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over a year ago
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Maybe a wee bit in unfamiliar social situations but 1-2-1 when I’m removing someone’s clothes... no. I can stand up in front of 30 people and run a workshop for 3 hours no problem though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah, I'd say so. It's why I use sites like this and POF, because I lack the confidence to approach someone in a bar and I guess I'm hoping that by being here I could gain more confidence in myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.
Who told you that?"
The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.
Who told you that?
The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously. "
I haven't noticed that. I would have thought shy people wouldn't use the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.
Who told you that?
The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously.
I haven't noticed that. I would have thought shy people wouldn't use the forums. "
Re read it. They do fawn over the people who put themselves down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.
Who told you that?
The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously. "
Bollocks do they. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.
Who told you that?
The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously.
Bollocks do they."
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By (user no longer on site)
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" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.
Who told you that?
The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously.
Bollocks do they.
You're welcome to prove me wrong. "
I'm shy. I put myself down. I haven't a shred of confidence. Care to guess how many times I've been fawned over in the decade I've been on Fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.
Who told you that?
The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously.
Bollocks do they.
You're welcome to prove me wrong.
I'm shy. I put myself down. I haven't a shred of confidence. Care to guess how many times I've been fawned over in the decade I've been on Fab?"
You're a guy. It's pathetic women that get fawned over. It isn't attractive in men.... unless you want a motherly type. They might find it attractive. |
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"Yeah, I'd say so. It's why I use sites like this and POF, because I lack the confidence to approach someone in a bar and I guess I'm hoping that by being here I could gain more confidence in myself."
It’s completely different on here than it is going into a bar and chatting up women  |
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"Yeah, I'd say so. It's why I use sites like this and POF, because I lack the confidence to approach someone in a bar and I guess I'm hoping that by being here I could gain more confidence in myself.
It’s completely different on here than it is going into a bar and chatting up women "
I know that. What I'm saying is if I'm able to meet people off here it might give me the confidence to approach a woman in a bar and talk to her. That's the goal. It's not about getting my end away, it's about being able to feel confident enough that my social anxiety goes away.
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I was really shy as a child.
When I moved away from home I had an 18 month old, I forced myself to go to one of those god awful mum and tot type things. When I paid my money the woman said 'the new ones are over there' and pointed to the corner. I nearly left but went over and met one of my bff's to be.
I have my moments still. |
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