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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Assuming you mean you're not getting any interest, you could start by putting up a collection of pics on public view, and add a profile pic. You won't get far without them |
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Still no public or profile pictures, you’ll struggle without them.
You’ve only been here two weeks. It takes time.
Are you sending messages, or waiting for someone to message you? Because that could be a long wait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was late when I done profile and was half asleep changed it now "
You won't get far with no pics..
Doesnt have to be a face pic, just stick anything up..
No one will respond to messages let alone request pics if you have a silhouette for an avatar |
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Right, so maybe you did, maybe you didn’t.
One thing I would say is, no offence, but if you put the same effort into your messages as you do your forum posts, you won’t get far. It’s like pulling teeth. |
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It may just be that you think you have joined Instashag like many others that join thinking that as it's a Swingers site you will be guaranteed some action.
If you know how it works then success will come or if not you may go UNLOS like many before you. |
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"It was late when I done profile and was half asleep changed it now
You won't get far with no pics..
Doesnt have to be a face pic, just stick anything up..
No one will respond to messages let alone request pics if you have a silhouette for an avatar "
really? Why is that? What if you always send a face pic with messages you send, but continue to not have a public pic of any sort on your profile? |
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"Cause I don't want friends knowing I'm on here "
He was responding to someone else. Not you. Although, as has been pointed out, if you’re worried about being recognised, your profile picture doesn’t have to be a face pic.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Ah ok all my pics on here are of my favs though xx"
And that's fine, but what if your friends have a profile on here and thus recognize you? They don't have to be active, but could have set up a profile with no pics. |
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By *aenMan
over a year ago
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"Didn't think of that' I'll put some body shots up now xx
Remember, you don’t /have/ to be holding a beer..."
Yeah, mix it up and try holding a cider. 
Seriously though, just checking you are aware you have to be a member of Chams to get in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you checked with Chams that you can get in as a single male or are you going with someone. Im only mentioning it as it would be awful to turn up and not get in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't think of that' I'll put some body shots up now xx
Remember, you don’t /have/ to be holding a beer...
Yeah, mix it up and try holding a cider.
Seriously though, just checking you are aware you have to be a member of Chams to get in?"
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"How are they gonna know whose gonna be going in a few month time "
I’m going to go out on a limb, and guess that they keep a list of people who’ve phoned to serve a spot. ‘Guests’, if you will. Who knows what they’d call such a list, though...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How are they gonna know whose gonna be going in a few month time "
I frequently hear staff ask guys for an email with full body pic and info about them for their boss to see. They usually advise guys to send this as much in advance of visit as possible. They tell them they will not automatically be given membership anyway so best to sort it out asap.
Obviously its up to you what you do. However i have seen guys turned away on the day when they havnt sorted out membership in advance. Also i have seen guys refused membership. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It may just be that you think you have joined Instashag like many others that join thinking that as it's a Swingers site you will be guaranteed some action.
If you know how it works then success will come or if not you may go UNLOS like many before you."
This totally agree lots of males just assume they can join this site and say hi fancy a fuck and you will open your legs like they are a sex God here to command you and they don't understand the swinging lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It may just be that you think you have joined Instashag like many others that join thinking that as it's a Swingers site you will be guaranteed some action.
If you know how it works then success will come or if not you may go UNLOS like many before you.
This totally agree lots of males just assume they can join this site and say hi fancy a fuck and you will open your legs like they are a sex God here to command you and they don't understand the swinging lifestyle "
What is this "swinging lifestyle" in your opinion. |
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