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Cannot accommodate, cannot travel.
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"Well that’s going to make arranging a meeting a bit of a challenge.
Really what’s the point of being on here."
I manage to meet ok. Maybe you'd be best off asking the individual person than assuming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chat and use forums .Had bad meets been put off or met someone not playing with others .All people on here for different things .People with kids will not invite people around too homes .  |
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"Well that’s going to make arranging a meeting a bit of a challenge.
Really what’s the point of being on here.
I manage to meet ok. Maybe you'd be best off asking the individual person than assuming "
How do you meet if you don't travel or accomadate hun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This comes up all the time.
They are just on here for chat/the forums.
They only play at clubs.
They will only meet people who can accommodate locally or meet in a local hotel. |
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Could be 1001 reasons why people put this, but one may be that it acts as a filter. One where the person wants to be contacted by people prepared to put the effort into trying to make it work. Rather than just a convenient ", any accommodating appendage will do" meet.
For many, the social side is the glue that holds the attraction of this place together, so in making the effort to put the person/couple ahead of any sex says more about the person they are approached by, than advertising they are available to host.
Horses for courses and all that, for some people though, the effort of the chase IS worth it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that’s going to make arranging a meeting a bit of a challenge.
Really what’s the point of being on here."
I don't host, I don't want to.
I don't travel as I don't drive and I,m not getting bus or train. So travel I take as being in a different area to resident.
I am looking for men in my own town who can host
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It confuses the easily confused "
 exactly.
I don't accomodate and I don't have a car so I'm not going anywhere that isn't local.
It's not that difficult to understand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It confuses the easily confused
exactly.
I don't accomodate and I don't have a car so I'm not going anywhere that isn't local.
It's not that difficult to understand "
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There are lots of reasons why you might see "cannot accommodate, cannot travel"
1. Used as a filter when not meeting.
2. The user considers "travel" to mean a long distance/time but will happily meet in a local hotel or your home if local
3. User does not accommodate at their own home but is happy to use a hotel and does not consider this "able to accommodate"
4. User is here to chat and use the forums.
All of the above are perfectly valid, in my view. Sometimes people explain in their profile what they mean too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have these selected, I do drive I’m happy to drive within about a 20 mins radius but would definitely not travel to Liverpool, Preston, Warrington, Leeds etc. People always argue with me that these are close enough but I’m not willing to do a 2 hour round trip and possibly be let down, therefore I don’t travel.
I believe people that have this are only willing to go to places near them, maybe that they can get to by bus, taxi, walking or driving a short distance. This is not travelling.... if someone asks you do you like to travel they mean do you go to different countries, travel Britain, they do not include getting on a bus to the other side of town  |
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if cannot accommodate or travel ermm think that must mean you have to pay for a hotel in the area perhaps. People might have kids etc. I find it worse when they say not looking for guys. Yet all there veries are from blokes lol how is that possible. Must look for blokes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if cannot accommodate or travel ermm think that must mean you have to pay for a hotel in the area perhaps. People might have kids etc. I find it worse when they say not looking for guys. Yet all there veries are from blokes lol how is that possible. Must look for blokes "
Maybe they met men in their he past and are now looking for something different or they prefer to do the looking and not be bombarded by messages. |
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Local club visit...
I see travel as traveling a large distance 
