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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't know about everyone else but I often wonder how many other people walking down the street, sitting in the office or friends around for dinner are into the life style. How do you try to find out; without telling them about yourself first? |
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By *DSRMan
over a year ago
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I think you'll find most people are sex obsessed, some hide it some embrace it... To tell, i think you just have to spend enough time talking to someone, test the waters on subjects not sex related, you can usual tell if someone as an extreme personality, or a leberated one... they are different types of personalities but both can lead to this type of life style (Can't they?) So... I guess you need to talk to people and push the conversation into areas... & progress the topic.
Friday at work a new girl started, after an hour-ish, she let me talk abotu porn for the entire day with her, she had a BF and i have no chance with her (Although she is hot) she wouldn't cheat or sleep around while with him... but yeah, just push the convo into areas not sex related, and slowely head that way
If that makes sense? i would have to think alot to actually tell examples of how to chat your way to that point, but it's not hard to do mate
All that said, some people liek to stay descreate, and you have to respect that!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could just come out and ask but expect to get a slap lol depends how brave you are.
All jokes aside I guess you wouldnt its not a topic you would just chat about. A lot of people do this without very few of their freinds and family knowing whereas I dont care 90% of my mates and some family know. |
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