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Male submissives and ladies that want one!
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Hi all
As a male submissive and one of many on this site I’d like to start a chat.
This is with the sole hope that one dominant lady is able to meet one submissive man!
Whilst I know that may very well not be me I’d like to at least try!
So!
Ladies please post 3 things you’d want from a sub.
Men please post 3 things you would like from a mistress / domme / lady.
Hopefully something will match up!
Don’t be shy xx |
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over a year ago
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Excellent topic. When I’m in sub mode I like to offer: worship and restraint, massage, being spanked and flogged, and pegging as a reward for excellent behaviour... |
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over a year ago
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"We looked for a submissive guy within Leicester a while back but could never find one.
Did you go to club 29? There are more sub men there than anything else. "
Yeah we tried it once when it was another name.
Our problem in find one was we only wanted a sub guy that's straight and as most sub guys are at least curious it would be unfair for them to only have to do straight play all the time so wouldn't feel right, kind of like we taking part of there fun/kink away and they wouldn't be fully satisfied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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1. Totally restrained and tied in many positions
2. Edging me for her amusement
3. A total cock tease!
*** the more you tease me and please me.... The more I'm going to ruin you after! **** yes that's right ladies I'm a switch! It's in your best interest to ruin me first!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We looked for a submissive guy within Leicester a while back but could never find one."
Hi, i,m wanting for a lady or a couple to be dominated, i will do anything for you, please try me, please take me |
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"We looked for a submissive guy within Leicester a while back but could never find one.
Hi, i,m wanting for a lady or a couple to be dominated, i will do anything for you, please try me, please take me"
Hiya,
As we said a couple of posts down from that, was a straight guy we was seeking, sorry.
Was a long time ago and we're sorted now
Thanks for the offer though, appreciated  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From experience it would be good to have a sub who is not a cheat !
How can any sub submit when he has a partner.
I am still searching for that elusive sub and not a wannabe like so many are |
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"From experience it would be good to have a sub who is not a cheat !
How can any sub submit when he has a partner.
I am still searching for that elusive sub and not a wannabe like so many are "
Put them in a chastity cage! Job sorted |
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1) intelligence - always goes a long way in these kind of things. Specifically emotional intelligence.
2) Respect - doesn't need much explanation, surely
3) A caring side. Always good for aftercare
Anyone else just really enjoy the gentle side of bdsm? I love the idea of being controlled without the need for beating the ever loving shit out of me to get me to comply/conform. I do understand the desire to be hurt sometimes though |
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"1) I love the idea of being controlled without the need for beating the ever loving shit out of me to get me to comply/conform. I do understand the desire to be hurt sometimes though "
If you need to be beaten to comply your not submitting. If you wish to be hurt then a sensible Dom/me would use that as a reward. |
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As the dominant female in a relationship with a submissive... it always amuses me how most 'sub' men have a whole list of kinky stuff they want the woman to do to them. When a guy says to me "I want to worship your feet/lick your ass/massage you all over/have you kick me in the balls/etc.' he isn't being submissive, he is trying to use me as a fetish dispenser: "Do this stuff to me the way *I* want!"
My submissive:
1) accepts that - although I value his input - I make all the final decisions.
2) is not allowed to masturbate or orgasm without permission.
3) is expected to do everything in his power to make my life easier; shopping, cooking, chores, driving etc. |
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2) is not allowed to masturbate or orgasm without permission.
3) is expected to do everything in his power to make my life easier; shopping, cooking, chores, driving etc.
My wife is on here   "
Hi honey! |
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We switch but have never had an additional domme for FFM with two dommes on one sub man, or FFMM with another femdom couple. Think these would be really fun. Would need to be a woman or couple who:
1) are reasonably laid back. Don't take things too seriously.
2) are pleasant and nice outside of play.
3) would like similar things to us - oral, humiliation, facesitting, pegging, filming... |
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