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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience? "
You are an adult so gave every right to be on here. However, your age will greatly reduce your aleady limited chances as a single guy in a sea of other single guys. Your profile won't help either.
If you have a mature outlook and can pick up women in teal life, try clubs. Just dont have any expectations of actually having sex.
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over a year ago
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience? "
You will find it hard to get meets as you are one single guy of 50.000 other guy's looking for 1of the 1000 cples and even less single lady's looking for a meet.
Your age will also reduce your chances as the average age on here is about 40/45 so even less will be looking for lots younger than themselves.
Most Young single guys are imature when trying to chat with others as they just want to fuck women for their own pleasure without thought of the women's enjoyment too and that tends to show in conversation.
On saying all that there are some on here that enjoy the younger guy's so don't give up hope you just have to be patient and put the effort in.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for your help it's much appreciated I guess I am a bit in the unknown of what to do here, but I wouldnt say I'm immature and definitely not just interested in my own pleasure, I get what you mean by how many single guys there are here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience?
Yes. The advantage is that if you wait then you won’t be young any more. "
Haha I'm not looking forward to getting old haha! |
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience?
Yes. The advantage is that if you wait then you won’t be young any more.
Haha I'm not looking forward to getting old haha!"
There are advantages. And disadvantages. Just like being 22. My advice is don’t bother mentioning it in your profile cos that’s what a 22 year old would do. Let actions speak more than words. Get yourself to a social. You have the advantage of time so be patient. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience?
Yes. The advantage is that if you wait then you won’t be young any more.
Haha I'm not looking forward to getting old haha!
There are advantages. And disadvantages. Just like being 22. My advice is don’t bother mentioning it in your profile cos that’s what a 22 year old would do. Let actions speak more than words. Get yourself to a social. You have the advantage of time so be patient. "
Fair enough point taken! Thank you steve |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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22 is too young for a lot of people on here, but there are others who are successful . You could do with adding a bit more information on your profile, as it just focuses on your age.
Maybe go along to a social or even a swingers club, so people can meet you in person and see how mature you are and chat to you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"22 is too young for a lot of people on here, but there are others who are successful . You could do with adding a bit more information on your profile, as it just focuses on your age.
Maybe go along to a social or even a swingers club, so people can meet you in person and see how mature you are and chat to you.
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Thank you for your advice on all my posts I know there's been a few but I will be quiet for a bit after. Haha much appreciated |
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience? "
There lots of women in their 50's looking for a young guy around your age.
Get your experience with them first. You can become regular fb one of them |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Also be realistic and respectful.
I had a 22 year old message me today, now do you really think a woman of my age would have anything in common with someone half my age?
Don't ignore others preferences, in fact, I'll probably raise my age limit now to stop the chancers who think I'm just a few years under  |
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However, one huge fucking advantage of being 22 now is that when you were growing up you could binge-watch all the Star Wars films instead of having to wait bloody years (40!!!!!) to watch them all. |
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As a fellow young bloke, you'll experience that a lot of profiles are not into the younger man, but for every 10 profiles that are not, there's 5 that are.
You may feel 'restricted' at times, but I think it's worth learning that you don't want or need to worry about the profiles that are not interested in you.
Be yourself, chat where you can & take 'no' for an answer. |
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"Also be realistic and respectful.
I had a 22 year old message me today, now do you really think a woman of my age would have anything in common with someone half my age?
Don't ignore others preferences, in fact, I'll probably raise my age limit now to stop the chancers who think I'm just a few years under "
You will never know if you have anything in common with them until you start speaking to them. Why not give them a chance
I know the majority are immature and want one thing but some aren’t. You don’t really know what you have in common until you speak to anyone |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Also be realistic and respectful.
I had a 22 year old message me today, now do you really think a woman of my age would have anything in common with someone half my age?
Don't ignore others preferences, in fact, I'll probably raise my age limit now to stop the chancers who think I'm just a few years under
You will never know if you have anything in common with them until you start speaking to them. Why not give them a chance
I know the majority are immature and want one thing but some aren’t. You don’t really know what you have in common until you speak to anyone"
This isn't the lottery and I am not here to gamble, I'm 44 so no I will not give anyone who is 22 a chance, purely because I can't be arsed!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had some great times with guys off of Fab that are around your age OP, so just keep trying, sell yourself and let people know who you are and what you can bring to the table. Socials and clubs are a great way to get noticed and verified, if you are what you say you are. Anyway, good luck and happy fabbing! |
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"Also be realistic and respectful.
I had a 22 year old message me today, now do you really think a woman of my age would have anything in common with someone half my age?
Don't ignore others preferences, in fact, I'll probably raise my age limit now to stop the chancers who think I'm just a few years under
You will never know if you have anything in common with them until you start speaking to them. Why not give them a chance
I know the majority are immature and want one thing but some aren’t. You don’t really know what you have in common until you speak to anyone
This isn't the lottery and I am not here to gamble, I'm 44 so no I will not give anyone who is 22 a chance, purely because I can't be arsed! "
Speaking of the lottery.... our local shop sold the winning ticket last night!! Got to go check my ticket  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also be realistic and respectful.
I had a 22 year old message me today, now do you really think a woman of my age would have anything in common with someone half my age?
Don't ignore others preferences, in fact, I'll probably raise my age limit now to stop the chancers who think I'm just a few years under
You will never know if you have anything in common with them until you start speaking to them. Why not give them a chance
I know the majority are immature and want one thing but some aren’t. You don’t really know what you have in common until you speak to anyone
This isn't the lottery and I am not here to gamble, I'm 44 so no I will not give anyone who is 22 a chance, purely because I can't be arsed! "
Yeah that’s how I feel. I can’t really be arsed to meet a man substantially younger than myself on the off chance that he may be more mature than most of his age group. It’s easier to meet guys my own age and have a higher chance of success.
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience?
Yes. The advantage is that if you wait then you won’t be young any more. "
Think he meant until you actually get a meet off here.
By then you may be old enough  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for some supportive messages and also honesty too something isn't for everyone I know that. Thank you for all the responses Im pleased Ibe got some feedback |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone had told me at 22 that I would be too young to swing/ have sex with an older woman I'd have been mortified.
That said, my view of me at the time, compared to that of a female or couple would've probably been poles apart.
I guess it's all down to perception, to some you'll be too young, to others not so.
Another side to the coin is what do you have in common with someone who's the same age as your parents, and in some instances, your grandparents? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience?
Yes
Well if he's 2 young I had better leave now "
oh i wouldnt do that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience?
Yes
Well if he's 2 young I had better leave now
oh i wouldnt do that "
2 late I already left yesterday as I'm 2 young |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Change your profile to focus on what you can do, what you like to do and less of the age mention...unless you use it to your advantage.
Look at other people’s profiles and get an idea of how to best sell yourself. Try and sell your age as an advantage rather than it be a disadvantage...
Good luck.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience? "
I started around your age... no you are not too young.
Some people will be interested, and some will be put off by your age, but thats the same in the vanilla world as well as swinging. |
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience?
Yes. The advantage is that if you wait then you won’t be young any more.
Haha I'm not looking forward to getting old haha!"
What's wrong with old??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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one recommendation
as you have on your friends list only 4 men and yet your profile says straight. this will put women off from meeting you. since people like honesty
if they are friends only then i suggest saying on your profile youll add men as friends for friendship
there are women and couples who also wont play with bisexual/pansexual people.
but there are many that do but its about honesty, transparency. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"As a fellow young bloke, you'll experience that a lot of profiles are not into the younger man, but for every 10 profiles that are not, there's 5 that are.
You may feel 'restricted' at times, but I think it's worth learning that you don't want or need to worry about the profiles that are not interested in you.
Be yourself, chat where you can & take 'no' for an answer."
I think this is a great post OP. Just checking you read it. Not trying to mother you...sorry, my son is your age ( another potential problem for older ladies)
But seriously this guy talks from experience.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it I'm too young to be on here and the women on here like guys with some experience? "
Depends if you know the difference between a swingers site and a random sex site. If you can treat people with respect and understand that the women run the show you might have a chance. |
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"Also be realistic and respectful.
I had a 22 year old message me today, now do you really think a woman of my age would have anything in common with someone half my age?
Don't ignore others preferences, in fact, I'll probably raise my age limit now to stop the chancers who think I'm just a few years under
You will never know if you have anything in common with them until you start speaking to them. Why not give them a chance
I know the majority are immature and want one thing but some aren’t. You don’t really know what you have in common until you speak to anyone
This isn't the lottery and I am not here to gamble, I'm 44 so no I will not give anyone who is 22 a chance, purely because I can't be arsed! "
absolutly agree! I have raised my preference age to 40-50 im 46 soon to be 47 " on friday" and i was getting so much msgs from young men " and if i hear the " age is just a number how do u know we have nothing in common!!!!!! Because we f#kn do not thats why!!! This is from 19 yr olds " telling me i should give him a chance! Its my preference end off! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a fellow young bloke, you'll experience that a lot of profiles are not into the younger man, but for every 10 profiles that are not, there's 5 that are.
You may feel 'restricted' at times, but I think it's worth learning that you don't want or need to worry about the profiles that are not interested in you.
Be yourself, chat where you can & take 'no' for an answer.
I think this is a great post OP. Just checking you read it. Not trying to mother you...sorry, my son is your age ( another potential problem for older ladies)
But seriously this guy talks from experience.... "
Yeah I read it haha that's okay it's much appreciated from this guy yourself and everyone else who has taken time to reply too. |
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"I think this is a great post OP. Just checking you read it. Not trying to mother you...sorry, my son is your age ( another potential problem for older ladies)
But seriously this guy talks from experience.... "
Haha - thank you Lizzy! Not a lot of experience, but experience nonetheless |
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