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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging 
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"Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging
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Have they said she isn't allowed or is that how they wish to do things. Loads of profiles on here just want a man to fuck the woman or a woman to play with the wife.
Not sure if it means there's issues or that they shouldn't be swinging.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I guess it depends if the couple are happy with it or not. Perhaps they have like a reverse "Hotwife" set up? Hothusband"???"
No. We play seperate but he prefers not to. But we do swap when meeting couples. Nothing 1 sided about us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging
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Have they said she isn't allowed or is that how they wish to do things. Loads of profiles on here just want a man to fuck the woman or a woman to play with the wife.
Not sure if it means there's issues or that they shouldn't be swinging.
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Some seem to give excuses but after exchanging messages you get an idea that it's 1 sided. And 1 or 2 have said she's not allowed  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Could be their dynamic - could be as you suggest - could even be a single guy posing as a couple in order to lure ladies in the hope they'll turn up for a meet and the guy can blag it that his wife is "ill" but may as well go ahead with the meet anyway.
In fact it could be any number of things, you just have to go with your gut instinct in each case  |
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
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It's a missleading profile for a start.
A couple where only the bloke plays? That's known as a single guy with a partner
Life is complicated enough and fab should change those profiles whereby they state they are couple when they aren't. As they will appear in search results and they wouldn't be suitable for most searching for a couple |
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"Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging
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Have they said she isn't allowed or is that how they wish to do things. Loads of profiles on here just want a man to fuck the woman or a woman to play with the wife.
Not sure if it means there's issues or that they shouldn't be swinging.
Some seem to give excuses but after exchanging messages you get an idea that it's 1 sided. And 1 or 2 have said she's not allowed "
We avoid situations that are liable to cause drama.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a missleading profile for a start.
A couple where only the bloke plays? That's known as a single guy with a partner
Life is complicated enough and fab should change those profiles whereby they state they are couple when they aren't. As they will appear in search results and they wouldn't be suitable for most searching for a couple "
This isn't strictly true. We are a couple where only he plays.
It's our preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a missleading profile for a start.
A couple where only the bloke plays? That's known as a single guy with a partner
Life is complicated enough and fab should change those profiles whereby they state they are couple when they aren't. As they will appear in search results and they wouldn't be suitable for most searching for a couple "
So how about a couple where only the women plays? I was forced by FS to change my profile to a couples despite the fact hubby never joins it but only watches, and that's only on the rare occasions that we accom. I go out on my own mostly for meets yet I still have to have a couples profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a missleading profile for a start.
A couple where only the bloke plays? That's known as a single guy with a partner
Life is complicated enough and fab should change those profiles whereby they state they are couple when they aren't. As they will appear in search results and they wouldn't be suitable for most searching for a couple
So how about a couple where only the women plays? I was forced by FS to change my profile to a couples despite the fact hubby never joins it but only watches, and that's only on the rare occasions that we accom. I go out on my own mostly for meets yet I still have to have a couples profile. "
Maybe cos it mentioned hubby? I had single fem and Mr was involved . It got changed cos of the wording. But neither of us are 'not allowed' to do stuff if that makes sense. If meeting couples All join in no harm done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging
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If one person 'isn't allowed' to fuck other people then that's not swinging. I see it as one person wanting to cheat but calling it swinging to force the other to go along with it.
If one person doesn't fuck other people because they don't want to and both are happy with that, then I think that is swinging.
Seems that people often assume couples into MFF are the husbands 'forcing the wife' into it, but couples into MMF they don't think it's an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally we wouldn't meet a couple where they stat only one of them plays as we find it much more fun if everyone is involved however if that's what some people like then that's there choice"
This ^ x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play but my husband doesn’t 
He has absolutely no interest, and he was the one who asked me if I’d be interested in fucking other men, as the thought turns him on. Nothing wrong with our relationship  |
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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago
westmeath & roscommon. |
We have set rules(for now) that mrs average is aloud to fuck who she wants with mr average being there. Starting off with mmf then will progress into more once we the times right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just think it's normal, I see loads of couples profiles where just the female gets involved, this is just the reverse. Don't think it's anything sinister. |
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I guess we are one of those couples the OP is not happy with.
We got into the scene over four years ago because Mrs Brum wanted to experience sex with another woman, and wanted me involved. One day one she made it clear she didn’t want to have sex with another man. Being new to the scene we looking for a single bi female, four years on we are still looking lol. After discovering the hard way single females are very hard to find we relaxed our bounderies and looked for couples with a bi female. Yes she will have contact with makes (oral etc) but not full sex. This is her choice and I respect that, yet she is happy for me to have full sex with a female and yes she has said it would turn her on. I have never had sex with another woman when meeting a couple out of respect for the other Male.
I guess because our bounderies don’t suit many here we are looked down upon, and after reading several comments posted shouldn’t even be on sites like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had 2 couples profiles on here before. On one profile I chose not to play with men, that was my choice but found that we got accused loads of him not letting me play with men.
I'm here as a single now... but guess what I don't want to play with men... I'm here to play with woman
A lot of couples the woman get what they need sexually from their man but miss the female play time that's why I joined |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging
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If one person 'isn't allowed' to fuck other people then that's not swinging. I see it as one person wanting to cheat but calling it swinging to force the other to go along with it.
If one person doesn't fuck other people because they don't want to and both are happy with that, then I think that is swinging.
Seems that people often assume couples into MFF are the husbands 'forcing the wife' into it, but couples into MMF they don't think it's an issue. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not allowed... Sorry, but being denied anything is like a red rag
to a bull for me.... everyone plays in ways that suits them, but not allowed.... Sorry mate... Tra...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging
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I've noticed a lot that are in the man's favour only.It looks so one sided and why should he have a woman join them if she can't have a man.Double standards and one sided. |
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
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"It's a missleading profile for a start.
A couple where only the bloke plays? That's known as a single guy with a partner
Life is complicated enough and fab should change those profiles whereby they state they are couple when they aren't. As they will appear in search results and they wouldn't be suitable for most searching for a couple
This isn't strictly true. We are a couple where only he plays.
It's our preference."
So you're not a couple who plays, only he does so that's a man playing, that's singular
Single man profile and my wife knows or watches.. You'd probably get zero interest.
That's my point.. |
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We don’t say to much on our profile about what we do or don’t do, we have never needed to as we only play and meet in clubs.
We have been here a while but still find we are finding ourselves so to speak!
So as we stand at the moment we are happy to play with couples and group play, Mrs will soft swap, her choice whilst Mr will full swap, our reasons for this is purely that Mr is happy full swapping and Mrs loves to watch, Mrs hasn’t yet been in a situation where she has full swapped, no reason just hasn’t happened, she has however engaged in lots of very horny soft play, she has also engaged in lots of bi play, Mrs may never full swap, who knows, for us though it is and always has been and will continue to be all about FUN, having lots of horny experiences with like minded others, we don’t question ourselves and certainly wouldn’t question others and well as for anyone who does question our choices, well they wouldn’t be for us anyway, so nothing lost Mrs blue eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a missleading profile for a start.
A couple where only the bloke plays? That's known as a single guy with a partner
Life is complicated enough and fab should change those profiles whereby they state they are couple when they aren't. As they will appear in search results and they wouldn't be suitable for most searching for a couple
This isn't strictly true. We are a couple where only he plays.
It's our preference.
So you're not a couple who plays, only he does so that's a man playing, that's singular
Single man profile and my wife knows or watches.. You'd probably get zero interest.
That's my point.. "
I see your point. I was just pointing out that we are a genuine couple, we go to clubs and socials together, I just no longer want to play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging
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People have every right to play in any way their dynamic leads them to...equally, anyone who doesn't like the way others play or don't have the absolute right to choose not to meet or play with them, then their "issues" if they exist don't become anyones who doesn't want them... |
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"Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging
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with us it is the other way round. Mr diamond can do anything but penetrative sex (fucking) but I am free to do anything and everything. It works well for us xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have been in a position where the woman won't let her partner play, but she will do everything with us, even though he wants to, but we later found out that it was the way they both wanted it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Spoke to quite a few couples now where they only meet fems cos fem isn't allowed to play with another guy but he is ok to F* another woman..profile always states been in before..surely there's issues there? If that the case then they shouldn't really be swinging
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I've noticed a lot that are in the man's favour only.It looks so one sided and why should he have a woman join them if she can't have a man.Double standards and one sided."
^ This is what im on about lol seems to be a few getting mixed up with what I put. Meaning the ones who arnt allowed to swap but the other half is. It's just 1 sided and unfair. Majority of the times they go along with it just to keep the other 1 happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mrs here .. when we first joined I was like that .. we joined for me and at my request to explore bi play and 3some fun something Iv always fantasised about and to start with I was very unsure about being comfortable to play with another couple as didn’t want play with another man only girls , so always set limits he could not play with me if we met a couple , my dom had to respect my limits until I was ready for more so I do understand that some couples have different reasons for this .. over time and with lots of chatting Iv found myself where I still desire just ffm play between 3 as I find it more erotic but I have come around to the idea of ffmm and enjoyed very much playing the Man in a couple of we meet . It’s def not always a case of the woman doing just to please her man certainly not in our case anyway |
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I see something slightly similar with bi couples.
They state bi male on male only no play with female.
Maybe thats their set up and thats fine.
But If I wanted to play with a male only I wouldnt be looking for a couple!
If people dont play as a couple
Why would they have couple profiles.
It seems counter productive.
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