C’mon ladies, who has faked it because it was easier to do that than tell the delusional bloke that trying to make you cum when they want you to just wont work?
Over my 40+ years of having sex, I have and often. |
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Nope never done that,if it's not happening it's not happening it's as simple as that. I do know I may be in the minority by saying I haven't faked it,I don't get why a woman would do it anyway.
If you carry on faking it the guy will think everything is all good and how daft is that! |
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I don’t fake. I physically can’t . Would have to agree. If you fake he will think he’s doing great.
If it’s not going well I take over an sort myself out  |
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I will admit to faking it, It was going on too long and I was just over it by that point but I really like the person so wanted to spare their feelings. Tbh tho thats the only time I ever have, either I just won't cum at all or take matters into my own hands. |
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"Don't fake it, if I'm doing something wrong then tell me. Bollocks to the guys who's egos would be damaged by that.
Mr B"
I cannot and never have faked it with mr b but I will let him know what works and what isn’t. I’ve faked it with ex partners before though as I couldn’t be arsed for it to carry on, plus they never really took the time or attention to understand what works for me but mr b pays attention always 
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"Don't fake it, if I'm doing something wrong then tell me. Bollocks to the guys who's egos would be damaged by that.
Mr B
I cannot and never have faked it with mr b but I will let him know what works and what isn’t. I’ve faked it with ex partners before though as I couldn’t be arsed for it to carry on, plus they never really took the time or attention to understand what works for me but mr b pays attention always
Ms B "
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I always tell guys that I don't cum easily which is true. Not having an orgasm doesn't mean it was rubbish. I would want a guy to try to find things that work and if I faked it, he wouldn't! Also, when a guy does make me cum, he knows it's very special and that I'd want to please him even more in return  |
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"I’ve faked it LOTS!!!!
Men can’t tell and that is the funniest part of it....
What if guy's fake it with you how would that make you feel? I know I wouldn't like it,I'd just rather them say."
This topic of this thread is about ladies faking it.....not men...  |
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"I’ve faked it LOTS!!!!
Men can’t tell and that is the funniest part of it....
What if guy's fake it with you how would that make you feel? I know I wouldn't like it,I'd just rather them say.
This topic of this thread is about ladies faking it.....not men... "
I know that I just wondered why you found it funny to deceive men that's all. |
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"I’ve faked it LOTS!!!!
Men can’t tell and that is the funniest part of it....
What if guy's fake it with you how would that make you feel? I know I wouldn't like it,I'd just rather them say.
This topic of this thread is about ladies faking it.....not men...
I know that I just wondered why you found it funny to deceive men that's all."
It seems that doing so makes her feel better about herself |
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"I always tell guys that I don't cum easily which is true. Not having an orgasm doesn't mean it was rubbish. I would want a guy to try to find things that work and if I faked it, he wouldn't! Also, when a guy does make me cum, he knows it's very special and that I'd want to please him even more in return "
This.I might sometimes exaggerate, but I don’t fake. |
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"How many of the men who have commented here have the ‘ladies first’ rule?
That the lady should orgasm first? As many times as possible, hopefully.
Are there guys who don’t?"
I bloody hope so. The pressure on women to cum first is as bad as the pressure on men not to.
Some women won’t, can’t and find it difficult to cum. Some only cum once and don’t want to be touched again, some have never had an orgasm.
Hence the faking. |
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I don’t get the pressure thing. There’s no pressure. In my second serious relationship, the girl couldn’t orgasm from penetrative sex. So we just did her stuff first. In two other relationships I had, the lassies could only orgasm if they were on top, then closed their legs so their legs were on top of it between mine.
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In all cases, there was just honesty about what would or could make them orgasm, and what they would want to do afterwards (more, or definitely no more). Faking it just leads to having to endure more shit you don’t like. Pointless. |
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"Nope never done that,if it's not happening it's not happening it's as simple as that. I do know I may be in the minority by saying I haven't faked it,I don't get why a woman would do it anyway.
If you carry on faking it the guy will think everything is all good and how daft is that!"
No I'm exactly the same...I always think if I fake it the guy is going to think it feels good and keep doing it! Which is bad for all parties in the longer run...completely understand why you would though OP  |
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"Don't fake it, if I'm doing something wrong then tell me. Bollocks to the guys who's egos would be damaged by that.
Mr B
I cannot and never have faked it with mr b but I will let him know what works and what isn’t. I’ve faked it with ex partners before though as I couldn’t be arsed for it to carry on, plus they never really took the time or attention to understand what works for me but mr b pays attention always
Ms B
You found your lobster "
Well, I am wearing a red shirt
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By *ky19Man
over a year ago
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This reminds me of that old joke
"Why do women fake orgasms?
Because they think men care."
But seriously, it's entirely possible to not come even if you've had an amazing time. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Personally I'd prefer someone to tell me that whatever I'm doing isn't doing it for them - whilst I like to think I'm fairly attuned to people's reactions and change things accordingly, I'm also well aware that everyone is different and like things done differently so if I'm not doing it right for an individual I'd rather they told me or guided me so I get it right for them  |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"I always tell guys that I don't cum easily which is true. Not having an orgasm doesn't mean it was rubbish. I would want a guy to try to find things that work and if I faked it, he wouldn't! Also, when a guy does make me cum, he knows it's very special and that I'd want to please him even more in return "
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I've faked it fairly regularly. In my first relationship he was abusive, I would have been beaten up for daring to criticise his sexual performance (even though he was shit). Second relationship, the guy took it personally if I didn't orgasm and therefore the pressure made it impossible for me to orgasm... so it just became a vicious cycle. 
I no longer fake with regular partners, because now I only form relationships with men who are confident enough to listen to directions and emotionally mature enough to understand that sometimes I just can't orgasm and it usually has nothing to do with them.
But with casual meets... it's hit and miss. Sometimes I orgasm, sometimes I fake, sometimes I don't come and I'm just honest about it. |
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I have, many times, for most of the reasons listed here by others but most often because the guy puts so must pressure on me for it to happen and I just want it over. I don't orgasm easily through just physical touch, it takes getting inside my mind and being somewhat of a kinky nature and definitely isn't going to happen on casual meetings. |
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It’s never occurred to me to fake it, because it never occurred to me that a man expected a woman to orgasm. I can only orgasm if I do it myself, and that’s all I’ve ever known. These days I sometimes take my Rabbit to a sex meet so I can finish myself off after he’s cum.
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I can tell when a womans faking it (or at least when it's obvious) and its tarnishes the sex. I'd rather they just said they haven't cum or even take control a bit and direct things if they are that bothered about orgasming.
Some women find it harder than others. I've had sex a few times and not cum myself (mainly under the influence) but still enjoyed it.
If a woman never orgasms with a particular guy but does so with others, surely it's time to move on? |
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"C’mon ladies, who has faked it because it was easier to do that than tell the delusional bloke that trying to make you cum when they want you to just wont work?
Over my 40+ years of having sex, I have and often. "
Yes I have |
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I can't speak for other guys, but personally I can do without the sop to my ego. I'd rather know I'm doing something wrong and what I should be doing instead. |
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I have faked an orgasm, I don't always orgasm when I cum. Many men don't seem to know the difference, from my experience. To some I've met, I have explained the difference I feel between them, so they're aware.
I have been asked previously how many times I came, and that has to be one of the most stupid questions to ask... You think I count... I'll tell you I came, no idea how many times, but I didn't have an orgasm.
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"C’mon ladies, who has faked it because it was easier to do that than tell the delusional bloke that trying to make you cum when they want you to just wont work?
Over my 40+ years of having sex, I have and often. "
Shame on you . How could you |
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