"Try calling a prostitute, there's nothing in it for the female. We aren't just here to service men.
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Hey Miss-Adventure.
I wholeheartedly and one hundred percent agree that women aren't 'just here to service men'. However, I disagree that 'there's nothing in it for the female' because if it's a female who finds this scenario particularly enticing and thrilling, then there's everything in it for her.
As an adventurer yourself, you'll know that the wonderful world of sex holds within it a plethora of tastes. As individuals we have the right to explore, consensually, our fantasies, our desires and impulses and to explore all the nuances of psychosexual behaviour and the language that accompanies it. We are also free to move, to ebb and flow, and to explore power and relinquishment in a sexual context. As an adventurer, you'll naturally understand this. It will be instinctive to you!
The scenario I outlined (perhaps somewhat inarticulately of an early morning), plays to just one very small aspect of adult, sexual 'play' that I'd personally like to explore further with fellow, consenting adventurers who, in the moment of 'play', experience similar desires to do so. The language I used, 'servicing', is pertinent to that particular scenario and its dynamics and I stand by my use of that word in that context.
This fantasy scenario that may perhaps become reality, depends entirely on similarly minded folk chiming-in with a desire to connect and play, to adjust boundaries and set rules, to all agree what will take place and to experience personal joy and satisfaction in enacting it. No need for prostitutes nor any need for anyone who doesn't want to join in, to do so!
If you feel compelled to open up a discussion about gender equality, sexual power-dynamics and use of language then I'm very much up for that conversation and whilst this site is meant for swingers to connect, I can see that it could be a good thing to 'have that conversation'...though these fora, where keyboard warriors abound, don't particularly lend themselves to nuanced, intelligent debate.
Miss-Adventure, I'm a feminist. I respect women. I want global gender equality. In my post, I'm simply inviting others who are minded to, to join in a particular scenario. My next scenario might well be where men are in service to a woman/women.
Do feel free to message me if you want to discuss gender politics or the language used in the expression of sexual dynamics or indeed anything else on topic. I'm genuinely happy to chat with you about these things and very open to hearing differing points of view.
Wishing you well in your quests here on FAB!
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