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A question for men......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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I was just wondering, can men sense sexual confidence in a woman? Do we give off an aurora or other signs?

I'm asking as I have received much more interest in the real world from men since I joined this scene.

Interested to know your thoughts.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I’m completely clueless. I need to be told in no uncertain terms. Twice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely, we can sense it the same as women can.

But and a big but, the guy has to me emotionally mature enough to know what he's sensing.

No sure if that makes sense haha

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By *atdancerCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I was just wondering, can men sense sexual confidence in a woman?"

Absolutely - and sexual confidence is very, very sexy

" Do we give off an aurora or other signs?"

I couldn't properly put my finger on it. I think it's lots of little signs that add together. Like an easier laugh, less shy about what her body and clothes are currently doing. That sort of thing.

Hat

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By *he Silver FuxMan over a year ago

Uttoxeter

God yes! It’s a huge turn-on too, one of the things I love about Fab ladies is their sexual confidence, knowing what they want and not shy about telling you.

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By *aenMan over a year ago

Here and There

Hell yes, one of the bonuses of fab I think. I also think my fab experience has made me more attuned to admiring glances - though I may be imagining that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely an aura given off!

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

There is a difference between confidance and sexual confidance.. a woman may be confidant out and about.. meeting people,at work etc.. doesnt mean she is sexually confidant.. in my humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't recognise flirting so've got no chance with sexual confidence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No, I’m completely clueless. I need to be told in no uncertain terms. Twice. "

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No, I’m completely clueless. I need to be told in no uncertain terms. Twice.

I was being self deprecating, actually. I have a high level of emotional intelligence and self awareness.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope. I've learnt it's often the quiet ones who are the most

behind closed doors. Mistresses of disguise they are

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By *LUFFER200Man over a year ago

North Devon

There are some women who ooze sex appeal and you can tell fairly easily that is the case. However, recognising the signs and acting appropriately on them is often very difficult for us mere males. Some of us miss the signs even when they are highlighted in bright coloured neon signs. So ladies help us out, you know how sexy you are, give us a clear sign like sticking a nipple in our mouth or sitting on our face, note do not use faces in case of spelling mistakes. Memo to self, do not post after alcohol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone can of course join in this thread.....

I was just wondering, can men sense sexual confidence in a woman? Do we give off an aurora or other signs?

I'm asking as I have received much more interest in the real world from men since I joined this scene.

Interested to know your thoughts."

Generally, yes

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By *unning LinguistMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

Absolutely! A look comes over your eyes. It says...fuck me...please. It is unmistakable.

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By *ymrocruMan over a year ago

penygroes

Yes. You do emit a very high sexual ora. Some do anyway.

You can sense it.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"I was just wondering, can men sense sexual confidence in a woman?

Absolutely - and sexual confidence is very, very sexy

Do we give off an aurora or other signs?

I couldn't properly put my finger on it. I think it's lots of little signs that add together. Like an easier laugh, less shy about what her body and clothes are currently doing. That sort of thing.

Hat"

I totally agree with that. It works for blokes too. I think people with this confidence stand taller, look people in the eyes and naturally smile appropriately. That is sexy to people who find you to be their type. The same person slouching with eyes down doesn't exude that aura...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Absolutely! A look comes over your eyes. It says...fuck me...please. It is unmistakable.

Now this is what I have been told from quite a few people, that my eyes speak volumes. They get me into bother.....in a good way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely....amazing how ive found that in the real world the open minded highly sexed ones just seem to find each other x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone can of course join in this thread.....

I was just wondering, can men sense sexual confidence in a woman? Do we give off an aurora or other signs?

I'm asking as I have received much more interest in the real world from men since I joined this scene.

Interested to know your thoughts."

There's nothing sexier than confidence

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"Anyone can of course join in this thread.....

I was just wondering, can men sense sexual confidence in a woman? Do we give off an aurora or other signs?

I'm asking as I have received much more interest in the real world from men since I joined this scene.

Interested to know your thoughts.

There's nothing sexier than confidence

Absolutely, confidence in oneself takes you places that those lacking in this fail to go. Not a dig at anybody who struggle with this, but the mindset of the have it vs don't have it is stark. The whole belief system about risk and reward defines the two clearly. Its a way of life I believe, forcing it leads to over confidence bordering on recklessness.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it is possible, but in my experience not always common.

I have only met three women that really, really attracted me. No explanation as to what it was about them, just an 'aura'.

All three were women that I met in an everyday situation, never have in a swinging situation.

I would guess it might not be the same for everyone, not with the same person. Or maybe it is, I can only speak for myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone can of course join in this thread.....

I was just wondering, can men sense sexual confidence in a woman? Do we give off an aurora or other signs?

I'm asking as I have received much more interest in the real world from men since I joined this scene.

Interested to know your thoughts."

I’d say so yes

Not all men are very good at spotting things like that though, we tend to read signals completely wrong.

Women however...

Lacey’s got an incredibly well tuned gay-dar for other women, she’s pulled multiple times when out in the most unlikely places!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Definitely! A woman with sexual confidence is an enormous turn-on. If she makes the running it can be a very powerful thing. (It is 2018 after all). Equality is a beautiful thing!

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

I've met women who are very shy in the bedroom and women who really know their salt. You would never know the difference talking to them. People have personality, I don't really think that is a reflection of their abilities in the bedroom.

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By *ikilovesCCouple over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Anyone can of course join in this thread.....

I was just wondering, can men sense sexual confidence in a woman? Do we give off an aurora or other signs?

I'm asking as I have received much more interest in the real world from men since I joined this scene.

Interested to know your thoughts."

That really is an interesting question

I think sexy is a state of mind and when you've been enjoying

"the scene" you're bound to see yourself in a different light.

It could be that we're sensing the "sexy you"

But equally it could be you that's much more aware of and have confidence in, yourself.

Whichever it is, enjoy it lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone can of course join in this thread.....

I was just wondering, can men sense sexual confidence in a woman? Do we give off an aurora or other signs?

I'm asking as I have received much more interest in the real world from men since I joined this scene.

Interested to know your thoughts."

Confidence in general is sensed, how you carry yourself is a huge factor to how attracted i am to a person!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep..... and most of us seek it... you can't hide your pheromones....

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By *ig_eric_tionMan over a year ago

IPSWICH

"Hell yes, one of the bonuses of fab I think. I also think my fab experience has made me more attuned to admiring glances - though I may be imagining that

I have to agree with you. Life has become a lot more interesting.

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