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Ok so I need a little help
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It appears my profile is over run by dick pics and not so interesting but I need discretion so what can I apply to my profile to make it more interested ideas would be helpful |
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"It appears my profile is over run by dick pics and not so interesting but I need discretion so what can I apply to my profile to make it more interested ideas would be helpful "
You could apply some commas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile is really aggressive and demanding. 420 will put many off. Silhouette will mean lots pass you by, dick shots are a turn off...... apart from that, it’s fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you need to re evaluate what your telling Fabbers, cuz you might rub people up the wrong way in how we read you ....
Concentrate of who you are, by all means be honest, but not need to be assertive about that (smoking bit etc)
That is just my opinion ok
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m sure there are many photo angles which wouldn’t make you instantly recognisable aside from the contents of your undercrackers, have a look at other male photos.
Your profile is sounding a little less than inviting and rather grumpy. Lighten up a little. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It appears my profile is over run by dick pics and not so interesting but I need discretion so what can I apply to my profile to make it more interested ideas would be helpful "
What about a nice face picture? (stands by for work related excuse) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it a bit strange that someone has to ask what photos to show that are not cock and don’t make the person identifiable. I mean surely pretty well the whole body or any part of the body, except the face, would achieve this? But as you do need to ask, I would suggest any photos of yourself that makes you look good. Then just crop out part or all of the face, or pixelate the face so it’s not recognised. If you have a good body then show it off. Clothing worn in a certain way can make a man look appealing. Only you can know what makes you look sexy.
With regards to your profile, it comes across, at best, as incredibly defensive. Defensive about your smoking, defensive about not being desperate, ranting at everybody that you don’t care what they think. Makes me think ‘whoa!! This guy has issues! Don’t go there’.
So ok you smoke. So you can do your searches amongst fellow smokers, try your luck with non-smokers who don’t mind the habit, or you can stop smoking. But there’s no need to have a go at those who don’t like smoking because those people are irrevelevant to. And drawing attention to your smoking sounds like you have an axe to grind.
With regards to single men being desperate. Some are and some aren’t. It’s obvious who the desperate guys are, and telling everybody you aren’t desperate sounds like you are just trying to convince yourself. Again you are having a go at everybody.
Requesting messages have a certain title to prove they have read the profile. Isn’t that something women and couples do when they get fed up with being inundated with guys who don’t read profiles?
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"Your wording is aggressive.
Agree you have too much dick.
The 420 friendly part will put some off too.
It's not a welcoming profile. "
Don’t drop the 420 reference, it will save wasting everybody’s time. |
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Try reading other profiles from single guys of a similar age. See who gets the most veris or fabbed pics and then work out what's wrong with yours.
If a woman or couple had written your profile would you find it appealing?
Sorry to say but your profile is aggressive rather than assertive, you DO have too many cock pics and your hands look dirty.
You are vying for attention in a saturated market - start again, listen to advice or maybe stick to vanilla dating.
But at least you haven't got the Sydney Uni bollocks posted, so 1/10 for that!
Good luck!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put some pics of you dressed, with your face/head blanked out or cropped off.
Harsh! 
That's a good idea if he's ugly. "
I meant for discretionary reasons, obviously  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your wording is aggressive.
Agree you have too much dick.
The 420 friendly part will put some off too.
It's not a welcoming profile.
Don’t drop the 420 reference, it will save wasting everybody’s time. "
Very true. Don't lie to people who say no drugs or smokers either. |
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"Put some pics of you dressed, with your face/head blanked out or cropped off.
Harsh!
That's a good idea if he's ugly.
I meant for discretionary reasons, obviously "
I meant if he was ugly,winky face.
I'm sure he's not though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some really good advice.
I think you do come across quite defensive and a little pissed off tbh. Maybe get 420 friendly and rewrite it
Also you've said don't judge a book by its cover and just included cock pics.
Just enjoy being on here and make your profile reflect that.
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