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Who's the time waster
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I arranged a meet with a couple today who I won't name.. I told them I wasn't avalible until 7 and to send me when and where.. they was quiet local staying near me. They gave me directions on here and I set off. My mobile network has parental lock so when I got there and parked the car I could not find where I was going.. luckily i got my bearings a eventually found the place. I knock on the door and greeted.. this is about 45 mins after I set off... oh we thought you was a time waster and pretty much told to go.... when I got home I hope fab and have a message calling me another time waster |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"It's within a mile but I had no address.. just directions... I was fuming inside "
You couldn't text to say you were lost? 45 mins to travel less than a mile, I'd think you'd bottled it to be honest. Then again I'd text to ask where you were. Sounds like a miscommunication on both sides. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's within a mile but I had no address.. just directions... I was fuming inside
You couldn't text to say you were lost? 45 mins to travel less than a mile, I'd think you'd bottled it to be honest. Then again I'd text to ask where you were. Sounds like a miscommunication on both sides. "
It was all last minute and I didn't have any other way to communicate other than fab... and my dam parental lock let me down |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So you knocked on the door and they answered? Then called you a time waster? "
No I got home to message they had sent while I was looking... sorry for any confusion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely if you had your phone with you... Google maps wouod have helped.
Let's face it... everyone has a quite modern phone these days.. and it works without parental control too |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"It's within a mile but I had no address.. just directions... I was fuming inside
You couldn't text to say you were lost? 45 mins to travel less than a mile, I'd think you'd bottled it to be honest. Then again I'd text to ask where you were. Sounds like a miscommunication on both sides.
It was all last minute and I didn't have any other way to communicate other than fab... and my dam parental lock let me down "
Well you live and learn. Don't meet someone without swapping numbers first, or at least a definite meeting place rather than vague directions, and get the parental lock off your phone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you knocked on the door and they answered? Then called you a time waster?
No I got home to message they had sent while I was looking... sorry for any confusion "
This from your original post....
luckily i got my bearings a eventually found the place. I knock on the door and greeted.. this is about 45 mins after I set off... oh we thought you was a time waster and pretty much told to go...
So... now you say you didn't see them at all? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you knocked on the door and they answered? Then called you a time waster?
No I got home to message they had sent while I was looking... sorry for any confusion
This from your original post....
Yes I did see them and spoke to them....
luckily i got my bearings a eventually found the place. I knock on the door and greeted.. this is about 45 mins after I set off... oh we thought you was a time waster and pretty much told to go...
So... now you say you didn't see them at all? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's within a mile but I had no address.. just directions... I was fuming inside
You couldn't text to say you were lost? 45 mins to travel less than a mile, I'd think you'd bottled it to be honest. Then again I'd text to ask where you were. Sounds like a miscommunication on both sides.
It was all last minute and I didn't have any other way to communicate other than fab... and my dam parental lock let me down
Well you live and learn. Don't meet someone without swapping numbers first, or at least a definite meeting place rather than vague directions, and get the parental lock off your phone. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at the first question unasked you.... did you meet them... you said no.
Now you say you did.... Just trying to work out if I'm wrong here by reading wrong? Or you did on fact post that earlier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No you are were not timewasting. How can you be? You turned up. The only thing they can acuse you if is being late. Seems a bit over the top to react like that because someone had difficulty finding their way. Make your you exchange a phone number in the future.
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"How long should it have taken to get there ?
About 15 20 mins if I was to go straight there... I was and home within the hour "
I think if they were expecting you in 15 minutes and you didn’t turn up for 45 minutes they have every right to be pissed off .
It seems you now realise the parental lock thing was a schoolboy error , so onwards and upwards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I met them... spoke to them and when I got home I had a message they obviously sent thinking I was not turning up "
So if you met them, then why did they not follow through?
Ok seems they were the time wasters then... you turn up AND speak to them.. they then you away... maybe they didn't like the look of you in person.
Rude either way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alas there are a many people on here who waste peoples time, I am sure many just do it for the attention and to get a quick thrill. You arrange a meet then when you ask for address etc they go offline for days or block you, the verification system is broken. You should be able to give people feedback or leave negative comments if they're abusive or waste time. |
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"Alas there are a many people on here who waste peoples time, I am sure many just do it for the attention and to get a quick thrill. You arrange a meet then when you ask for address etc they go offline for days or block you, the verification system is broken. You should be able to give people feedback or leave negative comments if they're abusive or waste time."
That would not work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you were following directions ,whats parental
lock got to do with it ?
surely you can unlock parental lock
45 minutes to do 1 mile ............
thats london to southend
basically you faffed about and were late
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you probably said im 15 mins away
they also knew you were only 15 mins away
they probably had kids coming home from work'school
you were well late , blew the moment ,etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I'm off Wi-Fi my mobile data restricts 18+ websites. All messages was on here so I couldn't access them and had try remember then.... aswel as not wanting to knock on the wrong door and have to explain myself to the wrong people
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"When I'm off Wi-Fi my mobile data restricts 18+ websites. All messages was on here so I couldn't access them and had try remember then.... aswel as not wanting to knock on the wrong door and have to explain myself to the wrong people
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Personally I think you are over analysing this situation. Learn from it and move on. Learn how you messed up and why you think they saw you as a time waster (am not saying you are)
Good luck mucka |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's within a mile but I had no address.. just directions... I was fuming inside
You couldn't text to say you were lost? 45 mins to travel less than a mile, I'd think you'd bottled it to be honest. Then again I'd text to ask where you were. Sounds like a miscommunication on both sides.
It was all last minute and I didn't have any other way to communicate other than fab... and my dam parental lock let me down "
That's why I won't meet without a phone number. |
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"When I'm off Wi-Fi my mobile data restricts 18+ websites. All messages was on here so I couldn't access them and had try remember then.... aswel as not wanting to knock on the wrong door and have to explain myself to the wrong people
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You can contact your provider and ask them to unlock 18+ sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm off Wi-Fi my mobile data restricts 18+ websites. All messages was on here so I couldn't access them and had try remember then.... aswel as not wanting to knock on the wrong door and have to explain myself to the wrong people
Personally I think you are over analysing this situation. Learn from it and move on. Learn how you messed up and why you think they saw you as a time waster (am not saying you are)
Good luck mucka "
I don't think he did mess up. People should allow time for travelling to a new place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm off Wi-Fi my mobile data restricts 18+ websites. All messages was on here so I couldn't access them and had try remember then.... aswel as not wanting to knock on the wrong door and have to explain myself to the wrong people
You can contact your provider and ask them to unlock 18+ sites."
You have to be able to prove you're over 18 though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I'm off Wi-Fi my mobile data restricts 18+ websites. All messages was on here so I couldn't access them and had try remember then.... aswel as not wanting to knock on the wrong door and have to explain myself to the wrong people
You can contact your provider and ask them to unlock 18+ sites."
It's on my to-do list |
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"When I'm off Wi-Fi my mobile data restricts 18+ websites. All messages was on here so I couldn't access them and had try remember then.... aswel as not wanting to knock on the wrong door and have to explain myself to the wrong people
Personally I think you are over analysing this situation. Learn from it and move on. Learn how you messed up and why you think they saw you as a time waster (am not saying you are)
Good luck mucka
I don't think he did mess up. People should allow time for travelling to a new place. "
As you said earlier.. you dont meet without numbers...perhaps op should have done similar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm off Wi-Fi my mobile data restricts 18+ websites. All messages was on here so I couldn't access them and had try remember then.... aswel as not wanting to knock on the wrong door and have to explain myself to the wrong people
You can contact your provider and ask them to unlock 18+ sites.
You have to be able to prove you're over 18 though. "
My hubby did this last night with his provider didnt have to prove he was over 18 just asked them to remove it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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45 mins is a bit of a long time to be fair as your were local..maybe because of their anticipation of the meet and the bit of nervses we all get and that time it took you to get there the mood had gone or they might have even had sex 30 mins after the expected time of your arrival ..you have to remember we all get let down with no shows from time to time and maybe they thought this was one of them times..but it does look like better communication was needed all round |
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Very unfair 