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Absolutely pointless. Most profiles already have pictures of cocks. If you are reaching out to someone with the intention of meeting them then a face picture is an absolute must. For people (mainly ladies) that get alot of messages they probably won't be bothered to reply or start asking for a face picture if you hadn't already included one. Once you've got a reply you might be asked for a cock picture but that's highly improbable. |
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over a year ago
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"Absolutely pointless. Most profiles already have pictures of cocks. If you are reaching out to someone with the intention of meeting them then a face picture is an absolute must. For people (mainly ladies) that get alot of messages they probably won't be bothered to reply or start asking for a face picture if you hadn't already included one. Once you've got a reply you might be asked for a cock picture but that's highly improbable. "
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over a year ago
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x "
in my opinion yes you should only send cock pics when asked |
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x "
Yes... only IF requested IMO |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended "
I only ever send if asked. I did partake in one of these send a private pic threads and sent one to a lady who has since left the site. She made it clear in no uncertain terms that it was a mistake of me to do so. I have never felt so small and learned my lesson and play absolutely safe now. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended
I only ever send if asked. I did partake in one of these send a private pic threads and sent one to a lady who has since left the site. She made it clear in no uncertain terms that it was a mistake of me to do so. I have never felt so small and learned my lesson and play absolutely safe now."
Sorry i meant that about cock pics. I have no idea why i replied to that particular post. |
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over a year ago
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It doesn’t offend me getting a cock pic, but I’d much rather a sexy torso pic. I understand why sending a face pic with the first message might not appeal (but I’d want to see one before having long chats).
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x "
A nice clear photo of your face goes along way in at least you receiving a message back, seeing a cock pick on a 1st message is like opening up your Christmas presents in July. Most females prefer to have an intelligent conversation in order to see if you both click with each other, you could have the biggest cock in history but if you can't hold a decent convo then what chance do you have off showing her your record breaking penis lol |
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"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended "
Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.
But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us. |
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"By reading profiles and looking at statuses from women and couples, I’d say NNNOOOOOOOOOO  "
That's not strictly true...Some couples profiles ask for them to be included with the face pic with the first message  |
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"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended
Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.
But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us. "
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"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended
Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.
But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us. "
Was your reply meant to be a thumbs up?
I sometimes use a Fab emoji and it goes weird on my phone and deletes my emoji and response and just posts the quoted text bit. No idea why.. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended
Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.
But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us.
Was your reply meant to be a thumbs up?
I sometimes use a Fab emoji and it goes weird on my phone and deletes my emoji and response and just posts the quoted text bit. No idea why.. x"
Yes, sorry!!! But yes, a big  x |
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By *lubitMan
over a year ago
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No don't send it.
Even if you've exchanged a couple of messages, and they ask for it. Because sometimes you'll still get abuse for sending a cock shot. Even when responding to a message saying "Can you send a pic of you cock".
Yep...some real weirdos float around these parts. |
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x "
I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x
I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?
Mrs"
This! |
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"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended
Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.
But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us.
Was your reply meant to be a thumbs up?
I sometimes use a Fab emoji and it goes weird on my phone and deletes my emoji and response and just posts the quoted text bit. No idea why.. x
Yes, sorry!!! But yes, a big x"
Thank you, I thought it was just me that it happened to! Thought I had a dodgy phone.  |
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x
I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?
Mrs"
I think it's because they see all the other genital pics on the site and they assume that's what swingers want to see. It's a fair assumption. |
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By *lubitMan
over a year ago
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x
I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?
Mrs"
Just look at the number of profiles where the size of the cock is the most important thing apparently.
Sometime I imagine what women would say if men's profiles read "must have a tight pussy and be able to prove it before meeting, nothing else matters"  |
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x
I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?
Mrs
Just look at the number of profiles where the size of the cock is the most important thing apparently.
Sometime I imagine what women would say if men's profiles read "must have a tight pussy and be able to prove it before meeting, nothing else matters" "
I would say it’s a fair assumption that a profile requiring, not only a big cock, but proof of a big cock, is likely to appreciate a picture. But I’ve never understood why it would be assumed that I would need a picture of a cock to help me decide if I want to sleep with someone.
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x
I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?
Mrs
I think it's because they see all the other genital pics on the site and they assume that's what swingers want to see. It's a fair assumption. "
Sort of a case of monkey see monkey do |
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"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x
I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?
Mrs
I think it's because they see all the other genital pics on the site and they assume that's what swingers want to see. It's a fair assumption.
Sort of a case of monkey see monkey do "
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"Just look at the number of profiles where the size of the cock is the most important thing apparently "
I’m sending close-up photos and hoping nobody has seen the Father Ted episode where he’s explaining the difference between big and far away |
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"Just look at the number of profiles where the size of the cock is the most important thing apparently
I’m sending close-up photos and hoping nobody has seen the Father Ted episode where he’s explaining the difference between big and far away "
Ha! Do a cock pic with a church spire alongside for perspective. |
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"By reading profiles and looking at statuses from women and couples, I’d say NNNOOOOOOOOOO
That's not strictly true...Some couples profiles ask for them to be included with the face pic with the first message "
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"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended
I only ever send if asked. I did partake in one of these send a private pic threads and sent one to a lady who has since left the site. She made it clear in no uncertain terms that it was a mistake of me to do so. I have never felt so small and learned my lesson and play absolutely safe now.
Sorry i meant that about cock pics. I have no idea why i replied to that particular post."
Oh dear Pieman, before I read that follow up I WAS thinking "jeez that's a bit much " i even looked at your pics to see if I'd missed some hideous reflection somewhere
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By (user no longer on site)
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To true. We have come to the opinion that those guys sending only cock pics have little else to offer. What are they thinking ? That a woman is going to say ' wow ...I'll have that' - regardless of the looks of the guy? Living in cloud cuckoo land some people!
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By (user no longer on site)
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...and then we had one git who used such offensive language 'cumdump etc' in his first message....and seriously thought he'd get an invite. He was told off and blocked! |
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I have never sent a cock pic. In fact I’ve never even taken a picture of my cock.
The only time I’ve ever been asked to send a cock pic on here is by the male half of a couple. If he is interested, I’m probably not, so that’s the end of the conversation.
Undoubtedly, sending cock pics must work for a lot of guys. If they didn’t, why would they do it??!
If you look at the verifications of the people you are about to message it’s incredible how many times these are just a cock pic and a near empty profile.
So. For those women and couples who don’t like them, have you ever considered directing the blame at those who use a cock picture as their only discrimator before meeting...? |
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"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended
Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.
But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us. "
I feel the same as you. |
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