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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Kay has expressed an interest in one of my workmates recently and i'm sure he would be interested too. He doesn't know we are swingers, i'm just wondering what other do in this situation? Let her have him? how has this affected peoples friendships and work lives? I know it will be a purely personal decision in the end and you cant really advise too much, im just wondering about other peoples experiences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Terrible idea. Don’t mix work or friends, ever. Maybe friends in certain circles sure, but people you work with?
Its the same as never date somebody you work with, it will just end in tears! C x |
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"no one thinks this is a good idea?"
Do you?
There's the possibility that it will be a great experience, your work mate will be discreet, won't get attached in any way to your wife and your relationship with him will continue as before.
Then there's the possibility that one or more of the above won't happen.
Your call really as you said. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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How much do you value your friendship and your privacy? It may start off well but if it all goes wrong later you will have to work with him and would he be discreet. Personally vanilla friends, work and family do not mix with our swinging activities. |
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"How much do you value your friendship and your privacy? It may start off well but if it all goes wrong later you will have to work with him and would he be discreet. Personally vanilla friends, work and family do not mix with our swinging activities. "
I was wondering the same - you two may be discreet but would he? |
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The work colleague might not be able to handle the emotional maturity needed to allow NSA to happen and might get clingy, and then freak out and make a complaint for some jealously inspired reason.
I’d not mix work and play. |
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By *ndulge101Couple
over a year ago
Village life in West Yorks |
Know of two cpls do this ended in one of the guys taking the others wife house and family
Thing is the guy still works for the company and now works direct underneath him and sees him every day |
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"Kay has expressed an interest in one of my workmates recently and i'm sure he would be interested too. He doesn't know we are swingers, i'm just wondering what other do in this situation? Let her have him? how has this affected peoples friendships and work lives? I know it will be a purely personal decision in the end and you cant really advise too much, im just wondering about other peoples experiences"
Absolutely would not risk it. No friends or anyone too local, it can cause immense issues. |
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