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How long should it take before you meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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Every one is totally different however for me personally, if they are relatively local I like a social at least within a couple o wks 
Follow your gut instinct though, if it goes on for a while just move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a norm we can only meet on an occasional Saturday night if the kids go to their grandparents. So it a case of us having to wait until we have a child free night before we can meet. Could well be a month if not more. And even when we can meet it doesn’t mean that the person we want to meet is free on the same night as us. Most people understand our situation though, and we’ve certainly never been blocked for not being able too meet quickly.
Mrs
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"Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
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Are you asking how long after a meet people are blocked?
As for actually meeting, it takes as long as it does, nobody is sitting behind their screens shag ready! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
Are you asking how long after a meet people are blocked?
As for actually meeting, it takes as long as it does, nobody is sitting behind their screens shag ready!"
Some men are!! Ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
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To swap contact details off this site? Within the same day of messaging someone!
We both need a face pic to establish mutual attraction, otherwise no point in conversing further.
After we established mutual attraction, I'd like to arrange a quick social coffee the next day if possible. Social first so I can tell whether he looks likes his photo and whether I feel comfortable alone with him.
Then I like to arrange a sexual based meet, that evening or the next available evening as soon as possible if that suits him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
Are you asking how long after a meet people are blocked?
As for actually meeting, it takes as long as it does, nobody is sitting behind their screens shag ready!"
I am  lol. I wish Johnny depp was though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I mean as in I been talking about women for a whole week on 1st day she agreed to cam but never happend afterwards she reads messages and never reply then she says we will meet and still never happend so I blocked her I blocked mamy other couples and block list has around 200 people becouse I feel like is time wasting |
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Really depends on who you’re talking to.
Some meets can take months or weeks to arrange. Others can take a few hours or minutes.
I wouldn’t block if they can’t meet you as they might have genuine reasons like being busy away from Fabs.
Just be patient and something magical will eventually happen. |
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"I mean as in I been talking about women for a whole week on 1st day she agreed to cam but never happend afterwards she reads messages and never reply then she says we will meet and still never happend so I blocked her I blocked mamy other couples and block list has around 200 people becouse I feel like is time wasting "
Ok. There are no rules about how long and it’s up to you to decide if people are wasting your time or not. |
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"Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
Are you asking how long after a meet people are blocked?
As for actually meeting, it takes as long as it does, nobody is sitting behind their screens shag ready!"
*raises hand* err... I am
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"Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
Are you asking how long after a meet people are blocked?
As for actually meeting, it takes as long as it does, nobody is sitting behind their screens shag ready!
*raises hand* err... I am
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What a good Boy Scout you are!
Coming over then? |
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"Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
Are you asking how long after a meet people are blocked?
As for actually meeting, it takes as long as it does, nobody is sitting behind their screens shag ready!
Some men are!! Ha "
And so are some women  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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For me I can't put a time frame on It, whenever the diaries align.
1. Chat on here
2. Swap face pics (if happy continue to step 3)
3. Meet for coffee
4. Meet for sex
5. Repeat step 4
It should be that simple really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I mean as in I been talking about women for a whole week on 1st day she agreed to cam but never happend afterwards she reads messages and never reply then she says we will meet and still never happend so I blocked her I blocked mamy other couples and block list has around 200 people becouse I feel like is time wasting "
You’ve blocked 200 people in 6 months? Blimey, doubt we’ve spoken to 200 different people in 3 years..... |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"For me I can't put a time frame on It, whenever the diaries align.
1. Chat on here
2. Swap face pics (if happy continue to step 3)
3. Meet for coffee
4. Meet for sex
5. Repeat step 4
It should be that simple really."
Key word .... should |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like chatting for about a week. Then I can usually tell if I would like to meet them. If they aren’t chatty then I wouldn’t meet. In my experience the sex isn’t great with a guy that can barely string a sentence together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
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As soon as you are both ready,and available to meet.there are no set times. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"I mean as in I been talking about women for a whole week on 1st day she agreed to cam but never happend afterwards she reads messages and never reply then she says we will meet and still never happend so I blocked her I blocked mamy other couples and block list has around 200 people becouse I feel like is time wasting "
If it's essential to you to meet quickly, don't waste your own time by engaging with people (like me) who want to take the time to establish a friendship and rapport first. You should be able to assess their expectations from the profile or first message or two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I mean as in I been talking about women for a whole week on 1st day she agreed to cam but never happend afterwards she reads messages and never reply then she says we will meet and still never happend so I blocked her I blocked mamy other couples and block list has around 200 people becouse I feel like is time wasting "
You should probably make it very clear on your profile that you expect a short period of time between establishing interest and actually meeting. That way people who march to a different beat as yourself, or have complicated lives, will know not to waste yours or their own time by messaging you.
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We generally message for a while and get to know the person, however the people we have met through here have usually been within a month or so. Any longer than that and it usually becomes apparent they have no intention of meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do think the term ‘timewasting’ is thrown about a bit too much though. If someone wishes to chat for a few weeks before deciding whether they want to meet doesn’t make them a timewaster. Unless chatting to a potential playmate is too much of a waste of time for some? If someone is struggling with their diary atvthat mood meet in time, it doesn’t mean they are a timewaster. It means life has got in the way but they might be able to meet when life settles down.
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"I do think the term ‘timewasting’ is thrown about a bit too much though. If someone wishes to chat for a few weeks before deciding whether they want to meet doesn’t make them a timewaster. Unless chatting to a potential playmate is too much of a waste of time for some? If someone is struggling with their diary atvthat mood meet in time, it doesn’t mean they are a timewaster. It means life has got in the way but they might be able to meet when life settles down.
Mrs"
Completely agree with this, you can usually tell if somebody is genuine or not after a little while, and if they are then things just work out when they do. I think we all need to remember that people have real lives outside of here.
As you say, we’re of the same opinion that if we’re willing to let somebody into our bed, a bit of time getting to know them is no hardship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone’s different my quickets was 4hours our vibe was just crazy and now we are planning all sorts of crazy stuff and first times for me
One guy I’ve been speaking too for over a year and finally meeting next month |
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We find the longer it takes , the less chance of a meet happening .
So we only really chat with a view to meeting on that night . We don’t bother otherwise unless it’s the next night if we aren’t free that night . |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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As people have said, it varies drastically. I've met someone less than 24 hrs after his first message.
Another one I've been talking to for about two years and still haven't persuaded him to meet me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone this is just simple question and would be great to hear your opinions .
I wanted ask if you meet someone on fab and swap number how long should you wait till you meet . And when should you move on and block then of
No rude comment by the way
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Six to nine months.  |
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