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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
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If it's all the same why do you feel the need to offer white chocolate for Easter? |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
If it's all the same why do you feel the need to offer white chocolate for Easter?"
pure reaction .... I cannot work out the difference
I'm just trying to understand |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
If it's all the same why do you feel the need to offer white chocolate for Easter?
pure reaction .... I cannot work out the difference
I'm just trying to understand "
There's nothing to understand other than some women like black cocks. Some like white. Some like both.
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Look! It's a fantasy, a myth that black guys have big cocks but guess what, the fantasy seekers amongst our fab community want to fulfill their fantasy, so big black cock is on the 'to do list' and it doesn't even have to be big, lol. Not everyone though, for some it really is a preference but for most I'm guessing a fab preference and for others not even an option. Whilst we're in fantasy land and a mainly secretive one at that reality is going to be perverted, in my (his) experience fab doesn't reflect the world so don't worry. |
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"doesn't worry me hun.. just trying to understand it.. I completely don't get it Lol"
Can you explain why certain physical traits turn you on, or why some men prefer blondes, some redheads, gym fit etc. It's not really any different.
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"Look! It's a fantasy, a myth that black guys have big cocks but guess what, the fantasy seekers amongst our fab community want to fulfill their fantasy, so big black cock is on the 'to do list' and it doesn't even have to be big, lol. Not everyone though, for some it really is a preference but for most I'm guessing a fab preference and for others not even an option. Whilst we're in fantasy land and a mainly secretive one at that reality is going to be perverted, in my (his) experience fab doesn't reflect the world so don't worry."
rightly said I wouldn't worry about it.
It is a myth not all black guys are big and some white guys are huge, everyone is different just like the world of fab is different to everyone on it, be it preference,to do list |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
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Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin. |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin."
what is a deep chocolate voice hahahaha... this is what I mean I don't get it |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin."
I met a black guy with a high pitched voice. You're just chasing the false image that black guys are given in porn. |
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"Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin."
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Before I answer, I have to say that I hate the term BBC (the same way I hate the term BBW used for large women) and it's kinda sad that black guys themselves fall in the trap of using it. In my experience, most black guys are average in that department. Yet, they still call themselves BBC.
Saying that, I'm only attracted to people with dark skin (not even mixed race sometimes) and black facial features. If I had to choose between a white guy with a huge cock and a black guy with an average cock, I'd be more inclined to chose the black guy (provided I fancied the rest of him too, as, for me, good sex is more than just the cock, i.e. the person that it's attached to!  ).
As many people have replied above, it literally is a preference same as liking guys or liking girls or liking blondes etc, as long as we're talking about those who are looking for more than just a sexual organ. |
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"Before I answer, I have to say that I hate the term BBC (the same way I hate the term BBW used for large women) and it's kinda sad that black guys themselves fall in the trap of using it. In my experience, most black guys are average in that department. Yet, they still call themselves BBC.
Saying that, I'm only attracted to people with dark skin (not even mixed race sometimes) and black facial features. If I had to choose between a white guy with a huge cock and a black guy with an average cock, I'd be more inclined to chose the black guy (provided I fancied the rest of him too, as, for me, good sex is more than just the cock, i.e. the person that it's attached to! ).
As many people have replied above, it literally is a preference same as liking guys or liking girls or liking blondes etc, as long as we're talking about those who are looking for more than just a sexual organ."
well at least you met the op..surely he should feel a bit special lol |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin.
I met a black guy with a high pitched voice. You're just chasing the false image that black guys are given in porn. "
I think it's pretty obvious she wasn't describing every black man on the planet, just what she likes. And porn is hardly known for it's dialogue so I guess chocolate voices isn't another porn myth. From the above description I got Idris Elba come into my head, how can anyone not get the attraction he has.
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however..in seriousness..on a very old profile I used my blackness or half) as some kind of lure...
I am me regardless of my colour..and i suppose, without sounding racist..I really dont have any black heritage I use, Im raised in glasgow..by my white family.its not that I disown my geneaolgy...I just dont really feel I'm anything other than scottish..It'll never change.
I've been to many 'black' events...I feel out of place for what some are looking for..but at other times..I meet some people who like me for who I am(regardless of cock size or colour)...to me thats all that counts. |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin.
I met a black guy with a high pitched voice. You're just chasing the false image that black guys are given in porn.
I think it's pretty obvious she wasn't describing every black man on the planet, just what she likes. And porn is hardly known for it's dialogue so I guess chocolate voices isn't another porn myth. From the above description I got Idris Elba come into my head, how can anyone not get the attraction he has.
Ginger "
I'm his lesser twin brother...they pulled him out first then thought I was the blackti-christ  |
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"however..in seriousness..on a very old profile I used my blackness or half) as some kind of lure...
I am me regardless of my colour..and i suppose, without sounding racist..I really dont have any black heritage I use, Im raised in glasgow..by my white family.its not that I disown my geneaolgy...I just dont really feel I'm anything other than scottish..It'll never change.
I've been to many 'black' events...I feel out of place for what some are looking for..but at other times..I meet some people who like me for who I am(regardless of cock size or colour)...to me thats all that counts."
I read somewhere a long time ago "stick with people who like you not because of who you are but despite of who you are"  That's my answer to the last paragraph of your post. Being colour blind and all that is great but, imo, as long as it's not got to do with being mean towards others, you/me/everybody cannot help who/what they're attracted to. I haven't looked at your profile but assuming you're straight, if another guy liked you for you etc, would you have sex with him? That's what I mean about "attraction". (If you're bi/gay, replace "another guy" with "goat". If you're into bestiality, I give up ) |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin.
I met a black guy with a high pitched voice. You're just chasing the false image that black guys are given in porn. "
No, I'm talking from experience, I can't watch interracial sex porn, as I get jealous, strange I know, I've been attracted to Black guys since my teenage years, whatever floats ya boat. |
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"however..in seriousness..on a very old profile I used my blackness or half) as some kind of lure...
I am me regardless of my colour..and i suppose, without sounding racist..I really dont have any black heritage I use, Im raised in glasgow..by my white family.its not that I disown my geneaolgy...I just dont really feel I'm anything other than scottish..It'll never change.
I've been to many 'black' events...I feel out of place for what some are looking for..but at other times..I meet some people who like me for who I am(regardless of cock size or colour)...to me thats all that counts.
I read somewhere a long time ago "stick with people who like you not because of who you are but despite of who you are" That's my answer to the last paragraph of your post. Being colour blind and all that is great but, imo, as long as it's not got to do with being mean towards others, you/me/everybody cannot help who/what they're attracted to. I haven't looked at your profile but assuming you're straight, if another guy liked you for you etc, would you have sex with him? That's what I mean about "attraction". (If you're bi/gay, replace "another guy" with "goat". If you're into bestiality, I give up )"
I'm just unhappy I cant wave my red flag over my cock to attract you!
*I might have misread you are colour blind in real life hehe
I dont mind guys being attracted to me lol...the minute a guy or tv has ever sucked my cock(in my past if a women wanted that, I'd oblige if it was turning her on lol)...
I know I'm not everyones cuppa...nor the fact my personality could be important to them, but as I say..I lost the label of being BBC a long time ago(not that I shrunk or anything lol)..I do tell people about my heritage in my profile..but it's not to label me as more interesting.weirdly and possibly hypocritically, I still like people knowing my descent..I make sure people know I'm scottish and then black-mixed..........amazingly some dont pick up on it in my pics lol |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin.
I met a black guy with a high pitched voice. You're just chasing the false image that black guys are given in porn.
No, I'm talking from experience, I can't watch interracial sex porn, as I get jealous, strange I know, I've been attracted to Black guys since my teenage years, whatever floats ya boat. "
damn I wanna perv ya now |
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"All this talk about black and white dick, I'm left wondering where the brown dick comes in.  "
I'm sure brown dick has it's place too, each to their own, the heart wants what the heart wants. Or maybe the pussy lol, who knows, don't stress over it. |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin.
I met a black guy with a high pitched voice. You're just chasing the false image that black guys are given in porn.
No, I'm talking from experience, I can't watch interracial sex porn, as I get jealous, strange I know, I've been attracted to Black guys since my teenage years, whatever floats ya boat.
damn I wanna perv ya now "
I've been perving you for years |
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"doesn't worry me hun.. just trying to understand it.. I completely don't get it Lol"
We don't understand why folks spend all their time in a gym trying to make themselves unappealing (to us) by bulking up muscle and physique. Do we start threads moaning about it? No. Do we accept that people live their lives how they want to? Yes. Live and let live...Vive la difference!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only BWC for me thank you
But why only BWC? why not Lil fat 1 s or normal ones "
We all are attracted 2 different types of looks that's why.Only white is right for me,Toned,tall,blue or green eyes, that's what I'm sexually attracted 2. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you need to get your head around it when it literally had no affect on you?"
Spot on ^^^^^
It's like they think there's something wrong with you if you don't like the same things as them.
Some people try 2 force there views on you as there narrow minded and can't see we all have different sexual tastes.Why do they cry and preach over it when it's not affecting them who you choose 2 share your body with.
As people we should treat other people equally regardless of colour, shape, size, or labels but choosing your sexual partner is your individual choice guided by who and what type your attracted 2.
It's not a big deal infact it's a good thing as if we all follow our tastes then there will be someone out there for everyone.
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin.
I met a black guy with a high pitched voice. You're just chasing the false image that black guys are given in porn. "
They don't all wear Timberland boots with white socks either |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin.
I met a black guy with a high pitched voice. You're just chasing the false image that black guys are given in porn.
They don't all wear Timberland boots with white socks either"
I know one who wears crocs  |
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"It's because their cocks look like delicious poles of gleaming chocolate.
What woman could resist that?"
Me as gleaming stunning white chocolate is my favourite and makes my mouth water. |
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For me Fab is a way to live out various fantasies that you otherwise might not get to experience.
There's plenty of black women on here and out in the real world that only go for white men, but that's not talked about as much |
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"For me Fab is a way to live out various fantasies that you otherwise might not get to experience.
There's plenty of black women on here and out in the real world that only go for white men, but that's not talked about as much "
I almost exclusively date/see non white women, and one of the reasons they give for choosing white guys is because we act more than just a dick. |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
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There isn't anything to stress your brains trying to understand other than the fact that as humans as we are "differences in traits" is the source of attraction for some. That said it is also the link for human curiousity. Some it is just the contrast of the skin, hair, shape, accent etc.
As for the myth/stigma around BBC particularly to cock sizes unless you are yet to be born then it is surprising for anybody in this age of the world to think all black people have donkey dicks (unless you are a believer of statistics where majority carries the vote..then)! Even the "black" lcomes in different shades. Blackness is a gene! It is a preference for some people and vice versa.
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin.
I met a black guy with a high pitched voice. You're just chasing the false image that black guys are given in porn. "
Believe it or not 9 out of 10 times I can tell if I am speaking to someone black over the phone. |
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By *rMisterMan
over a year ago
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"Look! It's a fantasy, a myth that black guys have big cocks but guess what, the fantasy seekers amongst our fab community want to fulfill their fantasy, so big black cock is on the 'to do list' and it doesn't even have to be big, lol. Not everyone though, for some it really is a preference but for most I'm guessing a fab preference and for others not even an option. Whilst we're in fantasy land and a mainly secretive one at that reality is going to be perverted, in my (his) experience fab doesn't reflect the world so don't worry."
Yes for some it's a fantasy, a tick box so to say.
But for the vast majority on this site and elsewhere, it's a preference. Remember when you fulfil a fantasy it ceases being one. I know plenty of women who prefer white only (no problem there, the OP can get his head around that); and plenty of women who prefer blacks only (he has difficulties in getting his head around that).
As human, we are programmed to always have preferences when facing choices. This can originate from genetic, social learning, values etc. Remember 'de gustibus et coloribus non disbutandum'(it's Latin, Google it)
Anyway mate if all that has been posted above you cannot still get your head around it, believe me you will never. Get over it. |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin.
what is a deep chocolate voice hahahaha... this is what I mean I don't get it "
The main thing is that women do. |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
Big beautiful lips, dark brown eyes, scruptured noses, dark brown silky skin, bums that stick out, muscle definition, even if they don't work out!!!!!! Deep chocolate voices, that V shape from their hips to the thighs, pink tongue, beautiful small ears, black curly hair, especially tight curly pubes that rub on your clitoris, seeing and watching the contrast of white and black skin."
Mmm. oh yes, you've just reminded me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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These posts never fail to make me laugh.
A bunch of adults acting this way wow.
You've got men bragging and using terms like BBC and that there a walking dick and Woman backing them up and wearing it like a badge of honour lol how idiotic.
I'm afraid to say if you need to brag and scream about something to convince others that it's a good thing then that says it all lol.
Regardless of colour or size it's the person it's attached too that should matter x
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"These posts never fail to make me laugh.
A bunch of adults acting this way wow.
You've got men bragging and using terms like BBC and that there a walking dick and Woman backing them up and wearing it like a badge of honour lol how idiotic.
I'm afraid to say if you need to brag and scream about something to convince others that it's a good thing then that says it all lol.
Regardless of colour or size it's the person it's attached too that should matter x
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..and yet in your profile you state you're not attracted to blacks or Asians, absolutely nothing wrong with that but clearly in your preference the colour of the person does matter, so you can't be critical of others having a positive view of people's colour either. |
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By *rMisterMan
over a year ago
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"Why can’t people just accept a preference? My wife enjoys sex with black men. Not exclusively, but it’s what she likes. Why should she have to explain herself?"
Apparently some people get confused when women prefer black guys but are OK when they don't prefer blacks or Asians. Now I am confused |
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"Why can’t people just accept a preference? My wife enjoys sex with black men. Not exclusively, but it’s what she likes. Why should she have to explain herself?
Apparently some people get confused when women prefer black guys but are OK when they don't prefer blacks or Asians. Now I am confused "
Why? I'm not overly attracted to any other girl than white. |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
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Fuck. your arms and cock are huge. I could worship them all day |
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"Why can’t people just accept a preference? My wife enjoys sex with black men. Not exclusively, but it’s what she likes. Why should she have to explain herself?
Apparently some people get confused when women prefer black guys but are OK when they don't prefer blacks or Asians. Now I am confused
Why? I'm not overly attracted to any other girl than white. "
You missed the sarcasm |
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"Never had a BBC
Bit of a heads up. Most are average size. "
There is a difference between an average sized black mans cock and a BBC, a black guy who is average size or smaller would not refer to them selfs as a BBC |
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"Never had a BBC
Bit of a heads up. Most are average size.
There is a difference between an average sized black mans cock and a BBC, a black guy who is average size or smaller would not refer to them selfs as a BBC "
You'd be surprised! I've encountered it many a time! |
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"Never had a BBC
Bit of a heads up. Most are average size.
There is a difference between an average sized black mans cock and a BBC, a black guy who is average size or smaller would not refer to them selfs as a BBC "
and yet many do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I don't get is why isn't it classed as racist when some believe that black men have huge c**ks! 
How could it be racist?"
In a similar vein black people were considered poor swimmers because of inherent short Achilles tendon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I don't get is why isn't it classed as racist when some believe that black men have huge c**ks!
How could it be racist?
In a similar vein black people were considered poor swimmers because of inherent short Achilles tendon!"
Well first of all the Achilles’ tendon thing isn’t true. And even if it was then it wouldn’t be offensive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Here's a related question-as someone said most black men have average sized cocks.
Going from my experiences from here and other online places I've met black men, all of them have been above or well above average sized in the penis department.
Q. Is this because only the ones with bigger dicks look for sex online? |
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"What I don't get is why isn't it classed as racist when some believe that black men have huge c**ks!
How could it be racist?
In a similar vein black people were considered poor swimmers because of inherent short Achilles tendon!
Well first of all the Achilles’ tendon thing isn’t true. And even if it was then it wouldn’t be offensive. "
That's my point, an assumption based on ignorance so I think both have racist overtones. |
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"Here's a related question-as someone said most black men have average sized cocks.
Going from my experiences from here and other online places I've met black men, all of them have been above or well above average sized in the penis department.
Q. Is this because only the ones with bigger dicks look for sex online? "
The basics of supply and demand. If there's a market for something, that something will make its way to the market. On the other hand, your experience might be because you selected only those with the asset you were looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here's a related question-as someone said most black men have average sized cocks.
Going from my experiences from here and other online places I've met black men, all of them have been above or well above average sized in the penis department.
Q. Is this because only the ones with bigger dicks look for sex online?
The basics of supply and demand. If there's a market for something, that something will make its way to the market. On the other hand, your experience might be because you selected only those with the asset you were looking for "
I don't select men on their cock size and some of them didn't show me it before we met. I've not seen a pic of a small black cock on here. Do they hide it? |
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"What I don't get is why isn't it classed as racist when some believe that black men have huge c**ks!
How could it be racist?
In a similar vein black people were considered poor swimmers because of inherent short Achilles tendon!
Well first of all the Achilles’ tendon thing isn’t true. And even if it was then it wouldn’t be offensive.
That's my point, an assumption based on ignorance so I think both have racist overtones. "
I don’t think the size thing is untrue. Sure not all black guys have big cocks... I’m mixed raced and I have equal amounts black and white friends. And I can deffo say on average my black mates have bigger cocks than my friends of other ethnicities.
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"Here's a related question-as someone said most black men have average sized cocks.
Going from my experiences from here and other online places I've met black men, all of them have been above or well above average sized in the penis department.
Q. Is this because only the ones with bigger dicks look for sex online? "
I have to say that our experience is similar. Like you I wonder if it is just that it tends to be the bigger black guys who go to clubs or contact us? Met quite a few big white guys too of course, but I can only remember one black guy who wasn’t above average. But it’s not just about size- and a pity it always seems to be assumed it is. |
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"What I don't get is why isn't it classed as racist when some believe that black men have huge c**ks!
How could it be racist?
In a similar vein black people were considered poor swimmers because of inherent short Achilles tendon!
Well first of all the Achilles’ tendon thing isn’t true. And even if it was then it wouldn’t be offensive.
That's my point, an assumption based on ignorance so I think both have racist overtones.
I don’t think the size thing is untrue. Sure not all black guys have big cocks... I’m mixed raced and I have equal amounts black and white friends. And I can deffo say on average my black mates have bigger cocks than my friends of other ethnicities.
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Black guys do tend to be more on the shower side. Not expecting you've seen all of your friends hard. |
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"Here's a related question-as someone said most black men have average sized cocks.
Going from my experiences from here and other online places I've met black men, all of them have been above or well above average sized in the penis department.
Q. Is this because only the ones with bigger dicks look for sex online?
The basics of supply and demand. If there's a market for something, that something will make its way to the market. On the other hand, your experience might be because you selected only those with the asset you were looking for
I don't select men on their cock size and some of them didn't show me it before we met. I've not seen a pic of a small black cock on here. Do they hide it? "
I don't know. But imagine for a moment you're a black guy with a small cock. You're on a site where you would be forgiven for thinking there's an expectation that all black guys have big cocks. What would you do? Advertise your small cock, make a feature of it? Or tuck it away from public view? |
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"What I don't get is why isn't it classed as racist when some believe that black men have huge c**ks!
How could it be racist?
In a similar vein black people were considered poor swimmers because of inherent short Achilles tendon!
Well first of all the Achilles’ tendon thing isn’t true. And even if it was then it wouldn’t be offensive.
That's my point, an assumption based on ignorance so I think both have racist overtones.
I don’t think the size thing is untrue. Sure not all black guys have big cocks... I’m mixed raced and I have equal amounts black and white friends. And I can deffo say on average my black mates have bigger cocks than my friends of other ethnicities.
Black guys do tend to be more on the shower side. Not expecting you've seen all of your friends hard. "
What are you basing these comments on? It sounds like you’re making it up on the spot because for some reason you feel offended? |
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"Here's a related question-as someone said most black men have average sized cocks.
Going from my experiences from here and other online places I've met black men, all of them have been above or well above average sized in the penis department.
Q. Is this because only the ones with bigger dicks look for sex online?
The basics of supply and demand. If there's a market for something, that something will make its way to the market. On the other hand, your experience might be because you selected only those with the asset you were looking for
I don't select men on their cock size and some of them didn't show me it before we met. I've not seen a pic of a small black cock on here. Do they hide it?
I don't know. But imagine for a moment you're a black guy with a small cock. You're on a site where you would be forgiven for thinking there's an expectation that all black guys have big cocks. What would you do? Advertise your small cock, make a feature of it? Or tuck it away from public view?"
They have to show it eventually though, and I've never been sent a photo of a small one, or had a smaller endowed man who kept it hidden before meeting. |
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By *rMisterMan
over a year ago
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A friend of mine also pointed out me that irrespective of cock size she's only attracted to skin colour. Her current partner is just average. We were in a club once where a white friend of mine who has a massive cock tried to approach her but it was a no no. Assuming that ladies are only attracted to black guys only because of cock size is not only showing cluelessness and disrespectful, it's completely missing the point. Anytime blacks seems to be successful in an area there seems to be an outrage. Sadly that's the world we live in.
From my own experience I have seen white men with big cocks and I have seen black men with small cocks. Several ladies also told me that the difference between them is the staying power. I personally yet have to see a white man who can go for 2 hours non stop. Even those who take viagra seems to go on for less and i have seen alot of black black men who can go all night without taking a pill. Of course there are exceptions but I still have to see one. |
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By *opaz12Woman
over a year ago
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OP you're sounding very much like a man who has been rejected by a women if favour of a black man.
If you truly don't understand personal preference then there is something decidedly worrying about you.
Everyone has a preferences, there is nothing more to it than that.
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Where I think an unintentional racism creeps in is in the implied assumption that “ black” is an ethnicity, which clearly it isn’t.
There’s nothing unlikely in the proposition that males in some ethnic groups have larger penises than in others. It would be strange if this were not the case, as other physical variations are obvious and statistically verified- eg the Dutch are, on average, taller than other Europeans etc.
So, it is likely that there are some ethnicities where average penis size is greater than others. And some of these are likely to be black, and some white.
I think a lot of the “ mythology” comes from the States, where of course the black population derives originally from the slave trade which is likely to have had a serious distortive effect on the normal operation of natural selection. Whether that would apply to penis size I have no idea- but it probably does have some effect on such things as physique. |
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"Never had a BBC
Bit of a heads up. Most are average size.
There is a difference between an average sized black mans cock and a BBC, a black guy who is average size or smaller would not refer to them selfs as a BBC
and yet many do"
Well I'm Mr average and I have never referred to myself as a BBC and that includes back when I was single and into cuckolding fun with couples. I'd rather give someone a pleasant surprise than disappoint  |
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"Where I think an unintentional racism creeps in is in the implied assumption that “ black” is an ethnicity, which clearly it isn’t.
There’s nothing unlikely in the proposition that males in some ethnic groups have larger penises than in others. It would be strange if this were not the case, as other physical variations are obvious and statistically verified- eg the Dutch are, on average, taller than other Europeans etc.
So, it is likely that there are some ethnicities where average penis size is greater than others. And some of these are likely to be black, and some white.
I think a lot of the “ mythology” comes from the States, where of course the black population derives originally from the slave trade which is likely to have had a serious distortive effect on the normal operation of natural selection. Whether that would apply to penis size I have no idea- but it probably does have some effect on such things as physique."
Black people don’t derive from he states |
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"Here's a related question-as someone said most black men have average sized cocks.
Going from my experiences from here and other online places I've met black men, all of them have been above or well above average sized in the penis department.
Q. Is this because only the ones with bigger dicks look for sex online?
The basics of supply and demand. If there's a market for something, that something will make its way to the market. On the other hand, your experience might be because you selected only those with the asset you were looking for
I don't select men on their cock size and some of them didn't show me it before we met. I've not seen a pic of a small black cock on here. Do they hide it?
I don't know. But imagine for a moment you're a black guy with a small cock. You're on a site where you would be forgiven for thinking there's an expectation that all black guys have big cocks. What would you do? Advertise your small cock, make a feature of it? Or tuck it away from public view?"
Well I'm not small but years back I made the decision to be open about having a standard sized cock to cut down on silly dialogue. It has never been stumbling black for me when meeting people. Yes I got my share of thanks but no thanks. Not a problem for me as I believe everyone is entitled to their fantasies but I have always had my fair share of fun and on some occasions there was even relief because a very large one would have been too much for some them. |
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"Where I think an unintentional racism creeps in is in the implied assumption that “ black” is an ethnicity, which clearly it isn’t.
There’s nothing unlikely in the proposition that males in some ethnic groups have larger penises than in others. It would be strange if this were not the case, as other physical variations are obvious and statistically verified- eg the Dutch are, on average, taller than other Europeans etc.
So, it is likely that there are some ethnicities where average penis size is greater than others. And some of these are likely to be black, and some white.
I think a lot of the “ mythology” comes from the States, where of course the black population derives originally from the slave trade which is likely to have had a serious distortive effect on the normal operation of natural selection. Whether that would apply to penis size I have no idea- but it probably does have some effect on such things as physique.
Black people don’t derive from he states "
And that’s not what I said. The black population in the States largely derives from the slave trade. This makes it untypical in various ways. |
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"Where I think an unintentional racism creeps in is in the implied assumption that “ black” is an ethnicity, which clearly it isn’t.
There’s nothing unlikely in the proposition that males in some ethnic groups have larger penises than in others. It would be strange if this were not the case, as other physical variations are obvious and statistically verified- eg the Dutch are, on average, taller than other Europeans etc.
So, it is likely that there are some ethnicities where average penis size is greater than others. And some of these are likely to be black, and some white.
I think a lot of the “ mythology” comes from the States, where of course the black population derives originally from the slave trade which is likely to have had a serious distortive effect on the normal operation of natural selection. Whether that would apply to penis size I have no idea- but it probably does have some effect on such things as physique.
Black people don’t derive from he states
And that’s not what I said. The black population in the States largely derives from the slave trade. This makes it untypical in various ways. "
I think he misread your post. I get your point though |
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"doesn't worry me hun.. just trying to understand it.. I completely don't get it Lol
We don't understand why folks spend all their time in a gym trying to make themselves unappealing (to us) by bulking up muscle and physique. Do we start threads moaning about it? No. Do we accept that people live their lives how they want to? Yes. Live and let live...Vive la difference!!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
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Why are you putting stigma on my cock and what women do with their goo?
Why don't you just find the women who do want to meet you?
It's ALWAYS guys obsessed with the color of someone else's cock. If it doesn't matter then stop bringing it up and leave women to fuck who they want.
I'll spell it out for you... Women fought for the right to fuck who THEY want without your whiney jealous and insecure tantrums, financial punishment and deprivation, and shaming tactics to make them conform just to protect your fragile ego. That weak shit doesn't work anymore. You can't use be cheap psychological tricks to make people have the preference you want them to have just so you can feel secure. It doesn't work that way. |
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"Here's a related question-as someone said most black men have average sized cocks.
Going from my experiences from here and other online places I've met black men, all of them have been above or well above average sized in the penis department.
Q. Is this because only the ones with bigger dicks look for sex online? "
On the flip side all the white guys I've met online have been above average |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP you're sounding very much like a man who has been rejected by a women if favour of a black man.
If you truly don't understand personal preference then there is something decidedly worrying about you.
Everyone has a preferences, there is nothing more to it than that.
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"Here's a related question-as someone said most black men have average sized cocks.
Going from my experiences from here and other online places I've met black men, all of them have been above or well above average sized in the penis department.
Q. Is this because only the ones with bigger dicks look for sex online?
On the flip side all the white guys I've met online have been above average "
Maybe we attract big cocks
If we're saying 5.5 inches is average, most of my white men have been average or just above, with a few being under, but nowhere near as big as the black men. |
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"A friend of mine also pointed out me that irrespective of cock size she's only attracted to skin colour. Her current partner is just average. We were in a club once where a white friend of mine who has a massive cock tried to approach her but it was a no no. Assuming that ladies are only attracted to black guys only because of cock size is not only showing cluelessness and disrespectful, it's completely missing the point. Anytime blacks seems to be successful in an area there seems to be an outrage. Sadly that's the world we live in.
From my own experience I have seen white men with big cocks and I have seen black men with small cocks. Several ladies also told me that the difference between them is the staying power. I personally yet have to see a white man who can go for 2 hours non stop. Even those who take viagra seems to go on for less and i have seen alot of black black men who can go all night without taking a pill. Of course there are exceptions but I still have to see one. "
I have a really high stamina. Between 2 and 3 hours depending on the lass and I'm not black. And to be honest, I haven't met many lasses that like it that long. |
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"What stigma?
He's talking about why some lasses like black dick and no other.
Preference? . I like mayo and some people don't "
If you close your eyes does it matter what colour it is? Still seems exactly the same, think that’s what the op is getting at |
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"What stigma?
He's talking about why some lasses like black dick and no other.
Preference? . I like mayo and some people don't
If you close your eyes does it matter what colour it is? Still seems exactly the same, think that’s what the op is getting at"
Why would anyone close their eyes? Other than pleasure, of course, but sight is one of the senses that can take us there. |
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"What stigma?
He's talking about why some lasses like black dick and no other.
Preference? . I like mayo and some people don't
If you close your eyes does it matter what colour it is? Still seems exactly the same, think that’s what the op is getting at
Why would anyone close their eyes? Other than pleasure, of course, but sight is one of the senses that can take us there."
Exactly. Nobody goes on a meet and close their eyes so that won't work and has little to no relevance in my opinion. It matters bcz that what the person likes,wants and is attracted by. Some like gym fit,some like dad bods,some like fat cocks,some like thin cocks. Don't think we need another thread about preferences |
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"What stigma?
He's talking about why some lasses like black dick and no other.
Preference? . I like mayo and some people don't
If you close your eyes does it matter what colour it is? Still seems exactly the same, think that’s what the op is getting at
Why would anyone close their eyes? Other than pleasure, of course, but sight is one of the senses that can take us there.
Exactly. Nobody goes on a meet and close their eyes so that won't work and has little to no relevance in my opinion. It matters bcz that what the person likes,wants and is attracted by. Some like gym fit,some like dad bods,some like fat cocks,some like thin cocks. Don't think we need another thread about preferences "
I won't even start on the wonderfully eloquent use of the word "it". A man is a "he"! |
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"What stigma?
He's talking about why some lasses like black dick and no other.
Preference? . I like mayo and some people don't
If you close your eyes does it matter what colour it is? Still seems exactly the same, think that’s what the op is getting at
Why would anyone close their eyes? Other than pleasure, of course, but sight is one of the senses that can take us there.
Exactly. Nobody goes on a meet and close their eyes so that won't work and has little to no relevance in my opinion. It matters bcz that what the person likes,wants and is attracted by. Some like gym fit,some like dad bods,some like fat cocks,some like thin cocks. Don't think we need another thread about preferences
I won't even start on the wonderfully eloquent use of the word "it". A man is a "he"!"
Erm. I think you've read it wrong. I wasn't referring to a man. The situation. Calm down jeez! |
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Some idoits scream,preach and try to convince everyone including themselves that black is better and its there only preference.Yet no one says a thing.
The moment you say only white is right,for me sexually then your deamed a racist.
They seem to have lost the fact that there's a type for everyone.sex is more than just a badge.its also about being with someone your sexually attracted too.A look a person that you fancy.Oh and btw the biggest penis % per race is apparently Scandinavian.So if that's all you seek a big penis then who's acting like the dick x
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I just dont get why preferring black guys and girls, or whites, or asians is for anybody other than yourself to think about or understand. You like who/what you like. Its simple really |
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In summing up, white bloke with big dick turned down for a shag because he doesn't meet someone's fantasy. Unable to accept he's not the God's gift he thought, starts a "shock, horror...can't understand why the woman I want doesn't want me because I don't meet her fantasy" thread.
Where does the whiney entitlement end?
With the amount of playmates on offer why concentrate and get arsey if they're excluded? It's not as if we all have universal appeal!!
So you're excluded: get over yourself. No one has to justify who they want to have sex with! |
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"Can't get my head around this.. black white any colour, if the same size it's all the same??
I don't get the stigma
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Stigma
Mark of disgrace ???
BBC is a porn term same as bbw for movie purposes.
Yea people go on about it’s prefereance but I think op is trying to understamd the reasoning behind it. I like big boobies because they make me super hard the same as a big booty ! But then I actually love all naked women because well I’m a sex maniac hahaha.
Case in point I’ve never been to a bmfc because although being black I don’t know if I like the idea of being on display just because of my colour. Then again I could visit and see .... |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Some idoits scream,preach and try to convince everyone including themselves that black is better and its there only preference.Yet no one says a thing.
The moment you say only white is right,for me sexually then your deamed a racist.
They seem to have lost the fact that there's a type for everyone.sex is more than just a badge.its also about being with someone your sexually attracted too.A look a person that you fancy.Oh and btw the biggest penis % per race is apparently Scandinavian.So if that's all you seek a big penis then who's acting like the dick x
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Who are these idiots you speak of who say you're racist for saying 'white is right' or your preference? Not seen it once on this thread, in fact the thread has been pretty amicable apart from the unlos.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good morning everyone,
I've made a fab profile in the past and I have normally seen a post like this in the forums on a weekly basis.
The response to the post is always the same and to be honest, peoples views will never change.
It's all about preference and fantasies.
Let it go over your head and continue enjoying the site.
If you're not into black , fair dues. The people who attempt to class you as racist are immature and clearly shouldn't be on the site.
I've always been into interracial fun and relationships. I wouldn't feel offended if a woman said black isn't for me.
To be honest, I believe certain men don't like the term BBC due to it being a strong trend in sexual fantasies.
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"Some idoits scream,preach and try to convince everyone including themselves that black is better and its there only preference.Yet no one says a thing.
The moment you say only white is right,for me sexually then your deamed a racist.
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I haven't seen anyone on this thread scream, preach or convince anyone that black is better or claim that someone is racist for believing otherwise.
In an earlier contribution you suggested that skin colour shouldn't matter, yet stated on your profile that you're not seeking blacks or Asians which is fine, but your criticism seems to be directed at people into black men rather than the OP who posed a crass question about it.
For my own part I've no particular affection for people who only meet black men, at the start of my interest in this lifestyle the novelty was quite thrilling until the male partner of a couple I played with confided that they preferred black men because his wife would never run off with one which was an interesting but demeaning observation. |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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Surely there’s enough threads on this forum to see what the whole BBC facade is about and I can only suspect, this post is nothing but to create another fab race row. So far, it’s been calm! |
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For my own part I've no particular affection for people who only meet black men, at the start of my interest in this lifestyle the novelty was quite thrilling until the male partner of a couple I played with confided that they preferred black men because his wife would never run off with one which was an interesting but demeaning observation."
This is horrendous!!!
However, I would take it with a pinch of salt if I were you. My suspicion is that the wife actually preferred black guys and just told the husband that excuse to "reassure" him and keep him on board with enjoying them |
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For my own part I've no particular affection for people who only meet black men, at the start of my interest in this lifestyle the novelty was quite thrilling until the male partner of a couple I played with confided that they preferred black men because his wife would never run off with one which was an interesting but demeaning observation.
This is horrendous!!!
However, I would take it with a pinch of salt if I were you. My suspicion is that the wife actually preferred black guys and just told the husband that excuse to "reassure" him and keep him on board with enjoying them"
Thanks Mrs R, I didn't lose too much sleep over it, but it did make me wary of what might be motivating some folks, at the time I was a bit of a male slut but I became a more discerning one! |
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For my own part I've no particular affection for people who only meet black men, at the start of my interest in this lifestyle the novelty was quite thrilling until the male partner of a couple I played with confided that they preferred black men because his wife would never run off with one which was an interesting but demeaning observation.
This is horrendous!!!
However, I would take it with a pinch of salt if I were you. My suspicion is that the wife actually preferred black guys and just told the husband that excuse to "reassure" him and keep him on board with enjoying them"
Both the observation and the response are food for thought. I suspect that at one point or another the vast majority of black guys on here reflect on this. Particularly if like me you discover that on traditional dating sites survey statistics of female preferences indicate that we are not nearly as popular as we are on swinging sites....funny how life has a way of balancing things out in unusual ways....anyway my basic philosophy is the stronger the persons fixation on my blackness is, the less likely they are to be of interest to me. However, if my blackness is like a variety of topping on a cake they already like, they are more than welcome to their perception of the yummyness of my chocolate coloured skin. |
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For my own part I've no particular affection for people who only meet black men, at the start of my interest in this lifestyle the novelty was quite thrilling until the male partner of a couple I played with confided that they preferred black men because his wife would never run off with one which was an interesting but demeaning observation.
This is horrendous!!!
However, I would take it with a pinch of salt if I were you. My suspicion is that the wife actually preferred black guys and just told the husband that excuse to "reassure" him and keep him on board with enjoying them
Thanks Mrs R, I didn't lose too much sleep over it, but it did make me wary of what might be motivating some folks, at the time I was a bit of a male slut but I became a more discerning one! "
I've heard this many times, for me I was in a relationship with a Blackman, he wanted me to fuck white guys, he never got his dream,i wasnt going to fuck guys im not attracted to.He admitted he was jealous of a lot of blackmen I knew in the scene, as thought I would run off with them
I just threw myself into hosting parties that year so I could still be socialable with the blackmen
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"however..in seriousness..on a very old profile I used my blackness or half) as some kind of lure...
I am me regardless of my colour..and i suppose, without sounding racist..I really dont have any black heritage I use, Im raised in glasgow..by my white family.its not that I disown my geneaolgy...I just dont really feel I'm anything other than scottish..It'll never change.
I've been to many 'black' events...I feel out of place for what some are looking for..but at other times..I meet some people who like me for who I am(regardless of cock size or colour)...to me thats all that counts."
Totally get this! I get comments about wanting to be with a black woman but im not black, im mixed and like you am more comfortable around my family and small community that I grew up in.
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"Funny how you never see white women making topics like this "
I'd say you don't see women, full stop. Maybe it's something to do with the ego, which seems to be a lot more sensitive in men (ok ok, *some* men!). |
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For my own part I've no particular affection for people who only meet black men, at the start of my interest in this lifestyle the novelty was quite thrilling until the male partner of a couple I played with confided that they preferred black men because his wife would never run off with one which was an interesting but demeaning observation.
This is horrendous!!!
However, I would take it with a pinch of salt if I were you. My suspicion is that the wife actually preferred black guys and just told the husband that excuse to "reassure" him and keep him on board with enjoying them
Thanks Mrs R, I didn't lose too much sleep over it, but it did make me wary of what might be motivating some folks, at the time I was a bit of a male slut but I became a more discerning one! "
Haha!
To be honest, I think the problem on those occasions, is not the choice of race etc when swinging but the actual choice TO swing at all. Clearly the couple don't trust each other and, possibly, there's other issues too in the relationship. Sooner or later the wife WILL run off with someone regardless of race.
Sad situations, whichever way you look at it. |
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I had to investigate and play Columbo on this thread. So the guy that started the thread has been verified by one woman who has devoured many bbc's. If you was really confused you would ask her directly. As said many times previously it's preference! Get over it buddy. |
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Amazed at some of the narrow views some people hold after reading this thread!
End of the day it’s an individuals personal preference, why worry about it. If a female is only wanting to play with a black guy and you’re not a black guy then move along... it really is that simple.... isn’t it?!?
Don’t mock people for their personal choices/preferences each to their own.
I say po-tay-toe
You say pot-ar-toe
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"Amazed at some of the narrow views some people hold after reading this thread!
End of the day it’s an individuals personal preference, why worry about it. If a female is only wanting to play with a black guy and you’re not a black guy then move along... it really is that simple.... isn’t it?!?
Don’t mock people for their personal choices/preferences each to their own.
I say po-tay-toe
You say pot-ar-toe
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I'm a black guy with a thick meaty cock
.I've been rejected by some females and I've played with lots of females.and again it's all about my personality and how I cope with them.luck doesn't happen every time,luck happens to those people who wait and have patient.if luck doesn't strike me....I do move along. |
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