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Why does most women think that you are a bi female. The number of times women make a move on me without asking? One who did it complained about a guy touching her without asking. My message females is check first! You never know you could be the one to tempt me lol |
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"Why does most women think that you are a bi female. The number of times women make a move on me without asking? One who did it complained about a guy touching her without asking. My message females is check first! You never know you could be the one to tempt me lol "
You think you could be tempted ted by a female checking first ?
Mmmm.... I doubt that . I would hazard a guess that more women are tempted to the bi side by a female touch under the right circumstances , in a group play , In a jacuzzi or something like that .
That’s the thing about this swinging malarkey , it just happens in a go with the flow kind of way .
So that’s my guess . |
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I'd expect a bi or gay man to check with another guy before taking things further, same for women.
Lots of women have bi or bi curious on their profile, I think there's a tendency to assume we all are. |
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"I'd expect a bi or gay man to check with another guy before taking things further, same for women.
Lots of women have bi or bi curious on their profile, I think there's a tendency to assume we all are. "
I think women are far more likely to be bi playful than men to be honest .
From out experiences in clubs and parties there are very few totally straight women . |
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"I'd expect a bi or gay man to check with another guy before taking things further, same for women.
Lots of women have bi or bi curious on their profile, I think there's a tendency to assume we all are. "
I guessed that may be the reason why x |
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"Why does most women think that you are a bi female. The number of times women make a move on me without asking? One who did it complained about a guy touching her without asking. My message females is check first! You never know you could be the one to tempt me lol
You think you could be tempted ted by a female checking first ?
Mmmm.... I doubt that . I would hazard a guess that more women are tempted to the bi side by a female touch under the right circumstances , in a group play , In a jacuzzi or something like that .
That’s the thing about this swinging malarkey , it just happens in a go with the flow kind of way .
So that’s my guess ."
Not happened to me yet, reverse has happened. What would you do if a guy gave you an unwanted touch? |
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"Why does most women think that you are a bi female. The number of times women make a move on me without asking? One who did it complained about a guy touching her without asking. My message females is check first! You never know you could be the one to tempt me lol
You think you could be tempted ted by a female checking first ?
Mmmm.... I doubt that . I would hazard a guess that more women are tempted to the bi side by a female touch under the right circumstances , in a group play , In a jacuzzi or something like that .
That’s the thing about this swinging malarkey , it just happens in a go with the flow kind of way .
So that’s my guess .
Not happened to me yet, reverse has happened. What would you do if a guy gave you an unwanted touch? "
It’s happened on many occasions , and I can’t say I’m that bothered if it’s just a bit of a rub . If he wants more I generally tell him I’m flattered but not that way inclined .
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Absolutely agree that the same rules should apply to women with regards to touching without consent! Although I do identify as bi, certainly doesn’t mean I want to play with any random woman, and have had a few incidents in clubs of being touched or kissed by a woman just out of the blue! In non group-play settings as well, so really can’t be excused imo!  |
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"Absolutely agree that the same rules should apply to women with regards to touching without consent! Although I do identify as bi, certainly doesn’t mean I want to play with any random woman, and have had a few incidents in clubs of being touched or kissed by a woman just out of the blue! In non group-play settings as well, so really can’t be excused imo! "
I agree with the same rules for women as guys , and one of the reasons we stopped going to clubs was the constant assumption that because we were there , we must be up for playing with anyone there - male or female . |
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"Absolutely agree that the same rules should apply to women with regards to touching without consent! Although I do identify as bi, certainly doesn’t mean I want to play with any random woman, and have had a few incidents in clubs of being touched or kissed by a woman just out of the blue! In non group-play settings as well, so really can’t be excused imo! "
I think as women expect men to respect them as far as not touching without asking is concerned, women should respect other women too. It really isn't difficult to understand but I think *some* women think its ok in the same way they think women flashing strangers is ok but men doing it isn't. |
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"Absolutely agree that the same rules should apply to women with regards to touching without consent! Although I do identify as bi, certainly doesn’t mean I want to play with any random woman, and have had a few incidents in clubs of being touched or kissed by a woman just out of the blue! In non group-play settings as well, so really can’t be excused imo!
I think as women expect men to respect them as far as not touching without asking is concerned, women should respect other women too. It really isn't difficult to understand but I think *some* women think its ok in the same way they think women flashing strangers is ok but men doing it isn't."
Yup  |
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"Absolutely agree that the same rules should apply to women with regards to touching without consent! Although I do identify as bi, certainly doesn’t mean I want to play with any random woman, and have had a few incidents in clubs of being touched or kissed by a woman just out of the blue! In non group-play settings as well, so really can’t be excused imo!
I think as women expect men to respect them as far as not touching without asking is concerned, women should respect other women too. It really isn't difficult to understand but I think *some* women think its ok in the same way they think women flashing strangers is ok but men doing it isn't.
Yup "
Yep , can’t disagree with that line of thinking at all |
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I do always check x I'm more dominate with women so want to make sure they re OK with that x doesn't always stop awkward situations tho. I once asked a woman in a club, she said she was bi, we snogged then went back to her hotel (it was a mff) I went to touch her and she moved back shocked saying that she wasn't bi 'down there'!!  |
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Actually this is interesting to me because yeah, I’m bi, but I never really have to announce it when in clubs? I guess it just comes across that I am, due to how I look at people or talk to people at the time? But people do assume I am without asking, that’s for sure. C x |
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Have also had it where a woman has actually asked me ‘are you bi?’, I responded yes and she literally proceeded to pounce on me! I always tend to think of it in equivalent terms, how is that any different from a man doing the same?!  |
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"Absolutely agree that the same rules should apply to women with regards to touching without consent! Although I do identify as bi, certainly doesn’t mean I want to play with any random woman, and have had a few incidents in clubs of being touched or kissed by a woman just out of the blue! In non group-play settings as well, so really can’t be excused imo!
I think as women expect men to respect them as far as not touching without asking is concerned, women should respect other women too. It really isn't difficult to understand but I think *some* women think its ok in the same way they think women flashing strangers is ok but men doing it isn't.
Yup
Yep , can’t disagree with that line of thinking at all "
Totally agree, so nice to see others are thinking the same x |
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"Actually this is interesting to me because yeah, I’m bi, but I never really have to announce it when in clubs? I guess it just comes across that I am, due to how I look at people or talk to people at the time? But people do assume I am without asking, that’s for sure. C x"
Glad it's sparked an interest from you. The first thing I do is make it clear I'm straight. Guys are keen to know particularly as they only allow their partners to play bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually this is interesting to me because yeah, I’m bi, but I never really have to announce it when in clubs? I guess it just comes across that I am, due to how I look at people or talk to people at the time? But people do assume I am without asking, that’s for sure. C x
Glad it's sparked an interest from you. The first thing I do is make it clear I'm straight. Guys are keen to know particularly as they only allow their partners to play bi."
You also have to understand you’re stunning so some ladies may think they can try it in with you and convert you 
But yeah, if this was the other way around with a man, it would be a hangable offence! C x |
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"Actually this is interesting to me because yeah, I’m bi, but I never really have to announce it when in clubs? I guess it just comes across that I am, due to how I look at people or talk to people at the time? But people do assume I am without asking, that’s for sure. C x
Glad it's sparked an interest from you. The first thing I do is make it clear I'm straight. Guys are keen to know particularly as they only allow their partners to play bi.
You also have to understand you’re stunning so some ladies may think they can try it in with you and convert you
But yeah, if this was the other way around with a man, it would be a hangable offence! C x"
She is stunning but that doesn't make it understandable or ok. |
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"Actually this is interesting to me because yeah, I’m bi, but I never really have to announce it when in clubs? I guess it just comes across that I am, due to how I look at people or talk to people at the time? But people do assume I am without asking, that’s for sure. C x
Glad it's sparked an interest from you. The first thing I do is make it clear I'm straight. Guys are keen to know particularly as they only allow their partners to play bi.
You also have to understand you’re stunning so some ladies may think they can try it in with you and convert you
But yeah, if this was the other way around with a man, it would be a hangable offence! C x
She is stunning but that doesn't make it understandable or ok."
Absolutely agree, I would never just assume myself. In fact, I like to get to know somebody first and do this thing some people on this site haven’t heard of called “have a conversation” lol C x |
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"Actually this is interesting to me because yeah, I’m bi, but I never really have to announce it when in clubs? I guess it just comes across that I am, due to how I look at people or talk to people at the time? But people do assume I am without asking, that’s for sure. C x
Glad it's sparked an interest from you. The first thing I do is make it clear I'm straight. Guys are keen to know particularly as they only allow their partners to play bi.
You also have to understand you’re stunning so some ladies may think they can try it in with you and convert you
But yeah, if this was the other way around with a man, it would be a hangable offence! C x
She is stunning but that doesn't make it understandable or ok.
Absolutely agree, I would never just assume myself. In fact, I like to get to know somebody first and do this thing some people on this site haven’t heard of called “have a conversation” lol C x"
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