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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Meeting someone without a meeting verifications? In not what would convince you to? I’ve found quite a few people I would love to message/meet but their profiles insist on having meet verifications. So I’m a bit screwed (and not in a good way!). Any advice? |
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Well.....it’s their choice. A bit similar to this:....”Firstly, if you’ve no public pics or a 20 word profile your not for me.....”
That’s your choice. We all have preferences. Some people do meet unverified people but my real advice is to look out for an organised social and go to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have met none verified in the past but we have been disappointed so don’t anymore. The best thing you could do is maybe go to a club to get verified or advertise a social meet first |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well.....it’s their choice. A bit similar to this:....”Firstly, if you’ve no public pics or a 20 word profile your not for me.....”
That’s your choice. We all have preferences. Some people do meet unverified people but my real advice is to look out for an organised social and go to that. "
I wasn’t criticising them and I’m fully aware it’s their choice. I was asking what I could do, not asking people to change. |
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I've met a few people without veris - they are just a small part of the picture for me. If someone feels off when we are talking and also has none, that might make me think twice but if we get on, that's fine with me. |
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"Well.....it’s their choice. A bit similar to this:....”Firstly, if you’ve no public pics or a 20 word profile your not for me.....”
That’s your choice. We all have preferences. Some people do meet unverified people but my real advice is to look out for an organised social and go to that.
I wasn’t criticising them and I’m fully aware it’s their choice. I was asking what I could do, not asking people to change. "
I’d certainly go to the club! Just go and watch. And chat. Or find yourself a social to go to. In the meantime, get yourself known in the forum where the top 3% of fab members gather. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I remembered meeting one unverified man,who only had one pic of his torso on his profile. He was very good at oral. "
Your only 250 miles away. I can be there in 5 hours  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well.....it’s their choice. A bit similar to this:....”Firstly, if you’ve no public pics or a 20 word profile your not for me.....”
That’s your choice. We all have preferences. Some people do meet unverified people but my real advice is to look out for an organised social and go to that.
I wasn’t criticising them and I’m fully aware it’s their choice. I was asking what I could do, not asking people to change.
I’d certainly go to the club! Just go and watch. And chat. Or find yourself a social to go to. In the meantime, get yourself known in the forum where the top 3% of fab members gather. "
Thanks, might see if someone would like to ‘escort’ me to break the ice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we all have to start somewhere I always prefer veris but I wouldn’t discount someone just because they had none if the chatting face pics etc seemed genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remembered meeting one unverified man,who only had one pic of his torso on his profile. He was very good at oral.
Your only 250 miles away. I can be there in 5 hours "
I'll be snoring by then. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Don't worry about those who won't, concentrate on those who will.
Somethings are out of your control that is the end of it, in answer to your question yes would would meet somebody without verifications but they would have to go the extra mile to convince us that they were genuine after all we all have to start somewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might if I were single. I mean if I were single looking for another single, that’s no different from what I used to do on dating sites, and I didn’t need veris then. But as a couple, we are really only comfortable to play with guys who are active on the swing scene and experienced with couples. Therefore verifications reflecting that is the norm for us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met an unverified guy and had (and are having a great time). The big difference was his approach. Polite, non-pushy and able to string a sentence together.
We messaged over 3 weeks before meeting and he never tried to get cheap thrills from this, so compared to most unverified males, huge change and pleasure.
So in answer to your question; it all depends  |
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Try a club or social event to get a couple of veri’s ... hopefully that’ll start you off!!
I’ve met unveried guys for socials before now & I know others who will, so it make a bit harder but not impossible
Good luck! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meeting someone without a meeting verifications? In not what would convince you to? I’ve found quite a few people I would love to message/meet but their profiles insist on having meet verifications. So I’m a bit screwed (and not in a good way!). Any advice?"
I have done many times. I'm not really interested in others opinions of someone, prefer to make my own assessment. |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
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"Meeting someone without a meeting verifications? In not what would convince you to? I’ve found quite a few people I would love to message/meet but their profiles insist on having meet verifications. So I’m a bit screwed (and not in a good way!). Any advice?"
I've met guys with no verifications and they have been really nice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meeting someone without a meeting verifications? In not what would convince you to? I’ve found quite a few people I would love to message/meet but their profiles insist on having meet verifications. So I’m a bit screwed (and not in a good way!). Any advice?"
Yes why wouldn’t you? |
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We have but if they expect an invite to meet and play with us as a couple they have to meet me (the male) first for a coffee and chat.
If they actually turn up for that (many dont) and make a good impression then they get an invite to meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like Clyde said to me...we once had no veris, we all start somewhere. I personally prefer verified profiles due to too many fakes and timewasters. Clyde has a more relaxed approach but still we can't find what were looking for. Like they say....if you can't beat us join us  |
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