FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Looking for a guy for mmf with Mrs
Looking for a guy for mmf with Mrs
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I've been chatting to the Mrs saying I want to see her with another guy. She's sometimes keen but other times not. She says she would have to have a few drinks before the first time. I'm looking for a guy who would be up for this, but on standby for when the Mrs gets abit tipsy. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Set up a couple profile
Put on your looking for males for mmf
Put in your Mrs preferences
Chat to quite a few and keep regular chat with the ones yous like
When you fancy a meet see out of them who's free x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I would have thought that a local social would be a good start 
It will give her a chance to see if she enjoys the company of others who are looking for the same thing |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
She's invisible and more than a body to be used at present. Personality and her interests are important, so perhaps wait until she's ready to write her part of the profile and contribute pics and more. There are all kinds of risks in rushing a guy round when she is d*unk and there's not been prior involvement between all parties. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Go to clubs & socialise xx
Thank you, not sure that would be here scene straight away"
Beauty of clubs is no pressure, when ready go to one thats nightclub thats not dress down & socialise ie Xtasia or Atlantis xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Set up a couple profile
Put on your looking for males for mmf
Put in your Mrs preferences
Chat to quite a few and keep regular chat with the ones yous like
When you fancy a meet see out of them who's free x"
Your reply is spot on 
Quite frankly I think the originator is another one of the timewasters and is not a couple at all. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Give your wife time and space enough to want to do this and have the confidence to set up a profile with you. No decent guy will agree to meet otherwise and if you have any regard for your wife you wouldn't want a man who would agree "to be on stand by" near her. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I hope nobody would agree to be on stand by for when she's had a few op,that sounds well dodgy to me.
If you are serious,set up a couple profile as others suggested and let her be part of it ,chat and get to know others and she may feel comfortable.
Miss |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I can only add to what others have said here, as a guy I would need to be sure that your wife is fully aware and interested in this, so your best bet is to set up a couples profile.
I certainly wouldn’t consider arranging anything with just the Male half, especially if it’s to just be “on standby” |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Set up a couple profile
Put on your looking for males for mmf
Put in your Mrs preferences
Chat to quite a few and keep regular chat with the ones yous like
When you fancy a meet see out of them who's free x
Your reply is spot on
Quite frankly I think the originator is another one of the timewasters and is not a couple at all."
I don't care x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I think people r missing the concept of this. If you don't believe were a couple, please don't post. I'm not on here to argue. The mrs is keen she just gets nervous and would like to have a few drinks prior. We're looking for a guy to chat with so we have someone decent instead of picking a random for a last minute meet and ruin the fun. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think people r missing the concept of this. If you don't believe were a couple, please don't post. I'm not on here to argue. The mrs is keen she just gets nervous and would like to have a few drinks prior. We're looking for a guy to chat with so we have someone decent instead of picking a random for a last minute meet and ruin the fun."
Obviously the best thing you can do in this situation is to create a couples profile, otherwise people will be extremely sceptical that you are in fact a couple.
As long as your wife is happy to interact then this shouldn’t be an issue |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think people r missing the concept of this. If you don't believe were a couple, please don't post. I'm not on here to argue. The mrs is keen she just gets nervous and would like to have a few drinks prior. We're looking for a guy to chat with so we have someone decent instead of picking a random for a last minute meet and ruin the fun."
I've had quite a few meets and I still like a few drinks before a meet. Doesnt mean I'm going to be rat arsed.
Incidentally Do you actually care what random think on a sex site forum? pmsl x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I think people r missing the concept of this. If you don't believe were a couple, please don't post. I'm not on here to argue. The mrs is keen she just gets nervous and would like to have a few drinks prior. We're looking for a guy to chat with so we have someone decent instead of picking a random for a last minute meet and ruin the fun.
I've had quite a few meets and I still like a few drinks before a meet. Doesnt mean I'm going to be rat arsed.
Incidentally Do you actually care what random think on a sex site forum? pmsl x"
Thank you, and no but some people like to judge too quick does my head in. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think people r missing the concept of this. If you don't believe were a couple, please don't post. I'm not on here to argue. The mrs is keen she just gets nervous and would like to have a few drinks prior. We're looking for a guy to chat with so we have someone decent instead of picking a random for a last minute meet and ruin the fun.
I've had quite a few meets and I still like a few drinks before a meet. Doesnt mean I'm going to be rat arsed.
Incidentally Do you actually care what random think on a sex site forum? pmsl x
Thank you, and no but some people like to judge too quick does my head in. "
God help you if that annoys you hahaha
Good luck and there's loads of decent guys on here. Hope you find a nice one for your Mrs x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I've been chatting to the Mrs saying I want to see her with another guy. She's sometimes keen but other times not. She says she would have to have a few drinks before the first time. I'm looking for a guy who would be up for this, but on standby for when the Mrs gets abit tipsy."
Before you invite any guys you need to make sure Mrs is 200% wanting this, mainly her wanting it. Your words appear that you mainly want it. It’s Mrs’s body and down to her. Also a tipsy woman may not appeal to some guys. Not having a go but I’ve interpreted it this way. Also it’s not fair to have guys on stand by. Guys have feelings too and they will arrive expecting a woman to fully consent and be happy with what she is doing with him  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I think people r missing the concept of this. If you don't believe were a couple, please don't post. I'm not on here to argue. The mrs is keen she just gets nervous and would like to have a few drinks prior. We're looking for a guy to chat with so we have someone decent instead of picking a random for a last minute meet and ruin the fun."
If we've missed the concept it's because this post is quite different to the first.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
