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Is it ok to swing if trying for a baby?
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By *ddmanMan
over a year ago
Norwich |
I'm no medic but the NHS Choices page on this (https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/pregnancy-and-baby/sex-in-pregnancy/) seems to think it's fine with some specific medical caveats - it even specifically calls out having sex with people not your partner!
However, while enjoying a pregnant couple would be a delicious taboo ultimately it's her body and she should play only if comfortable and confident. |
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"He says yes, with protection (obviously). She wants to but scared just in case. She said she would worry throughout pregnancy just in case? Your views please ..."
I assume the protection is a condom for anyone who she doesn't want to be the father.
Sounds reasonable but condoms do break or come off. Perhaps it would be wise as a couple to accept that occasionally they will need to get hold of emergency contraception. 
Other than that enjoy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ultimately it's up to you.
Personally I wouldn't. Condoms aren't 100% protection from sti's.
Contracting herpes during pregnancy is extremely dangerous to an unborn baby.
Get yourself informed and make your own mind up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ultimately it's up to you.
Personally I wouldn't. Condoms aren't 100% protection from sti's.
Contracting herpes during pregnancy is extremely dangerous to an unborn baby.
Get yourself informed and make your own mind up. "
Agree 100% with this, the health of mother and baby would be my priority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a risk someone else might father your child and your wife could contract an sti.
Do you want to take those risks for the sake of extra marital sex? |
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Trying for a baby is a very intimate and personal thing. Condoms are not 100% reliable. Take time out, share this between the two of you. Hopefully it will be a matter of a couple of months, that's not long in tne grand scheme of things. Don't have casual sex with virtual stangers at such a time in your relationship, you have the rest of your lives to do that. |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
Are the risks from condoms breaking still the same for all of you not trying for a baby?
When I'm in a relationship I don't use a condom but always for swinging it just makes sense and yes they do break but I've always been able to tell when they do as you can feel it happen (ok not always if you're really going at it like a fiddlers elbow). But if you say to guy " I want you to cum over my tits" then he will. That has to reduce some of the risk.
Like many have said already it's what you are comfortable with. Never do anything you don't want to do |
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"Are the risks from condoms breaking still the same for all of you not trying for a baby?
When I'm in a relationship I don't use a condom but always for swinging it just makes sense and yes they do break but I've always been able to tell when they do as you can feel it happen (ok not always if you're really going at it like a fiddlers elbow). But if you say to guy " I want you to cum over my tits" then he will. That has to reduce some of the risk.
Like many have said already it's what you are comfortable with. Never do anything you don't want to do"
No the risks for people trying for a baby that they want to be sure is genetically theirs are higher. I conceived (with my partner) at the age of 46 while using condoms. We never had an obvious split or breakage during that time although a small leak must have occured. I wouldn't recommend condoms alone as a form of contraception to anybody. |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
"Are the risks from condoms breaking still the same for all of you not trying for a baby?
When I'm in a relationship I don't use a condom but always for swinging it just makes sense and yes they do break but I've always been able to tell when they do as you can feel it happen (ok not always if you're really going at it like a fiddlers elbow). But if you say to guy " I want you to cum over my tits" then he will. That has to reduce some of the risk.
Like many have said already it's what you are comfortable with. Never do anything you don't want to do
No the risks for people trying for a baby that they want to be sure is genetically theirs are higher. I conceived (with my partner) at the age of 46 while using condoms. We never had an obvious split or breakage during that time although a small leak must have occured. I wouldn't recommend condoms alone as a form of contraception to anybody."
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By *hyntravCouple
over a year ago
North Somerset |
Obviously it's something you both have to be comfortable with but especially Mrs.
We were swinging before we started trying for a baby and for both of us being with another man was an absolute no as soon as we agreed to start trying. If we had found the elusive single woman that wanted us we may have carried on with that lol but that obviously didn't happen. We did stay on here and keep chatting in case we felt it would work once we were pregnant but even that was not for us. The youngest is 15 months and we've only just decided that we are ready to bring this back into our lives (if we ever get time lol).
It's a short time to stop and for peace of mind and just to share what was a very private and intimate time it was worth it.
Good luck with whatever decision you make x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
It's a decision you have to make as a couple, but I certainly wouldn't be swinging whilst trying for a baby, you would never be 100% sure who the father was and it should be a precious time of your life, making and planning for your baby  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not. For the peace of mind and for the sake of the potential child if nothing else.
You might want to consider non penetrative sex as an option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, it is possible, condoms. But you've already said Mrs would worry and wonder.
Therefore I would suggest you wait until pregnant or after the birth.
Good luck! |
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