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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of course I Jez will never touch a woman without being invited to out of respect but I would like to know do woman prefer to be asked first or do they prefer to make the first move. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1000% depends on the situation. Meeting up, having discussed prior that sex is maybe in the cards, and you’ve read the social cues? Sure.
Randomly, in a club, no prior conversation and you just assuming you can? Absolutely not.
It is lovely when men ask though. Even while on a social, asking ‘can I kiss you?’ Is sweet to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1000% depends on the situation. Meeting up, having discussed prior that sex is maybe in the cards, and you’ve read the social cues? Sure.
Randomly, in a club, no prior conversation and you just assuming you can? Absolutely not.
It is lovely when men ask though. Even while on a social, asking ‘can I kiss you?’ Is sweet to me "
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I prefer men to ask or wait to be invited. If they touch without doing either I will ask them not to...once. if they do it again I'm out of there.
I wouldn't touch a man without first asking if it was ok.
Obviously once proceedings get underway so to speak its a different matter but don't ever assume that because we met once and it was ok to touch me that the same applies next time. |
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It always happens naturally , so there’s never been a need to ask .
I would hate to be sitting with a guy and have him ask me if he can kiss me . If he can’t tell it’s ok without having to ask , then I would think I must have been giving off the wrong signals .
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In a gangbang situation I don't expect the guys to ask permission but to accept that me moving away or (for those less able to read a situation) just saying no means no thanks.
Classic example is feeling a finger or cock on my arsehole... If I ain't in the mood I gently reposition, never had to say "no".
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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In a gang bang situation there is no reason to ask just don't try to continue doing something I'm not comfortable with. But in those situations guys are respectfull of the word no, or a slight movement of my body. In other situations it's either discussed through messages and boundaries set, or hubbs will invite guys/couples into the room. Xxxx  |
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