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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its sounds like a stupid question, BUT, as coming from a swinging couple to playing as a single fem.. and can I still class myself as a swinger because I thought that swingers where couples who swaped?
I play with lots of couples and its not just about finding sex for me. on this website, there are alot of guys/and some girls who are just after a free shag?
Can you only class yoursefl as a swinger if you attend clubs/parties etc... otherwise its just a free sex site?! I know that sex is what it comes down to, but people forget about the situtiton.
Dont mean to offend anyone, its a genuine question....
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i wrote this a few days ago in answer to someone else...others seemed to think it was a good definition
Swinging has many different definitions.And i hate labels,but for me i would say it is a belief that sex is not monogamous,and that we can have many different levels of relationships from fucking namelessly in a club to "fuck buddies"to lover to husband/wife.
Whatever the relationship though there is a lack of possessiveness,and openness about sex for physical pleasure.
i suppose we are a good example of this,currently kev is on a break,but i am still meeting,even whilst we were both meeting i met my Master...this did not affect our relationship since we do not need exclusivity to prove our love for each other.
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By (user no longer on site)
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i think like most things the phrase swingers is just a label
If you want to class yourself as a swinger then do so
I, personally, do not see myself as a swingers, i meet people off here, i go to club and parties but i'd sooner see myself as someone who just likes sex lol |
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"i wrote this a few days ago in answer to someone else...others seemed to think it was a good definition
Swinging has many different definitions.And i hate labels,but for me i would say it is a belief that sex is not monogamous,and that we can have many different levels of relationships from fucking namelessly in a club to "fuck buddies"to lover to husband/wife.
Whatever the relationship though there is a lack of possessiveness,and openness about sex for physical pleasure.
i suppose we are a good example of this,currently kev is on a break,but i am still meeting,even whilst we were both meeting i met my Master...this did not affect our relationship since we do not need exclusivity to prove our love for each other.
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Good description.
I dont think there are any rules as to who is classed as a swinger.
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