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Spur of the moment meet or planned meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pre-planned for new meets every time. Spur of the moment only with regulars as they are guaranteed to show. That said I had a 3 some that happened as last minute when a pre-planned meet was in the swing and some time out and chat went in direction of interests. I suggested a 3some was an interest. She agreed and she messaged a mutual friend (whom I'd only been chatting with before this). A great night had by all as a result. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"short notice with regular meets.
others only planned and after a bit of chatting, social and stuff. a fuck and go with new ones is pretty unsatisfactory for me I found..."
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Has to be planned for us due to childcare and the fact that we don't accommodate so usually book a hotel.
Most of the messages we receive though are from people wanting to meet now (even though ther profile says we don't!)
It does come with issue of no shows though far more often than we'd like. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Prefer planned, enjoy getting to know someone, building the anticipation and having something to look forward to - would only consider something last minute if circumstances allowed and it was someone I had met before. |
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Love seeing all the different preferences. And how people like to live their swinging life.
Either for me so long as it's fun and more important safe as well.
Regardless of planned or spur of the moment I like to meet in a public place |
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Only ever in a club if there is someone there I have good chemistry with & private meets only with people I know & Gomez always knows where I am & who I’m with.
Too many risks in spur of the moment play with a stranger for me to be comfortable with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done both and had good fun on both. Just seems at the moment unplanned is good. Last meet we didn't know the lady had a hairy one and hubby loved it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Planned meets ideally. But I seem to get the feeling that on Fab unless it's arranged to be at a club most of the meets just end up being more spur of the moment than anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it hard to have a spur of the moment meet. Between family and work it's very hard to plan meets. I'd imagine on the spur of the moment would be good though and exciting. |
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The last spur of the moment meet I did, was one of the worst meets I did. They were a young married couple, and had been let down last minute by a guy, so logged a status update saying they were looking for someone. I messaged them, and about 30 minutes later, I was at their house! She was actually really quite stunning, but d*unk. She didn't kiss, and she didn't do bj's. The situation didn't turn me on at all, so I thanked them for their time, and left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both. However lately we’ve had loads of time wasters, no shows or cancellations so you can never tell which is best. "
Mostly happens with spontaneous meets, especially with single guys.
For us planned with cpls but spontaneous meets with regulars is a huge turn on. |
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