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Rough sex does it make you a Sub/Dom

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Love rough sex and looking for a Fb. If a lady like to be pinned down fucked hard, throat fucked etc.. does that make her a sub?

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By *ilthyStrumpetCouple over a year ago

Trowbridge

No.

And being a sub doesn't mean you're necessarily into rough sex.

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

No. It means she likes rough sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No.

And being a sub doesn't mean you're necessarily into rough sex."

Well that sorted that quickly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely NOT!

I do hope you've not read 50 shades of shit

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By *ollyGWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Not really, you both have to agree what you are happy with before, being a Dom Is not just about abusing your Sub

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree being into rough sex doesn't make you a sub or a dom... It's a totally different dynamic and it doesn't always involve sex.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Absolutely NOT!

I do hope you've not read 50 shades of shit

This completely

Dom/sub play can take many different forms OP, including the type you describe IF and only IF it's agreed between those involved but it doesn't necessarily mean the lady is submissive at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As an owned sub I can say definitely no. The dynamic between dom and sub is a subtle balance and takes time to develop

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Absolutely NOT!

I do hope you've not read 50 shades of shit

Good lord no!.. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy all of the things you’re describing and I am 10000% not a sub. Please do some research on the matter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I agree being into rough sex doesn't make you a sub or a dom... It's a totally different dynamic and it doesn't always involve sex. "

I agree as well.. but been chatting to somebody and when we got talking about rough sex they said "absolutely not I'm not sub".. I just thought eh....

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

No..

A D/s relationship is so much more than "rough sex"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No.

Next question.

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