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By *olfish OP Man
over a year ago
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Okay folks picture this..... I arrived for a meet after a long journey and I was pleasantly surprised. She looked lovely in her understated dress, black stockings and nice shoes, we had a nice cup of coffee as we sat on the sofa together and chatted, I felt comfortable in her company. Hands were soon resting on legs, I thought how perfect. However when I went down on her she wasn't clean. My question is should I tell her this? I quite fancy her and risk offence with such a revelation.... or not see her again and leave her wondering why? is there another way I can get around this ? Help please, thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep her sitting on the sofa, open her legs wide , bend at knees so her feet are on sofa as well , basically she has the best view right .
kneel on the floor in front of her , take a deep breath , hold your nose , go down on her .
i know its subtle but might give her a clue .. 
one has to have a sense of humour .. |
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By *isser36Man
over a year ago
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Was it supposed to be just a social? As in she wasn't expecting it to get to the point of you licking her lady bits and thought she wouldn't need to be fresh and clean? Or.... She genuinely didn't care In which case I'd be slightly offended she thought that little of the meet she couldn't be bothered to wash her fanny! Also... Always use the finger test.. If they come up stinking you know not to get you tongue down there! ?? |
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"Okay folks picture this..... I arrived for a meet after a long journey and I was pleasantly surprised. She looked lovely in her understated dress, black stockings and nice shoes, we had a nice cup of coffee as we sat on the sofa together and chatted, I felt comfortable in her company. Hands were soon resting on legs, I thought how perfect. However when I went down on her she wasn't clean. My question is should I tell her this? I quite fancy her and risk offence with such a revelation.... or not see her again and leave her wondering why? is there another way I can get around this ? Help please, thanks. "
Perhaps she might read this post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was it supposed to be just a social? As in she wasn't expecting it to get to the point of you licking her lady bits and thought she wouldn't need to be fresh and clean? Or.... She genuinely didn't care In which case I'd be slightly offended she thought that little of the meet she couldn't be bothered to wash her fanny! Also... Always use the finger test.. If they come up stinking you know not to get you tongue down there! ?? "
it's possible she had BV in which case it's perfectly possible she was unaware of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does sound like BV. Personally if it was me I would hope someone would tell me (in a tactile way!!) so I can go and get treated. It's easily treated at a sexual health clinic and it's actually caused from too much washing, douching, washing with perfume products and tampons. I had a ex where when he cum in me my body didn't like the PH of his sperm and I would get a bout of bv. It's very common |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is what I'd do...
Suggest that it's a huge turn on t shower her, watch all the water run over her whole body. Get her to stand in the shower with her hands against the wall and feet apart. Then using her favourite shower gel, massage all her body in a sexual way paying particular attention to her pussy ass and tits. Then when she is clean, pat her dry (never rub) kissing her body as I dry her, then lick and finger her pussy good while she is stil standing. After, she b non the wiser and I'm sure would appreciate every second  I know I would lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is what I'd do...
Suggest that it's a huge turn on t shower her, watch all the water run over her whole body. Get her to stand in the shower with her hands against the wall and feet apart. Then using her favourite shower gel, massage all her body in a sexual way paying particular attention to her pussy ass and tits. Then when she is clean, pat her dry (never rub) kissing her body as I dry her, then lick and finger her pussy good while she is stil standing. After, she b non the wiser and I'm sure would appreciate every second I know I would lol "
i'd avoid getting shower gel anywhere near her genitals, thats possibly the casuse of it if its BV.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's very common
Are we talking a smell like she didn’t launder her knickers since the last time she got excited?
Not that I’ve ever experienced that, obviously..."
if you're referring to BV, then no. |
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OP my mother always used to say "Always try and make a good situation, out of a bad one".
So on that note, before next meet. Get yourself to your local chippy and pick up a bag of chips and some vinegar.... itl make a lovely meal for one, with the added Trout!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get down the army surplus store and buy a gas mask....subtle hint which she should pick up...then again you went for a social and that's what you get for sweet talking to her lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just tell them the truth. You don't have to be an ass about. It might be a tad embarrassing but I'd imagine most women would want to know. Then they have the option to sort it  |
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So unless the lady in question has no sense of smell , how is it possible she doesn’t know ? It’s sounds like it’s more than just a bit fishy ....
Anyway , assuming it’s bv , she really should treat it , and if she isn’t able to smell , be told it’s not nice . Personally , if she has a sense of smell and ignores it , I wouldn’t wanna go there again . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So unless the lady in question has no sense of smell , how is it possible she doesn’t know ? It’s sounds like it’s more than just a bit fishy ....
Anyway , assuming it’s bv , she really should treat it , and if she isn’t able to smell , be told it’s not nice . Personally , if she has a sense of smell and ignores it , I wouldn’t wanna go there again ."
plenty of women dont realise they have it until its mentioned, thats a very common occurrence, nothing to do with being unwashed...in fact thats often where the problem has started, soap, shower gel etc affecting the pH.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally wouldn’t want someone I don’t know very well telling me this. So my view is best leavevthat one until you feel more comfortable to have that conversation with her. If you don’t like going down on her at this moment in time then don’t do it. If you like having sex with her and enjoy her company then there is plenty of other fun to have sexually without oral sex. Or is that easy for me to say as I’m not too bothered if a man goes down on me?
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