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Swingers clubs or home meets ??

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When we first started we always accommodated at our home and never struggled to get meets. Now it all seems to be to meet at a club, we haven't been to a club yet (due to lack of sitter difficulties) what are they like, are they the places to be now?? We're planning to try and visit one in Leeds xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the clubs are an excellent place to socialise and meet folk in an unpressured environment. The socials are also good if going into anther area where you don't know people.

I find event nights the best.

hope this helps have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clubs always

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We enjoy club meets or private meets. Unfortunately can't do clubs for a while.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot depends on your preferences. Some people love the spa' type clubs, with hot tub and pools. Others (like us) prefer the night club or cocktail bar style. And then there's the night (or even daytime) you choose to go. Do you want single men there, or do you prefer a couples only event? Decide on these two things first and you'll soon have a good shortlist.

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

We enjoy clubs as we get to dress up and get turned on whilst mentally undressing people and then seeing if they’re interested in letting us do it for real!

We also find that when we talk to people on fab, even though it seems that we will click, sometimes we don’t so a club puts less pressure on you and lets you ‘try’ other options...!

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Parties or private meets are best for me - if we do go to club it tends to be for a birthday party and we know everyone there anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When we first started we always accommodated at our home and never struggled to get meets. Now it all seems to be to meet at a club, we haven't been to a club yet (due to lack of sitter difficulties) what are they like, are they the places to be now?? We're planning to try and visit one in Leeds xx"

You have two very different options with the two Leeds clubs. Are you going for the full Pandora experience or the more intimate Quest?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clubs

I go to the Leeds ones, mainly. Less pressure and you get to meet some lovely people too. I would never meet at home... safe first in all areas

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

View either as options. Bit of variety. Try one or two and maybe a dress down and dress up type 1. Wet and none etc. People will tell you they have favourite types but that is something you will come to decide on over time. Don't drop home meets alltogether if they work for you though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just to clarify... as a single female I don’t do Home meets because it doesn’t feel safe. Don’t you change what works for you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We think clubs are more for the younger ones now and good luck to them, we use to go, but now feel old lol, home meets and private house party's are our fav now, find them more fun and a lot more relaxed, let's face guys, when we were younger, we went to clubs, normal ones that is, because there was more choices.

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By *reenleavesCouple over a year ago

North Wales

Clubs for us too!

It's more of an 'event' to get out to a club. Plus clubs are better equipped than our house is to entertain

We are also very wary of inviting people to our house.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

home for me ..

more personal and intimate and more relaxed for the lady / couple

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Clubs for us.

Home is where real life exists we dont want any psycho in our home and like to keep this life seperate.

Why take that risk?

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By *arciocialWoman over a year ago

Leicester

I prefer clubs for my own safety, once I know someone I may invite them to my home. But much prefer clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't know never been to either of them what are the differences what are they both like xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't know never been to either of them what are the differences what are they both like xx

You have two very different options with the two Leeds clubs. Are you going for the full Pandora experience or the more intimate Quest?"

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple over a year ago

Lust

Prefer private meets, but clubs definitely provide an erotic night out

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

We don’t do either !

Clubs seem way too socially orientated , and we have kids so can’t accomdate .

You may find the whole club thing difficult after only having home meets .

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By *indandfireCouple over a year ago

ashbourne

Good clubs are great places to meet, whatever your age, size, shape or sexual orientation.

We will arrange to meet at clubs now as my adult children are at home. We used to meet at home but often found people didn’t turn up, cancelled or were sometimes not what they appear over media. At a club these problems are of little importance.

Would never meet at home when there are children around of any age so home meets will need to wait a while

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We prefer home meets but as most of you know because of timewasters etc clubs are always a good plan b

Never found trouble in finding playmates in clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any females in Welwyn or Hatfield tonight up for 3some fun?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any females in Welwyn or Hatfield tonight up for 3some fun?"

Anyone seen my camel?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We always prefer clubs or parties, trying to organise a meet on here is too difficult so after the 3rd straight weekend we had a time waster we decided to give a club a go and loved it.

Loads of people, most are really friendly in most clubs and most had play rooms or equipment to enjoy even if it's just the 2 of you xx

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By *inkvaderMan over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood

"We always prefer clubs or parties, trying to organise a meet on here is too difficult so after the 3rd straight weekend we had a time waster we decided to give a club a go and loved it.

Loads of people, most are really friendly in most clubs and most had play rooms or equipment to enjoy even if it's just the 2 of you xx"

Agreed!!! Clubs are always fun xxx music is always questionable though

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By *inkvaderMan over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood

Call me a music snob

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By *hingy2Woman over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"the clubs are an excellent place to socialise and meet folk in an unpressured environment. The socials are also good if going into anther area where you don't know people.

I find event nights the best.

hope this helps have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Home it's private and confidential and easy to control.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We prefer home meets, be it at our home or the other people's/persons home..We did the clubs many years ago and now lost interest in that side of swinging. But it's down to what you fancy doing yourselves..you might find clubs suit you down to the ground or may not appeal once you have tried the club scene..give it a go see how you get on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

home meets as clubs arnt my thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Done both. Club meets do save a lot of stress for both parties.

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Love clubs, there is a sexual energy, plus you know that nobody is going to get upset with a little flirty innuendo.

Love the social buzz.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

Private meets all the way, because you KNOW you’re going to have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always clubs for unknowns, why risk a freak or a no show... I always think if it puts people off they are best filtered out, too cagey etc x

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By *inkvaderMan over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood

"Love clubs, there is a sexual energy, plus you know that nobody is going to get upset with a little flirty innuendo.

Love the social buzz."

And we all love a little sexual banter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can see a club is probably good for a solo lady or couples,but my nearest club charges a solo man a lot more to get in than women or couples with no guarantee of sex. I'm not a late night person so definately home meet is best for me.

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By *ipsxxCouple over a year ago

Definitely clubs for us.. we love the social side of chatting to many different people.. and find the club atmosphere very friendly x

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By *enninemarkMan over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Two very different meets.

Clubs are very social, with the excitement of flirting..not knowing who you will meet in a high sexual tension atmosphere. Usually with interesting facilities etc

Home meets are much more intimate. High tension between just those there.

I enjoy both equally for different reasons!

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Clubs for us, we enjoy the day to night spa type venues... time to relax and socialise and play with whoever takes your fancy.

We wouldn't accommodate and hotel meets are just too hit and miss.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"I can see a club is probably good for a solo lady or couples,but my nearest club charges a solo man a lot more to get in than women or couples with no guarantee of sex. I'm not a late night person so definately home meet is best for me."

The majority of clubs ‘limit’ the number of single guys by charging them a premium

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By *avenvalCouple over a year ago

Leicester

We have been let down at the last minute so often with home meetings that we now only meet at house parties and clubs.

If we are going to a Club we post a meet today so all our friends know where and when we will be there for them to join us if it fits in with their other commitments.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

Club meets for me & hotels

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definately clubs for us ..lots of timewasters on here lately and let downs ..so prefer the atmosphere socialising of a club meet x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clubs for us usually.

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