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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people like drama? If I came across an ex I'd block and forget. So many others to choose from...but that's just me.
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Same here... once id read thier verifications n checked out who theyd met, lol |
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"Why do people like drama? If I came across an ex I'd block and forget. So many others to choose from...but that's just me.
Same here... once id read thier verifications n checked out who theyd met, lol"
hahahahaha like ya thinking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun? "
to be honest i wouldnt hold my breath over a meet, i cant see many guys meeting up with their mrs ex and then sitting there while you reminisce over years by gone and the times you had together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe I'm being cynical but what's your motivation - because you are having no luck and think she might be receptive? Or because you are married, playing away and thinking "what if" now that you know that the ex that you are still friends with swings?
Pandora's box, step well away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooooh no! Stay well away from that one! I've recently made friends with my ex from 20 years ago (!!!) I can see us being really good friends but no way would I consider having sex with him and I don't think he would me either |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I wouldnt go need my ex with a barge pile even if he realised he was bi. He is my ex for a reason. Didnt work then and wouldnt work again as I moved on.
The thought of sex and him in the same paragraph isnt a good thought.
I suggest you try moving forward with life and not backwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun? "
I think your motivation is clear..."..try to join in her fun..".
Do you honestly think her fun is likely to include you- especially when her husband is part of the deal?
Really? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She is listed as bicurious now so maybe I should find another women to meet then meet them as a couple"
haha... there must be a quicker way to put this guy out his misery?
but fuck it.... this is funnier... Do it..contact them, see what happens! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She is listed as bicurious now so maybe I should find another women to meet then meet them as a couple"
Why not ask your wife if she fancies popping along with you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun?
to be honest i wouldnt hold my breath over a meet, i cant see many guys meeting up with their mrs ex and then sitting there while you reminisce over years by gone and the times you had together"
Totaly agree. We wouldn't meet each others ex's, no way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if her user name has a particular word you can slip in the conversation just slip it in a facebook message to her a few times n see what she sez back hahaha |
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"I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun? "
surely you can not think it would be a good idea?
would imagine the first thing they might do if you contacted them would be to leave the site |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I really cannot see why people would want to be naughty with an ex.
The reason they are an ex is that something didnt work with either party. So what would going back change. Your still the same person and arent they still the same person??? so why would it work this time? Does make me wonder sometime why people would want to go backwards |
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"I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun? "
Depends how it ended |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun?
Depends how it ended"
if in childbirth and not a penny exchanged since... not a good idea.
if with a visit to the STD clinic... not a good idea.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun?
Depends how it ended
if in childbirth and not a penny exchanged since... not a good idea.
if with a visit to the STD clinic... not a good idea.
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You have a twisted mind my friend...but I like it! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun?
Depends how it ended
if in childbirth and not a penny exchanged since... not a good idea.
if with a visit to the STD clinic... not a good idea.
You have a twisted mind my friend...but I like it! "
bless ya for your kind words xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just spotted my ex gf of about 15 years ago on here with her now husband. They are looking for people to play with. Should I make my self known to her and try and join in her fun? "
An Ex! Why! What's your motive?
In her eyes she's moved onward and upwards, you already had your chance, why are you clinging pal? If you're not careful you might be seen as a stalker by her or new hubby. (I'm not saying you are). She may be so embarrassed when you get in touch that it ruins your current 'friendship' and ends their swinging life prematurely.
Ask yourself some honest questions and move on mate, plenty of fish and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I donty understand why almost EVERYONE jumps to the conclusion that having an ex meant that theres some kind of horrible reason for a split....ALL jumping to conclusions...and does anyone think itd be a good idea to contact an ex when it was soooooo bad during the relationship?- i dont think the OP would unless painfully stupid lol
Im meeting my ex next week socially, i met an ex from 2003 socially at xmas, I brought an ex onto fab recently
mainly all i think is u people who say its wrong,foolish etc...must have had some bad relationships...to already jump to the conclusion everyone else has had the same. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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A man that I dated for a few nonths and stopped seeing each other purely because I have a family and he is not a family man and his life is football so that is his prority. We stopped seeing each other by me deciding it had no future. I still meet him socially over the past few years but would never consider sucking his cock again even tho it was delicious and we had a great sexual time.
I wouldnt meet him sexually again even tho we didnt split in bad circumstances.
This is because I moved on and so has he.
No bad splits there but he is still my ex boyfriend
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I donty understand why almost EVERYONE jumps to the conclusion that having an ex meant that theres some kind of horrible reason for a split....ALL jumping to conclusions...and does anyone think itd be a good idea to contact an ex when it was soooooo bad during the relationship?- i dont think the OP would unless painfully stupid lol
Im meeting my ex next week socially, i met an ex from 2003 socially at xmas, I brought an ex onto fab recently
mainly all i think is u people who say its wrong,foolish etc...must have had some bad relationships...to already jump to the conclusion everyone else has had the same."
I think it's one thing contacting a single ex...personally I wouldn't go there...but the OP wants to join this couples fun.
We have no way of knowing how long it took this couple to venture into swinging, insecurity issues etc. I don't think I'd want to swing with my ex and husband...but that's just me. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"an ex is a ex for a reason x
Obvioussslllly lol
but thats not to say cant be pals or use eachother for sex- IF ur both over 'it'"
but he is married to someone else Paddy, it is one thing to play away with people on a swingers site, another to play closer to home and with people you have on Facebook... that is why I said it's a No from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I donty understand why almost EVERYONE jumps to the conclusion that having an ex meant that theres some kind of horrible reason for a split....ALL jumping to conclusions...and does anyone think itd be a good idea to contact an ex when it was soooooo bad during the relationship?- i dont think the OP would unless painfully stupid lol
Im meeting my ex next week socially, i met an ex from 2003 socially at xmas, I brought an ex onto fab recently
mainly all i think is u people who say its wrong,foolish etc...must have had some bad relationships...to already jump to the conclusion everyone else has had the same.
I think it's one thing contacting a single ex...personally I wouldn't go there...but the OP wants to join this couples fun.
We have no way of knowing how long it took this couple to venture into swinging, insecurity issues etc. I don't think I'd want to swing with my ex and husband...but that's just me. "
I wasnt exactly thinking the OP should...but really just pointing out not everyones ex has been some sort of bad split- for me theres been factors like me thinking id like kids in the future with that partner and them saying they didnt... thats not exactly a reason thats negative is it???
but a vast majority seem to be jumping to conclusions without digging...get nosey,get facts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"an ex is a ex for a reason x
Obvioussslllly lol
but thats not to say cant be pals or use eachother for sex- IF ur both over 'it'
but he is married to someone else Paddy, it is one thing to play away with people on a swingers site, another to play closer to home and with people you have on Facebook... that is why I said it's a No from me."
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scanning for where it says OPs married...she is, Ive read lol |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"an ex is a ex for a reason x
Obvioussslllly lol
but thats not to say cant be pals or use eachother for sex- IF ur both over 'it'
but he is married to someone else Paddy, it is one thing to play away with people on a swingers site, another to play closer to home and with people you have on Facebook... that is why I said it's a No from me.-
scanning for where it says OPs married...she is, Ive read lol"
on his profile, he is honest about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"an ex is a ex for a reason x
Obvioussslllly lol
but thats not to say cant be pals or use eachother for sex- IF ur both over 'it'
but he is married to someone else Paddy, it is one thing to play away with people on a swingers site, another to play closer to home and with people you have on Facebook... that is why I said it's a No from me.-
scanning for where it says OPs married...she is, Ive read lol
on his profile, he is honest about it."
ok read now lol-
still my in general point, about ex's being off limits is my key to my opinion.maybe its because I still have a good load of ex's as pals...from over the years...and could slightly dabble sometimes that I dont agree with the majoritys opinions on the playing with ex's.
maybe its cos they arent over 'it' or 'them'............. hehehe |
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found mi
y ex girfriend on here last year, she always talked about 3sums, but bottled it all the time, by her photos though getting well and truly stuck in, did make me laugh when i saw her, but would not go there! past is the past and all that even if she was an amazing shag, very hard and physical |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for all your opinions it's very interesting what you all think. I think I may leave her to it unless she contacts me although I am very tempted as she was such a good fuck |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Further developments on this.I'm now talking to her on bbm. "
'we did warn you....'
print that off and pop in your inside jacket pocket.... you may need to refer to it.
good luck |
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