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Ask a girl to verify by phone and they vanish?!
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By *ouTease OP Woman
over a year ago
Tilbury |
Am I the only one who gets this? I’m a bi girl seeking a bi girl, from previous experience and finding I’ve been chatting to a guy or the male part of a couple pretending to be the female, I like to confirm early on during message exchanges that I am talking to a girl... but as soon as I ask to they go silent ??
This must happen with 9 out of 10 ‘girls’ that I talk to. Shyness or non-genuine profiles?
Surely there aren’t that many fake profiles on here? ?? |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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Totally get why you ask for this however it's not something XX is prepared to do.
Sometimes females are actually females but likelihood most 'female' profiles aren't so keep using the site how you feel comfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm well aware of fake profiles so I make the effort to prove I'm real. If they won't make the effort to suggest some other way of making you feel at ease then don't feel bad- it's their issue not yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm well aware of fake profiles so I make the effort to prove I'm real. If they won't make the effort to suggest some other way of making you feel at ease then don't feel bad- it's their issue not yours. "
Same here. I'm quite happy to prove who I am by phone or whatever means the other person is comfortable with. |
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By *ouTease OP Woman
over a year ago
Tilbury |
Interesting mix of replies. Don’t get me wrong, I’m as nervous as hell making or receiving that first call but once the ice is broken it’s so much easier.
I just don’t want to waste a week messaging and looking forward to a potential meet and then radio silence... but also appreciate everyone is different  |
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OP if you are just looking for girl on girl play you might be more successful attracting the genuine ladies from a single female profile rather than from a couples profile.
Most single ladies on here tend to search for other single ladies if they only want girl play and will only look at couples profiles if they actually want to meet and play with a couple. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
Interesting. While I can understand people not liking talking in the phone to verify I also find it strange that they wouldn't given that there are so many fakes and people don't want to waste their time emailing with a sad wanker pretending to be a girl!
It would be lovely if we could just trust everyone is genuine but those sad dickheads spoil it for everyone. |
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So.. 9/10 people that refuse to talk on the phone are fake.
Seems like a pretty good discriminator to me. Carry on doing what you’re doing OP, you’re looking for girls, why would you want to speak to a load of sad old fake blokes anyway!!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Understand not wanting to give out number but you then end up in a catch 22.
However, if one party is willing then the other can withhold number. People just want to hear a girls voice!"
I agree, I'm not looking for a long conversation, I just want to confirm that the lady does actually exist. Most 'couples' disappear when I ask for this! |
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