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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What things on peoples profiles out you off? Things like maybe poor spelling (OK really poor)? Snapchat filter? Cock pics? Swearing? Etc "
All of those things mentioned |
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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago
east Lancashire road |
"Disgusting backgrounds in pics and lack of intelligence, people who don’t even care enough to spell check and use correct grammar in their profiles
" u can't even spell ur name Mr silver fox (silver fux) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting backgrounds in pics and lack of intelligence, people who don’t even care enough to spell check and use correct grammar in their profiles
u can't even spell ur name Mr silver fox (silver fux)"
hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This might not go down well, but here goes - People stating they get "checked regularly". On the one hand, it's good they do that. On the other, it suggests they are a little too promiscuous for our liking. To each their own etc, but for us, it's a bit of a red flag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dick pics sitting on or near a toilet
Seriously minging and untidy rooms as a backdrop
Bad spelling and grammar
Profiles that just don’t say anything at all "
Yep all of this |
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"Disgusting backgrounds in pics and lack of intelligence, people who don’t even care enough to spell check and use correct grammar in their profiles
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Totally with you on that - I’m terrible for checking out backgrounds on peoples pictures. Gives a great indication of how they actually live their lives.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting backgrounds in pics and lack of intelligence, people who don’t even care enough to spell check and use correct grammar in their profiles
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We can see what you mean, thanks for the example |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
"Cock pics over the toliet complete with a floater in the pan
For real?
Yeah I've seen a few on here one even had evidence in his boxers .... double
Whats going on in their heads? Lol"
I know right ? Zooming in and having a look at pics can be a great filter sometimes though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Filthy manly houses in the back ground you know rubbish around clothes on the floor bed now made, house looks stinking well I think if your house is that manky hen chances are your fannys no seen soap in a while either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dick pics sitting on or near a toilet
Seriously minging and untidy rooms as a backdrop
Bad spelling and grammar
Profiles that just don’t say anything at all " |
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"Disgusting backgrounds in pics and lack of intelligence, people who don’t even care enough to spell check and use correct grammar in their profiles
u can't even spell ur name Mr silver fox (silver fux)"
The irony burns bright with this beautiful reply, (u got to be kidding rite?) I’d be really generous if I suggested that you highlighted the ambiguity of my profile name (Fox / Fux... sounds like Fucks) for the clever use of a literary device but I’m guessing no
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who have kids in their cam, or have kids toys and things in their cam or pics... I have a child myself, but the two will NEVER meet, in any way. I won’t even have the pics of her facing the camera on cam. Just tidy up for gods sake.
Back grammar and just stupid gibberish on profiles and messages. You want to impress me? Well maybe “hi hw r u bbe?” isn't going to do it.
People who claim they don’t smoke... then show as fag ash Lils on pics.
Big heads.
People who think they have muscle so they are sexy? Ew!
No just big heads. Forget the rest it’s big heads. Major turn off. C x |
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"Disgusting backgrounds in pics and lack of intelligence, people who don’t even care enough to spell check and use correct grammar in their profiles
u can't even spell ur name Mr silver fox (silver fux)
The irony burns bright with this beautiful reply, (u got to be kidding rite?) I’d be really generous if I suggested that you highlighted the ambiguity of my profile name (Fox / Fux... sounds like Fucks) for the clever use of a literary device but I’m guessing no
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bad spelling and grammar
Graphic photos eg a cum filled pussy
Photos where the background really hasn't been thought about
One liners
The list is endless......yes I'm fussy. |
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We've had.
Shitty arsed pics. (Over a year old.. so no excuse)
A smeggy cock pic. (I had to mail the guy.. give a bit of friendly advice on personal hygiene)
"Will fill later..." (profiles months old. How much later do we have to wait)
A silver or Gold profile with 20 - 50 shots that all look exactly the same.
Ones where littetally zero effort has been made
Anyone that mentions the phrase "Cum Dump"
I am sure there are many others. But this is the top few.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When every line starts with "I",
Or profiles that have two lines on, which tell you nothing about them.
"Will fill in later" also gets gets my back buttons attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad spelling and grammar
Graphic photos eg a cum filled pussy
Photos where the background really hasn't been thought about
One liners
The list is endless......yes I'm fussy."
I always notice people's backgrounds to. Floors that need a good hoover, To much clutter on the sides, Piles of laundry no thank you |
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"Bad spelling and grammar
Graphic photos eg a cum filled pussy
Photos where the background really hasn't been thought about
One liners
The list is endless......yes I'm fussy.
I always notice people's backgrounds to. Floors that need a good hoover, To much clutter on the sides, Piles of laundry no thank you "
All of this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flacid cock hanging out of joggers.
Seeing far too much of this...
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Oh, sexy! Why don’t you find the last chicken in the shop look appealing! *barf* C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad spelling and grammar
Graphic photos eg a cum filled pussy
Photos where the background really hasn't been thought about
One liners
The list is endless......yes I'm fussy."
I completely agree. There's nothing wrong with being fussy. If someone can't make any effort when they put together their profile, the chances are they won't make much effort when it comes to meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting backgrounds in pics and lack of intelligence, people who don’t even care enough to spell check and use correct grammar in their profiles
u can't even spell ur name Mr silver fox (silver fux)
The irony burns bright with this beautiful reply, (u got to be kidding rite?) I’d be really generous if I suggested that you highlighted the ambiguity of my profile name (Fox / Fux... sounds like Fucks) for the clever use of a literary device but I’m guessing no
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Nice response |
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By *WKinkMan
over a year ago
Bury |
Agree with everything so far, I’m a really judgey bugger when it comes to unclean backgrounds in pictures. Lazy profiles were there’s nothing describing the person just a 1000 word essay on what they don’t like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me single women with uncovered cocks. If it is the same cock then it could be a husband but puts me off as I only use protection
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Same goes for men.. lots of pics of shagging various women all uncovered.. specially if they have safe sex ticked |
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Really rude lists of criteria eg. “Must be 6ft, ripped, massive dick, live around the corner and be able to be there in the next 3 minuets”. This goes double if she herself looks like something out of a Stephen King movie.
Who am I kidding though, this is Fabs, it doesn’t matter what women look like or say, they’ll get exactly what they want |
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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago
east Lancashire road |
"Disgusting backgrounds in pics and lack of intelligence, people who don’t even care enough to spell check and use correct grammar in their profiles
u can't even spell ur name Mr silver fox (silver fux)
The irony burns bright with this beautiful reply, (u got to be kidding rite?) I’d be really generous if I suggested that you highlighted the ambiguity of my profile name (Fox / Fux... sounds like Fucks) for the clever use of a literary device but I’m guessing no
" u mean I got to be kidding u right? (rite)hahaha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What things on peoples profiles out you off? Things like maybe poor spelling (OK really poor)? Snapchat filter? Cock pics? Swearing? Etc "
What tends to put me off is when there are long lists of “dont’s“ on profiles. Don’t contact me if you are X, Y or Z etc. I only like A, B or C etc
And these kind of profiles are fairly common and frequently a loooong read. Usually the list of what they don’t like is followed by a lengthy rant too.
Yes, it’s good to be clear about who you’re looking for. I totally get that, but profiles as above where it’s just *all* completely negative and whiny turn me off (and make me think the author has a very closed mind and narrow outlook on life.)
Rant over
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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User names. Incorrect spelling of the town they live. Text speak, lack of effort. Cock and sock pics, cock pics over the loo, gynaecological pics, swearing. Messy houses! Rant over |
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"What things on peoples profiles out you off? Things like maybe poor spelling (OK really poor)? Snapchat filter? Cock pics? Swearing? Etc "
Ugghh..Snapchat filters-how old are these people!
..and pics with the posers tongue stuck out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poor grammar, gaping fannies, flabby breasts (and that’s just the blokes!) “420 friendly”, untidy & toilet backdrops, the list is fairly endless. I’m pretty choosy, to be honest... but then I’m not God’s gift either. Luckily, there’s someone for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poor grammar, gaping fannies, flabby breasts (and that’s just the blokes!) “420 friendly”, untidy & toilet backdrops, the list is fairly endless. I’m pretty choosy, to be honest... but then I’m not God’s gift either. Luckily, there’s someone for everyone " not everyone is prefect which what they seek here it seem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What things on peoples profiles out you off? Things like maybe poor spelling (OK really poor)? Snapchat filter? Cock pics? Swearing? Etc " also snapchat and Instagram links i want to met not look at pics
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flacid cock hanging out of joggers.
Seeing far too much of this...
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Not so long ago there was a thread specifically requesting this. Can't please everyone.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Drug addicts adverts like '420 friendly'
Single profiles that have more pics of other people than themselves
Bareback pics on a single profile when they advertise 'safe sex only'
People whinging in statuses about how crap they think the site is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Drug addicts adverts like '420 friendly'
Single profiles that have more pics of other people than themselves
Bareback pics on a single profile when they advertise 'safe sex only'
People whinging in statuses about how crap they think the site is "
With you on the “420” and the endlessly whinging profiles. |
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"People who have kids in their cam, or have kids toys and things in their cam or pics... I have a child myself, but the two will NEVER meet, in any way. I won’t even have the pics of her facing the camera on cam. Just tidy up for gods sake.
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That should be reported - it's against the Terms & Conditions (5.7). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who have kids in their cam, or have kids toys and things in their cam or pics... I have a child myself, but the two will NEVER meet, in any way. I won’t even have the pics of her facing the camera on cam. Just tidy up for gods sake.
Back grammar and just stupid gibberish on profiles and messages. You want to impress me? Well maybe “hi hw r u bbe?” isn't going to do it.
People who claim they don’t smoke... then show as fag ash Lils on pics.
Big heads.
People who think they have muscle so they are sexy? Ew!
No just big heads. Forget the rest it’s big heads. Major turn off. C x"
I've never seen kids in pics |
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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago
Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and |
"Text speak, untidy rooms but most of all those who say they are interested in 18 to 99 but have a list of friends no older than 25."
Silhouette, no pics, no verifications and cant be arsed to write a Bio |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who have kids in their cam, or have kids toys and things in their cam or pics... I have a child myself, but the two will NEVER meet, in any way. I won’t even have the pics of her facing the camera on cam. Just tidy up for gods sake.
Back grammar and just stupid gibberish on profiles and messages. You want to impress me? Well maybe “hi hw r u bbe?” isn't going to do it.
People who claim they don’t smoke... then show as fag ash Lils on pics.
Big heads.
People who think they have muscle so they are sexy? Ew!
No just big heads. Forget the rest it’s big heads. Major turn off. C x
I've never seen kids in pics "
I think he means photos of kids in the background. In a frame, on the sideboard
At least I hope he bloody does! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who have kids in their cam, or have kids toys and things in their cam or pics... I have a child myself, but the two will NEVER meet, in any way. I won’t even have the pics of her facing the camera on cam. Just tidy up for gods sake.
Back grammar and just stupid gibberish on profiles and messages. You want to impress me? Well maybe “hi hw r u bbe?” isn't going to do it.
People who claim they don’t smoke... then show as fag ash Lils on pics.
Big heads.
People who think they have muscle so they are sexy? Ew!
No just big heads. Forget the rest it’s big heads. Major turn off. C x
I've never seen kids in pics
I think he means photos of kids in the background. In a frame, on the sideboard
At least I hope he bloody does!"
Ahh ok that would make more sense x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that say meeting with our very special friends !
Veris that say ....please treat this couple with the respect they deserve
Ladies that feel the need to tell me there on there monthly ..just so they can use the mother nature word ... |
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Dirty fingernails/hygiene.
Fanny’s that look like they’ve been GBH’d.
Using CAPITALS to emphasise a point. Bad grammer. Text speak.
People who have no photos and demand a face picture with the first message otherwise INSTANT DELETE! Oh no, whatever will I do?!
Jeez, talk about first world problems. Self serving prick that I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So glad it’s not just us that has all these pet peeves! Our profile now is pretty much a huge list of things we don’t want
Which is a pet peeve for the rest of us "
Oh the irony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My question for everyone in this thread.....
If you met someone in a club or private party and got along with them well enough to play..
Would you pull out your phone and check their profile for all these pet peeves before agreeing to play?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My question for everyone in this thread.....
If you met someone in a club or private party and got along with them well enough to play..
Would you pull out your phone and check their profile for all these pet peeves before agreeing to play?
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No. But that’s not the question the thread poses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What things on peoples profiles out you off? Things like maybe poor spelling (OK really poor)? Snapchat filter? Cock pics? Swearing? Etc "
I do like people to use correct spelling & grammar. OK, it's not everyone's strong point of course but horrendously bad spelling is a little off putting.
Snapchat filters are just irritating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Further to my last reply, since being on this site I have learnt that there are at least 6 ways to spell the word "discreet," haha !
But if I chatted (either by badly spelt message on here or in person) & got along well enough with someone, I would be willing to overlook such things. |
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"My question for everyone in this thread.....
If you met someone in a club or private party and got along with them well enough to play..
Would you pull out your phone and check their profile for all these pet peeves before agreeing to play?
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We've swerved people in clubs if recognise them due to their profile but unfortunately you can't whip your mobile out in club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who get put off by poor spelling or anything else its being snobby when they think they better than anyone else on here which is off putting too. |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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"People who get put off by poor spelling or anything else its being snobby when they think they better than anyone else on here which is off putting too. "
FYI -they're both spelt exactly the same -I wasn't being snobby in the slightest -punny is all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who get put off by poor spelling or anything else its being snobby when they think they better than anyone else on here which is off putting too. "
It isn’t a question of thinking that you are “better” than others, it is just that (really) poor spelling and grammar can make a profile unreadable and thus, uninteresting. Nothing to do with thinking you’re “better” than that person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What things on peoples profiles out you off? Things like maybe poor spelling (OK really poor)? Snapchat filter? Cock pics? Swearing? Etc " not interested in single men
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