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Ok, so I don’t meet one on one but from a couples perspective; it just makes the flow easier, it’s hot to watch, I can tap out for a bit and the fun carries on, it’s really hot to watch, it means I’m not putting all of the work in throughout the meet, it’s super hot to watch!
That’s just my opinion of course. |
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"Ok, so I don’t meet one on one but from a couples perspective; it just makes the flow easier, it’s hot to watch, I can tap out for a bit and the fun carries on, it’s really hot to watch, it means I’m not putting all of the work in throughout the meet, it’s super hot to watch!
That’s just my opinion of course. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok, so I don’t meet one on one but from a couples perspective; it just makes the flow easier, it’s hot to watch, I can tap out for a bit and the fun carries on, it’s really hot to watch, it means I’m not putting all of the work in throughout the meet, it’s super hot to watch!
That’s just my opinion of course. "
Yes I get couples wanting bi guys but seen a lot of single ladies wanting bi guys and not straight guys |
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"Ok, so I don’t meet one on one but from a couples perspective; it just makes the flow easier, it’s hot to watch, I can tap out for a bit and the fun carries on, it’s really hot to watch, it means I’m not putting all of the work in throughout the meet, it’s super hot to watch!
That’s just my opinion of course.
Yes I get couples wanting bi guys but seen a lot of single ladies wanting bi guys and not straight guys"
For obvious reasons! |
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"Ok, so I don’t meet one on one but from a couples perspective; it just makes the flow easier, it’s hot to watch, I can tap out for a bit and the fun carries on, it’s really hot to watch, it means I’m not putting all of the work in throughout the meet, it’s super hot to watch!
That’s just my opinion of course.
Yes I get couples wanting bi guys but seen a lot of single ladies wanting bi guys and not straight guys
For obvious reasons!"
What are the "obvious reasons" ? |
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For me it’s about comfort levels, just as a general statement I find ‘bi guys’ are just a lot more relaxed in sexual scenarios... I go to a lot of mixed parties and their lack of awkwardness regardless of who they are playing with is obvious.
I’ll throw a bold statement out there: bi guys are better suited to a swinging/hedonism lifestyle #comtreversial x |
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"For me it’s about comfort levels, just as a general statement I find ‘bi guys’ are just a lot more relaxed in sexual scenarios... I go to a lot of mixed parties and their lack of awkwardness regardless of who they are playing with is obvious.
I’ll throw a bold statement out there: bi guys are better suited to a swinging/hedonism lifestyle #comtreversial x"
Why are they better suited? |
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"Ok, so I don’t meet one on one but from a couples perspective; it just makes the flow easier, it’s hot to watch, I can tap out for a bit and the fun carries on, it’s really hot to watch, it means I’m not putting all of the work in throughout the meet, it’s super hot to watch!
That’s just my opinion of course.
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well said x |
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"For me it’s about comfort levels, just as a general statement I find ‘bi guys’ are just a lot more relaxed in sexual scenarios... I go to a lot of mixed parties and their lack of awkwardness regardless of who they are playing with is obvious.
I’ll throw a bold statement out there: bi guys are better suited to a swinging/hedonism lifestyle #comtreversial x
Why are they better suited? "
A thousand reasons around comfort and charisma for me...
in groups the ‘straight guys’ will often fail to deliver, anxious around other guys perhaps? post cum they are 9/10 bloody awkward, perhaps sexual guilt with me but I’ve seen it with real girls too...
At its best levels swinging is also very social, I feel that is often a big area of weakness.
For example x |
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"For me it’s about comfort levels, just as a general statement I find ‘bi guys’ are just a lot more relaxed in sexual scenarios... I go to a lot of mixed parties and their lack of awkwardness regardless of who they are playing with is obvious.
I’ll throw a bold statement out there: bi guys are better suited to a swinging/hedonism lifestyle #comtreversial x"
Wholeheartedly agree! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
In all honesty OP I don't think I've ever seen anyone stating a preference for bi guys for one on one meets, although have seen a minority state that they have a preference not to meet bi men.
Perhaps those you've seen are looking for a bi MMF?
Whatever the reason though it all comes down to preference - no point worrying about it, just accept you don't meet their criteria and move on |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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It's that old thing about all guys wanting to watch two girls together, well now the ladies are turning the tables, as far as one on one meets go maybe they are looking for playmates that will do this in the future for them to watch, plus by nature bi guys are much more into giving enjoyment rather than just satisfying their own needs.  |
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As a bi couple, we now only meet bisexual people. We’ve had a mmf with a straight guy before and having some restrictions in place kinda ruins the moment a bit. Bi guys are far more relaxed and open to fun ideas in our experience Also there’s nothing more sexy than licking a cock with a guy or having two guys licking you out  |
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I've generally found that single ladies usually aren't interested in bi-guys, and a lot of couples are the same.
It's all about personal taste (no pun intended) in the exact same way as some guys want to see two women together, some women want to see two guys.
It's just the same as asking why some people wont meet over thirtys, and others will.
If you aren't what they want, move on to the next person/couple, don't try to be something you are just to get a jump, as that will end badly for all involved.
If you are curious though, maybe give it a go, however, i find most couples aren't interested in an experimenting guy, as that can go badly for them as well, and nobody needs the hassle. It's meant to be fun. |
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Always found a meet with a Bi guy is just much more relaxed and laid back than meeting a straight guy. We're a bi couple so wouldn't meet straight guys, but we did once and it just wasn't relaxed and so restricted lol! Mrs x |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
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We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies. |
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"Some interesting perspectives here. Good to know we are not always the pariahs those advertising as being 100% straight sometimes make us out to be."
Nope... but we are full of diseases and spread them like wildfire... so others assume  |
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies. "
What a terrific approach & comment |
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies. "
Quite obviously you two are one of those ‘straight couples’ who make out your bi for popularity... heck you’ll be telling me your hubby makes a great cup of tea next
;) xxx |
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"Have to say that in my experience bi guys are just that bit more adventurous and open minded. "
I agree . They also seem more 'in tune' with body language, more responsive.
Personally, I look for bi guys for 1:1 meet with the perspective of either going to bi parties or bi nights in clubs. |
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies.
What a terrific approach & comment"
You should try meeting them, fab couple x |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies.
Quite obviously you two are one of those ‘straight couples’ who make out your bi for popularity... heck you’ll be telling me your hubby makes a great cup of tea next
;) xxx"
Oi, you didn’t say stuff like that when kaz was sat on your face and I was stroking your lovely lady stick?  |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies.
What a terrific approach & comment"
Why thank you kind sir. Xx |
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies.
What a terrific approach & comment
You should try meeting them, fab couple x"
I would love to but not looking for single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I personally don't find guy on guy fun sexy but that being said I'd have no problem meeting a guy who was bi and have done previously.
When women say they don't want no guys it comes across a little homophobic to me although I'm aware everyone has their preferences |
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"I personally don't find guy on guy fun sexy but that being said I'd have no problem meeting a guy who was bi and have done previously.
When women say they don't want no guys it comes across a little homophobic to me although I'm aware everyone has their preferences "
*** "don't want bi guys" stupid autocorrect |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies.
What a terrific approach & comment
You should try meeting them, fab couple x
I would love to but not looking for single guys"
We blocked single guys for a reason? But we do like to mix it with other bi guys like yourself? I’ll send a wink, then you can chat with us. X |
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"Ok, so I don’t meet one on one but from a couples perspective; it just makes the flow easier, it’s hot to watch, I can tap out for a bit and the fun carries on, it’s really hot to watch, it means I’m not putting all of the work in throughout the meet, it’s super hot to watch!
That’s just my opinion of course. "
Summed up rather well |
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Have to say we will only play with bi cpls it makes a better atmosphere we think oh my god he touched my cock or awkward positions plus us bi guys are a lot more relaxed and open minded |
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"Have to say we will only play with bi cpls it makes a better atmosphere we think oh my god he touched my cock or awkward positions plus us bi guys are a lot more relaxed and open minded "
It's trying to find the dynamics between the 4 that's difficult though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok ladies what’s the fascination with bi guys than straight guys when meeting one on one "
They're more interesting to watch.
Watching a straight guy wank himself off or stuffing himself with a plug = standard stuff = yawn.
Seeing two fit guys playing with each other and giving each other a pounding to completion = gushing!   lol |
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies.
Quite obviously you two are one of those ‘straight couples’ who make out your bi for popularity... heck you’ll be telling me your hubby makes a great cup of tea next
;) xxx
Oi, you didn’t say stuff like that when kaz was sat on your face and I was stroking your lovely lady stick? "
Oh... that Kazmar... I must have had you confused for another |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies.
Quite obviously you two are one of those ‘straight couples’ who make out your bi for popularity... heck you’ll be telling me your hubby makes a great cup of tea next
;) xxx
Oi, you didn’t say stuff like that when kaz was sat on your face and I was stroking your lovely lady stick?
Oh... that Kazmar... I must have had you confused for another"
Git. Love you Charli xxx  |
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As a bi guy it is good to read the positive comments hear. I was beginning to feel a bit of an oddball. From my point of view playing with either sex is about fun provided everyone agrees and enjoys. I feel there is a perception if you are bi you are going to jump on the other guy. |
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"For me it’s about comfort levels, just as a general statement I find ‘bi guys’ are just a lot more relaxed in sexual scenarios... I go to a lot of mixed parties and their lack of awkwardness regardless of who they are playing with is obvious.
I’ll throw a bold statement out there: bi guys are better suited to a swinging/hedonism lifestyle #comtreversial x"
I agree. They're definitely filthier and no holds barred |
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"For me it’s about comfort levels, just as a general statement I find ‘bi guys’ are just a lot more relaxed in sexual scenarios... I go to a lot of mixed parties and their lack of awkwardness regardless of who they are playing with is obvious.
I’ll throw a bold statement out there: bi guys are better suited to a swinging/hedonism lifestyle #comtreversial x
I agree. They're definitely filthier and no holds barred "
How do you mean no holds bared? |
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"As a bi guy it is good to read the positive comments hear. I was beginning to feel a bit of an oddball. From my point of view playing with either sex is about fun provided everyone agrees and enjoys. I feel there is a perception if you are bi you are going to jump on the other guy."
Totally agree with this well said |
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"For me it’s about comfort levels, just as a general statement I find ‘bi guys’ are just a lot more relaxed in sexual scenarios... I go to a lot of mixed parties and their lack of awkwardness regardless of who they are playing with is obvious.
I’ll throw a bold statement out there: bi guys are better suited to a swinging/hedonism lifestyle #comtreversial x
I agree. They're definitely filthier and no holds barred
How do you mean no holds bared? "
More depraved and naughty. That's just my experience... Bi girls and guys are much filthier and group play much more fun |
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"We love the mix of the bi scene, we don’t worry about who or what gets touched, either on purpose or by accident, it’s natural, us blokes have been comparing dicks since we were kids, just because we grew up doesn’t mean we don’t peak now and then, I for one couldn’t give a shit what people think, being a male in a bi relationship is cool in my book, so called straights are tied to one sex, where as I get the lot and then some? People will tag you no matter what you do? So I say balls to them while sticking two fingers up, bring on the cocks and pussies.
What a terrific approach & comment
Why thank you kind sir. Xx "
I say it’s all about the moment. If the moment isn’t there for everyone it’s not really going according to plan. I love the freedom of swinging and to be open to playing either way makes everyone feel part of it without fear of it becoming a show of sorts. |
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All down to personal preference. Huge number of men (dare I say most) are turned on by thought and image of 2 women together...why more taboo for women to feel same about 2 men?
For me it says the guy is open to many sexual experiences. Some of the best sex I've had has been with bi guys.. |
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I dont think I'd actively look for bi in a one on one meet. If it was going to be a mmf then I think it would just be more interesting all round if they were bi. |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
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"All down to personal preference. Huge number of men (dare I say most) are turned on by thought and image of 2 women together...why more taboo for women to feel same about 2 men?
For me it says the guy is open to many sexual experiences. Some of the best sex I've had has been with bi guys.. "
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We are a fully bi m/f couple. We find straight guys usually come with performance and/or jealousy issues when playing with couple's. Bi guys in the other hand tend to not carry this emotional baggage and like to get stuck in! |
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I’m going to add my bit. We’ve had meets with “trur Bi guys” and we’ve given guys a chance that have “straight” on there profile but are bi supposedly (normal reason is friends on site or ladies don’t like Bi guys)
The meets with true Bi guys are way more relaxed and very enjoyable meets with the “straight/bi guys it’s very obvious they only really want to play with me and give roxy a token play.
From now on we will only meet Bi guys or tv’s.
Mrs |
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"I’m going to add my bit. We’ve had meets with “trur Bi guys” and we’ve given guys a chance that have “straight” on there profile but are bi supposedly (normal reason is friends on site or ladies don’t like Bi guys)
The meets with true Bi guys are way more relaxed and very enjoyable meets with the “straight/bi guys it’s very obvious they only really want to play with me and give roxy a token play.
From now on we will only meet Bi guys or tv’s.
Mrs"
Absolutely agree with this,i was on as part of a couple with my ex and we had so many straight guys on profile for the reasons you mentioned but claimed they were bi, but like you it was very clear that they were just about ok to have there cock sucked by me just to get at my ex partner,from then on we met only with guys with bi on there profile |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Have only ever played with other guys at a Bi Night in a club and always as part of a couple, so the "Fab straight" issue doesn't arise there.
I do get contact on here though from "straight" guys who, on the rare occasions I chat to them, very quickly make it obvious their "interest" in me is limited to a way in to the couples profile I'm also part of - and that reason, coupled with the fact that if they're lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about, is the reason I won't meet with "Fab straight" guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, so I don’t meet one on one but from a couples perspective; it just makes the flow easier, it’s hot to watch, I can tap out for a bit and the fun carries on, it’s really hot to watch, it means I’m not putting all of the work in throughout the meet, it’s super hot to watch!
That’s just my opinion of course. "
Great reply As you say fun carries on while you can take a break but still enjoy watching win/win |
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