My wife and I had some soft swing experiences with a male friend. When it was time to go all the way and both of us guys to have sex with her I did have mixed feelings. Part of me felt "there's no undoing this" but the bigger part was just so turned on knowing she was being pleasured by two men she found very attractive.
The day after he was still with us and I felt OK but would have preferred a morning bonding with my wife.
15 years on, no such concerns. |
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My partner and I felt fine but we always do the 'reclamation' sex and we discuss things. Honesty with each other about any feelings, good or bad, is the answer. |
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First time we were going with the flow and had a great time - we then went back to the hotel and had great sex on our own. We never find it entirely without some concerns, but we just put that down to this being a part time hobbie |
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"First time we were going with the flow and had a great time - we then went back to the hotel and had great sex on our own. We never find it entirely without some concerns, but we just put that down to this being a part time hobbie "
Sounds perfectly reasonable! |
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Our first full swap wasn't planned and all four of us were a little tipsy to say the least lol needless to say it wasn't the best session we've had but talking afterwards we were definitely hooked and haven't looked back |
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