrs I'd be happy to show your husband what it would look like if you were single again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wud but he’s married

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile is fairly shut down, appearing a little unapproachable, maybe not helping matters?

Not a dig, just an observation.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I wud but he’s married

Its a Plymouth thingy that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and have done before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just putting you question out there because most people see this as nothing more than a hook up site.

But would you ever be in a relationship with someone you met on here?

Or is it purely sex and that's it!!

Question to the floor haha

Not the married ones I seem to happen upon

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We met here as singles. Bepen living together 4years so I guess it can work.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wud but he’s married

Its a Plymouth thingy that

The whole of the South West is striken with this rare disease. It only really clears up once you reach Bournemouth

(gratuitous plug of the day)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your profile is fairly shut down, appearing a little unapproachable, maybe not helping matters?

Not a dig, just an observation. "

No shit. I'm not looking for anyone here anymore and haven't been for quite a while.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

I am and it's great. We have a real exciting future together. Oddly enough chatting the other night we both agreed if we had have both seen profiles for each other in a conventional dating site we'd probably not have contacted each other. And both of us where in no way looking for a relationship at that time. But I suppose you don't get to chose when and where you find that awesome person that just makes you feel like you are home.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

"I am right now and it was supposed to be only a meet for a fuck which then turned out we clicked so we met again and again. It was supposed to be NSA fun but feelings developed between us both . Its awesome as we are both on the same wavelength with vanilla stuff but also sexually . This is hard to find so I am chuffed to bits

Know exactly how you feel we met on a vanilla dating site, we are both far from Vanilla, both on same wavelength sexually what we have found is amazing and something you dont expect to find

two happy bunnies

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes I would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I did it was great I joined here was on for a week when I met her and I left within that week and we was together 2 years and split last month so I came back hehe"

Very cute

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