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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My fiance and I just had a discussion about this. He enjoys being rimmed, but is hesitant for any penetration. I told him I'll help him experiment with whatever he'd like and he just needs to let me know. I told him that I'll bet more straight men than he thinks like anal play on them. Do you? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I'm not straight but there really is nothing wrong with enjoying anal play no matter what your sexuality - one of the biggest sexual organs a man possesses (the prostate) is up there and can be incredibly pleasurable if stimulated.
Just take it slowly, use lots of lube and enjoy - there are some great anal toys out there too that you can have lots of fun with.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not straight but there really is nothing wrong with enjoying anal play no matter what your sexuality - one of the biggest sexual organs a man possesses (the prostate) is up there and can be incredibly pleasurable if stimulated.
Just take it slowly, use lots of lube and enjoy - there are some great anal toys out there too that you can have lots of fun with. "
yea,,and in no time you,ll be bouncing up n down like a demented slut on the biggest cock you can find.  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I'm not straight but there really is nothing wrong with enjoying anal play no matter what your sexuality - one of the biggest sexual organs a man possesses (the prostate) is up there and can be incredibly pleasurable if stimulated.
Just take it slowly, use lots of lube and enjoy - there are some great anal toys out there too that you can have lots of fun with.
yea,,and in no time you,ll be bouncing up n down like a demented slut on the biggest cock you can find. "
You're not helping matters here are you?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not straight but there really is nothing wrong with enjoying anal play no matter what your sexuality - one of the biggest sexual organs a man possesses (the prostate) is up there and can be incredibly pleasurable if stimulated.
Just take it slowly, use lots of lube and enjoy - there are some great anal toys out there too that you can have lots of fun with.
yea,,and in no time you,ll be bouncing up n down like a demented slut on the biggest cock you can find.
You're not helping matters here are you?! "
Only speaking from experiance   ,,,,,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not straight but there really is nothing wrong with enjoying anal play no matter what your sexuality - one of the biggest sexual organs a man possesses (the prostate) is up there and can be incredibly pleasurable if stimulated.
Just take it slowly, use lots of lube and enjoy - there are some great anal toys out there too that you can have lots of fun with.
yea,,and in no time you,ll be bouncing up n down like a demented slut on the biggest cock you can find.
You're not helping matters here are you?!
Only speaking from experiance ,,,,,, "
Great posts ! Made me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not straight but there really is nothing wrong with enjoying anal play no matter what your sexuality - one of the biggest sexual organs a man possesses (the prostate) is up there and can be incredibly pleasurable if stimulated.
Just take it slowly, use lots of lube and enjoy - there are some great anal toys out there too that you can have lots of fun with.
yea,,and in no time you,ll be bouncing up n down like a demented slut on the biggest cock you can find.
You're not helping matters here are you?!
Only speaking from experiance ,,,,,,
Great posts ! Made me laugh "
 eh?,,,im deadly serious young lady 
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"I'm not straight but there really is nothing wrong with enjoying anal play no matter what your sexuality - one of the biggest sexual organs a man possesses (the prostate) is up there and can be incredibly pleasurable if stimulated.
Just take it slowly, use lots of lube and enjoy - there are some great anal toys out there too that you can have lots of fun with.
yea,,and in no time you,ll be bouncing up n down like a demented slut on the biggest cock you can find. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That was kind of my point to him. It makes him no less straight and I couldn't care less and possibly prefer it if he weren't. I don't understand the hesitation and he can't really explain it to me which leads me to believe that his hesitation doesn't make sense, even to him. I'd happily explore with him. I'd happily allow him to explore with a man. I just don't understand not attempting something you allude to fairly often and you'd likely enjoy. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"That was kind of my point to him. It makes him no less straight and I couldn't care less and possibly prefer it if he weren't. I don't understand the hesitation and he can't really explain it to me which leads me to believe that his hesitation doesn't make sense, even to him. I'd happily explore with him. I'd happily allow him to explore with a man. I just don't understand not attempting something you allude to fairly often and you'd likely enjoy."
It's probably just a mental block that he can't get past - too many men associate anal play with bisexuality/gay activities - or perhaps the thought that it will be dirty (as in unclean) bothers him if so (and forgive the bluntness here) suggest ensuring he's emptied his bowels well and truly and perhaps douched beforehand which will ensure he's not.
Maybe suggest just inserting a finger while playing with him otherwise and build from there.
Ultimately though like any other sexual activity if he doesn't want to it's perhaps best left to the realms of fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well this straight man loves to be rimmed and I enjoy rimming too.
I'm reluctant to have anything apart from a tongue go inside me though... scared I'd like it too much and end up having dildos stuck on the bathroom wall and constantly fingering my bum... lol
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"That was kind of my point to him. It makes him no less straight and I couldn't care less and possibly prefer it if he weren't. I don't understand the hesitation and he can't really explain it to me which leads me to believe that his hesitation doesn't make sense, even to him. I'd happily explore with him. I'd happily allow him to explore with a man. I just don't understand not attempting something you allude to fairly often and you'd likely enjoy."
Sounds quite closed minded but I sense you will help him overcome this..
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely! Being straight should not be an obstacle to some ass play. It is a very enjoyable experience and a great occasion to allow the female in your couple to take control...it is an empowering and bonding experience. |
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Gay mens' bums are no more sensitive than straight! I'm straigh but absolutely love butt-fun.
A nice rimming to get things relaxed, then a gentle, lubed-up finger, and then beads or a small vibe or plug... Love it! |
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Taking wife to a strapon party thinking it would be all fem on fem,how wrong was i.by Monday she had bought a strapon and Monday night wanted to use it now it is a regular part of our play we both enjoy but as soon as a bi couple contacted us she wanted to see the real thing mm playing |
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It’s not what you want done, it’s who you want doing it.
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And even IF anal play meant you were even slightly bi or gay (it really, really doesn’t, but let’s be hypothetical) what would it matter if he did like it? Attaching a label doesn’t change who you are or what you like. |
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"Any "Straight" Men that like their Arse penetrated are in our opinion in that Egyptian River, Denial!
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What a daft thing to say! Erogenous zones are completely independent to cerebral sexual desires. |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"Any "Straight" Men that like their Arse penetrated are in our opinion in that Egyptian River, Denial!
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Really ?
Me fucking a man with a strap on is in no way gay at all, nor will it make him bi/gay unless he has an attraction to men |
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