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I’m very shy

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Are you?

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not really. I am quite quiet though.

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By *ddibleMan  over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury


"Are you? "

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am

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By *uited staffs guyMan  over a year ago

staffordshire

Used to be

But being naked in a full jacuzzi and chams and meeting with couples, being watched in public etc has taken that away completely!

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I am "
you could have a penile enhancement operation if you think that would help. I realise it might be tricky to get on the NHS but I have a friend called Sam (‘slackie’) who could help.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m shy. Had hoped to lose my shyness by now. But that’s not happened lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe a wee bit in unfamiliar social situations but 1-2-1 when I’m removing someone’s clothes... no. I can stand up in front of 30 people and run a workshop for 3 hours no problem though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah, I'd say so. It's why I use sites like this and POF, because I lack the confidence to approach someone in a bar and I guess I'm hoping that by being here I could gain more confidence in myself.

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By *xciter7169Man  over a year ago

The Midlands

Yes,always have been,you would think its something you would of grown out of by now,its a bit embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m a shrinking violet ..,honest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Unfortunately yes i am

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By *landfordfabbersCouple  over a year ago

Blandford ish

We are too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No its my curse im a little overbaring laud and have a tendancy to put my foot in in my mouth cos i have no filter

Somee like it some dont

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Very much so

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being shy on a swinging site , does it work ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Being shy on a swinging site , does it work ?? "

Depends if you're the sort of person who other people will make to first move on. So, in my case, no.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are you? "

You start a lot of threads and therefore attract a lot of interest for someone that is shy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are you? "

Am not but my skin is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. I used to be, when I was a kid.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well. "

Who told you that?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.

Who told you that?"

The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, despite what people see from my photos. I blush at the drop of a hat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are you? "

Yep, blew my first meet because of it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Incredibly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.

Who told you that?

The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously. "

I haven't noticed that. I would have thought shy people wouldn't use the forums.

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By *ekyllnHideCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

I’m not shy with my clothes on.....but am crippling shy when it comes to the possibility of meeting on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.

Who told you that?

The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously.

I haven't noticed that. I would have thought shy people wouldn't use the forums. "

Re read it. They do fawn over the people who put themselves down.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.

Who told you that?

The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously. "

Bollocks do they.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.

Who told you that?

The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously.

Bollocks do they."

You're welcome to prove me wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.

Who told you that?

The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously.

Bollocks do they.

You're welcome to prove me wrong. "

I'm shy. I put myself down. I haven't a shred of confidence. Care to guess how many times I've been fawned over in the decade I've been on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" No. Apparently that isn't endearing though. Oh well.

Who told you that?

The forum. They fawn over the shy and those that put themselves down. And the vulnerable. They don't like confidence. The forum speaks the truth. Obviously.

Bollocks do they.

You're welcome to prove me wrong.

I'm shy. I put myself down. I haven't a shred of confidence. Care to guess how many times I've been fawned over in the decade I've been on Fab?"

You're a guy. It's pathetic women that get fawned over. It isn't attractive in men.... unless you want a motherly type. They might find it attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Yeah, I'd say so. It's why I use sites like this and POF, because I lack the confidence to approach someone in a bar and I guess I'm hoping that by being here I could gain more confidence in myself."

It’s completely different on here than it is going into a bar and chatting up women

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, despite what people see from my photos. I blush at the drop of a hat "

Glad it's not just me that does that too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah, I'd say so. It's why I use sites like this and POF, because I lack the confidence to approach someone in a bar and I guess I'm hoping that by being here I could gain more confidence in myself.

It’s completely different on here than it is going into a bar and chatting up women "

I know that. What I'm saying is if I'm able to meet people off here it might give me the confidence to approach a woman in a bar and talk to her. That's the goal. It's not about getting my end away, it's about being able to feel confident enough that my social anxiety goes away.

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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I am unfortunately.

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Im not shy with or without my clothes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am unfortunately. "

You'll be ok. You're a woman. Women are meant to be shy and demure apparently.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I was really shy as a child.

When I moved away from home I had an 18 month old, I forced myself to go to one of those god awful mum and tot type things. When I paid my money the woman said 'the new ones are over there' and pointed to the corner. I nearly left but went over and met one of my bff's to be.

I have my moments still.

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